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Don't you hate the last few days of the two week wait

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alliwantforxmasis · 01/01/2010 20:22

Am due today. AF not here yet so constantly running to the loo to check for evidence, constantly trying to work out if my areolas are darker, my boobs are bigger, my belly aching or my head aching! Did a test on Monday but BFN, prob too early either way. Is anyone else out there as barmy as me? TTC number 2 -took 4 years to persuade DP, so keen to get a BFP asap.

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whammie76 · 01/01/2010 22:20

Hi alliwantforxmasis (waves)

Me and DH have just agreed last month to TTC for no.2 - and it's taken me a few years too, DD has just turned 5. I'm not due AF until the 10th, and we were in time for ovulation - so will wait until then to test.
Only 'symptoms' I've had is going to the loo alot, very mild cramps and 'jabbing pains'. This was pretty much all the symptoms I had first time - no sickness, sore boobs etc. Good luck with TTC

anythingwithagiraffeonit · 02/01/2010 06:26

Sorry, I'm very new to this.. What is AF? What day are you waiting to test on? I was planning to do it the day I think my period is due, is this the same thing?

Kitchens · 02/01/2010 08:51

Hi Giraffe

AF = period.

With some pregnancy tests (first response or Clearblue) you can test 5-6 days before your period is due.

Hope this helps.

mumnerves · 02/01/2010 19:31

I've got 2 days left and convinced that I'm not pregnant

Got a bit of spotting today but just waiting now and it's driving me crazy. Doesn't help that I'm pre-menstrual and a moody weepy cow too!

LunaticFringe · 02/01/2010 19:50

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goandshowdaddy · 02/01/2010 21:40

Hello, I'm new to this forum. Nice to meet you.

I'm a bit unsure as to when my AF is due as my last two cycles (first two off the pill) were 29 then 25 days. Anyone got any helpful insights?

As far as I can tell I'm on day 21 at the min - when do you think's the earliest I can test? Can't wait - but know from experience that I probably should

Thanks

goandshowdaddy · 02/01/2010 21:41

p.s. hello alliwantforxmasis. Any update today?!

Kitchens · 02/01/2010 21:48

Hi Goandshowdaddy. Probably best to use your longest cycle as a guide for dates. Good luck. I'm waiting too. Did test on NYE but it was neg. Think I'm prob not pg but hope I am. Keep going to the loo and got sore boobs but ...... have to wait and see ....

goandshowdaddy · 02/01/2010 21:53

Hi Kitchens. Yep, that's what I thought, thanks - the days just seem to drag though, not sure if I'll be able to resist just one little test... I know I'll be disappointed if it's BFN though.

Ooh good luck to you too - will watch with fingers crossed.

whammie76 · 02/01/2010 21:54

Hi goandshowdaddy - love your username btw!

From what you say, I'd probably wait another week before testing if it were me - but I'm probably not the best person to advise, all this counting of days, noting dates - the thought is driving me nuts lol.

I had an awful night last night, tummy was aching - didn't help matters that DH was snoring his head off. Think I finally nodded off at 4am, never been like that before. wham xx

goandshowdaddy · 02/01/2010 22:30

Hello Whammie,

Thanks, going to hang on a bit longer if I can.

I keep thinking, I'll just try not to think about it this month but it's always in the back of my mind and I'm constantly adding up dates! Think I'm becoming obsessive, oh dear.

Good luck for the 10th - I'll keep looking for updates x

mumnerves · 02/01/2010 22:53

LunaticFringe: I'm due on weds too, just trying like you to keep my paws off the kits,
Nice to know someone else is crawling the walls with me, I'll keep my fingers crossed for you too! x

whammie76 · 02/01/2010 23:02

Good luck goandshowdaddy & lunaticfringe. FX for everyone else too.

LadyBee · 03/01/2010 15:09

Another one here due on Wednesday. I'm pretty sure I'm NOT pg, got absolutely no early symptoms at all. Not even the tiniest twinge. Was convinced I was last week as was very achey and felt like AF due, so I managed to decide that was definitely implantation, but without any other signs I'm now just sitting waiting and still hoping

I was going to try to wait until next Saturday if AF doesn't turn up on Weds, but I'm struggling now, if there were any tests in the house I'm sure I would have done one, but I know if it was BFN I'd just say 'well it was too early' and test again on Weds, wasting the money and gaining no reassurance at all . I'm just hoping going back to work on Monday helps keep my mind off things.

alliwantforxmasis · 03/01/2010 16:29

Hi all. Glad to know I am not alone. Thanks for your messages. If 28 day cycle (as last month) then due Friday just gone. Now Sunday. Slight spotting today. But only if I look for it (tmi, sorry!). Have period type pains though so think AF may come this evening. Will keep you informed. Good luck to all others who are waiting x

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mumnerves · 03/01/2010 17:43

I'm glad I'm not the only one seeing what I want to see

Good luck everyone for a BFP! fingers crossed!

lucylev · 03/01/2010 18:06

Am due tomo!! Holding out till Tues to test.. Fingers crossed to all x

LunaticFringe · 03/01/2010 19:28

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alliwantforxmasis · 03/01/2010 19:34

Gutted. Gave in and did a test. BFN. Am off skiing in a week, so atleast I can enjoy that. Maybe next month. Good luck to everyone else. xx

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mumnerves · 03/01/2010 20:14

sorry to hear about the BFN alliwant
Hope you enjoy your skiing trip x

mumofzac · 03/01/2010 20:35

Quick name change from alliwantforxmas (didn't get what I wanted!). Lunatic Fringe - don't get me started again! So fed up of the constant wondering and thinking did a preg test, get a BFN and now you have got me thinking again. He He. AF def arrived now, and combined with a BFN I think I can safely say not this month. Maybe next time..... All I want for Valentines day is..... x

whammie76 · 04/01/2010 14:40

mumofzac - have a lovely ski trip, just enjoy yourself - it maybe a BFP next month.

Wham x

yellowflowers · 04/01/2010 17:02

I agree - day 13 of tww today - all the symptoms are here so I know af coming. hate this bit.

LadyBee · 04/01/2010 20:25

does anyone else do the 'imaginary argument' thing? I feel like have a tug-of-war going on between the optimist-me and the realist-me. Optimist-me says "hang on, that's a metallic taste", realist me says "oh don't be silly, you're just getting hopes up and are going to be even more disappointed".

Anyway. Today I think I had a metallic taste. And I am going to be more disappointed with AF turns up in a couple of days.