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EWCM? BBT? OPK? WTF?! We’re just not using contraception!

954 replies

frakkinaround · 23/02/2010 12:29

So a slightly lighter and less scary thread for those who are chucking away the pills and the condoms and hoping for the best!

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milanomum · 17/05/2010 13:00

Congrats Fuzzy! that's fantastic news!!
(hope some of that luck rubs off on us all)

Fuzzywood · 17/05/2010 13:26

Thanks all, I'm sure this is a lucky thread so hoping for lots of BFPs this month.
Takethat I'll definitely sti be hanging out over here so I can keep up with all the news.
Fingers crossed for a productive month, just remember keep jsing and bums in the air!

vallinnapod · 17/05/2010 18:41

Yay fuzzy! And howdy newbies!

Well, I think the minus degree surfing may have frozen everything internal and external. Had to check twice I still had 10 fingers and 10 toes it was so cold!!

I hope you are all keen to celebrate my 50th tomorrow...CD that is. GRRRRRR!!! Still I will wallow in sloppy blue cheese omelettes with a sushi sprinkling and pint of vodka. If that isn't enough to induce sickness in the most steely of stomachs!

Still must grumble, lovely boozy weekend! Will be a teeny bit sad to give that up for 9+ months!

MrsWajs · 17/05/2010 22:28

see told you I'd make it!!

takethatlady · 17/05/2010 22:49

[waves and does star-jumps at Mrswajs]. You made it! Now you can shag anxiety-free (and tell us all about it after...)

ljg72 · 17/05/2010 23:20

I also think this is a VERY lucky thread!!!! Good luck with the JS

MrsWajs · 17/05/2010 23:27

[star-jumps right back at takethatlady]

I'm off for some anxiety-free shagging right now haha!

Details to follow.........

PinkFondantFancy · 18/05/2010 07:37

BFP! V early days though so worried about getting excited too soon but can't help it!! Have got everything crossed for a sticky bean....

FrakkedUpTheElection · 18/05/2010 08:07

EEEEEEEEE!!!!!

Excited squeal for you, PFF. I'll be excited for you. This is a super lucky thread! Fingers crossed for you.

I think I may have ovulated yesterday but we were too tired for any shagging action. Did manage a fair amount over the weekend so maybe that was good timing? Not obsessing..

Vallinna I had a super-long cycle after stopping the pill but they seem to be getting back to normal. I think my body didn't really get that it had to kickstart itself! Good news is my gynae friend told me that it's possible to have a period without ovulating because your body needs to flush itself out and that usually gets a normal cycle back on track.

Fuzzywood · 18/05/2010 08:28

Yay PFF! Everything crossed for sticky beans all round

ljg72 · 18/05/2010 10:30

WOW!!!!!! more BFP!!!!! ACE ...I'm 5 weeks in with hopefully super sticky bean, want to tell everybody!!! but can't.
Will keep looking on thread for more BFP...good luck ladies!.

janedoe25 · 18/05/2010 11:14

Hi all, im new to this forum thing but thought i would join as my partner and I have decided to ban all contraception! Fingers crossed everyone!

takethatlady · 18/05/2010 11:28

Hello Jane - I hope this thread is as lucky for you as it seems to be for us! (Not me yet, but I'm barely even into my second cycle off the pill so it's very early days). The best thing about it for me is the banning of contraception - I've been taking that bloody pill for eleven years and every day before I go to bed I think 'yippee, I don't need to remember it' (of course I remember every day...). Now I have to remember folic acid, though

PFF waaaaahheeeeeyyyy!!! Cheers! [raises a glass of sparkly non-alcoholic beverage to PFF]. Congratulations on your BFP!

RedNinaBlue · 18/05/2010 11:32

Congrats to the BFPs, and good vibes to the BFPs-in-waiting!

A week of SWI begins at the RedNinaBlue household, and here's how I know it's definitely "WI" for my husband too: after sex, he oh-so-casually says: "You know, in The Big Lebowski, they said you should lie on your back with your knees in the air to help you get pregnant."

I find it amusing that while I'm thinking cycles and charts, his ideas of how to conceive come from Hollywood. (doubly amusing: he is a scientist, and usually won't consider anything without hard scientific evidence to back it up. But when TTC, apparently The Big Lebowski is reference enough!)

tryingforbbyno4 · 18/05/2010 16:01

heya everyone!

can i join as ur all freindly on ere.

me and my dh r tryin 2 concieve #4. we have 3 ds but really want a dd.

this is our 2nd month of trying b were jus bein relaxed bou it well trying 2 as af is due in jus 8 days

knittakid · 18/05/2010 17:45

Hi all,
can i join too? have to say, all those BFPs made me want to write! congratulations!
We have been TTC for 7 months after the pill, with a break in the middle. Only now comming back to my normal self.
I really thought this was the month but she arrived on the dot...

Miffles · 18/05/2010 18:29

Congrats all round for BFPs....keep us updated on the sticky bean situation! It must be so hard having that wonderful news and not being able to tell everyone. Shout it here instead - it encourages the rest of us!

Ha ha RedNinaBlue - that is just the science my DH would use!!

Since I don't have a cycle to speak of, I am JSing as much as possible and secretly hoping for a miracle. Reckon I'll give it another month then go visit the Doc. 2 AFs a month does not bode well for conception, me thinks.

vallinnapod · 18/05/2010 19:32

Evenin' all!

Was going to come on for a moan - what with it being CD50 but all the BFP happy news has cheered me up! Congrats all round lovely ladies.

I feel quite chilled about it all today (which won't stop me yelling at my uterus later, tee hee!)

miffles have you stolen my AF?!

Miffles · 18/05/2010 20:43

You're more than welcome to one, or even two, of my AFs Vallinnapod. But can't promise they're actually worth anything! Have you come off the pill, is that why your cycle is so long?

Fuzzywood · 18/05/2010 20:47

Apparently legs in the air or bum on pillow after jsing does help. Guess swimming up hill is difficult so gravity helps! Read it on a website somewhere so must be true [grins]
Sending good luck vibes to all.

PinkFondantFancy · 18/05/2010 20:52

Thanks for all the messages! I went to the Dr today and he just said "congratulations, so where do you want to have your baby" - eeeek! I hope the luck of the thread rubs off on all of you too! Will still be loitering around here for a bit, hope that's ok

williamsmummy1986 · 18/05/2010 21:27

Have been run off my feet and haven't been able to read thread in ages, most read it more - it keeps me smiling :-) Congrats on all the BFPs ladies, what great news.

Last month was a BFN for me but my other half is (not so) secretly pleased because he gets lots more just shagging this month - and boy is he taking advantage of that!

Only on month #2 and already bored of waiting for my BFP - dear me, "patience is a virtue" - I must have been back of the line when they were handing out that virtue then.

StarflowerGirl · 19/05/2010 08:36

Hi everyone. I'd like to join if that's ok. This looks like a really fun (and lucky) thread. Congrats to everyone who's had a BFP! I'm so happy for you all!

This is our first month TTC#1. My partner and I were going to wait until after our wedding (August 6th! Eeeep!) but he woke up one morning last month and decided "why wait?!" which took me by surprise I can tell you.

I'm 35 but refuse to listen to the naysayers who tell me it's harder to conceive at my age. Really not into taking temperatures etc either as I just don't have the time or inclination. We're JS rampantly instead!

I have an irregular cycle but after 24 years of visits from AF I'm pretty good at reading my body's signals and I think I may have ovulated yesterday. Which means I'm entering the 2 week wait tomorrow.

Good luck everyone! Here's to a bunch more BFPs!!!

janedoe25 · 19/05/2010 10:45

Congratultions to u all with BFP'S! We only just started "trying" on sunday after a year or so of discussions! It was my OH who suggested it- may have something to do with one of our close friends announcing their pregnancy on Sunday! But hey im not complaining, im soooo excited i have wanted to be a Mummy for as long as i can remember I am only 28!

Good luck everyone, cant wait to hear of more BFP's!

takethatlady · 19/05/2010 11:46

Hello jane, star and knitta. Gotta rush as I'm pretending to be doing very serious work at my desk and will get busted any second. But good luck JSing!

I am on day 7, which means I have a one week wait before I can even have the two week wait. I am filling my time by eating runny eggs and sushi and drinking cocktails before two weeks of boring food and abstinence...

DH is starting to get withdrawal symptoms on days we don't shag. It hasn't been like this since our uni days!