Cho, am not going to give up hope for you, as it ain't over until the metal bastard beeps!
Anyone want to hear about the fuckwittery of my Dr? Soz, am going to tell you anyway...
As the nurse was drawing the bloods, I noticed that on the form accompanying the phials of blood to be sent to the hospital had on it the following words: irregular periods, subfertility, patient query perimenopause. I was WTF at this and said to the nurse that this was incorrect. So I made her access my file (dunno if she was allowed to do this, but could see I was fuming) and saw that the Dr had written - over 3 hours after seeing me - that I'd discussed irregular periods, existing fertility issues and questioned if I was entering a premature menopause, giving examples! I hadn't said a fucking word to her about perimenopause, when asked if I had any proper fertility ishoos, I'd said never and when she asked about my periods I'd told her they were regular and exactly how they'd always been and that I could tell when I was ovulating, which was backed up by OPKs. And on my notes, she'd also written 'partner 58 yrs; query age-related subfertility'! When she had asked me how old my partner was, she misheard and I had to keep telling her he's 28.
So after reading this and thanking the Nurse, I went to complain at reception, but they wouldn't let me talk to the Dr, even thought she was there and said I would have to wait until Tuesday when the Dr would ring me, when she was next in (giving her time to cover over her shit, no doubt).
I realise that they need to put a coupla reasons for testing on the form, but why put bullshit? I think that on the day, she had just waited so long to write up our consultation that she'd forgotten the details and instead, just wrote up generic '35+ woman TTC issues' presumptively. I don't want wrong info about me on my medical files - apart from it just not being acceptable, it could wrongly affect how other medical people view me and my ishoos and how I'm treated; don't want to be treated like there's loads wrong with my fertility when nothing's been proven at all yet. Or have to keep explaining to people who presume I have menstrual issues that there's nothing wrong with me droid, etc., etc.
USELESS FUCKING BAG 'O' SHITE!
What is this, Official Medical Cuntery Week? Think me and PloppyPol deserve a win for all this being messed around (although Gemma's evil far outweighs my useless GP, obvy!). Gah!
PS Sorry for loooong self-indulgence.