jollster your not the only one, I'm already at the thought. It's bad enough that there's 1 person on here expecting twins, but 2 - thats just rubbing my nose in it.
Twins run in my family, so I was always told that it would happen to me. So far nothing.
I was a twin (died either in the womb or after birth - I've never been able to find out which), my father is a twin (his died at 21 of cerebal palsy or downs, I forget which), my grandfather is a twin and I think his father, my great-grandfather is also a twin.
The really amazing thing about this is that twins are supposed to run on the maternal side from what I've been told, or maybe I'm getting confused.
Anyway...
DS is in nursery until 3pm - yes, it's going to be a long day. Not my choice, but as I have to go back to work (also not my choice) we need to get him settled in there before hand.
I go back to work on Thursday . I wish the bastard government would suppport mothers and fathers who want to look after their child and raise them, instead of giving money to benefit fraudsters and drug addicts etc.
Don't know what to do with myself, I feel miserable that I'm not pregnant and everyone else is. I feel lost and the place is so quiet without DS. I miss him. It should be me looking after him, changing his nappy, feeding him and playing with him. Instead I get to pay someone £600 odd for being able to do that.
He screamed when he saw the women who look after him, which then made me start worrying about abuse and he was clinging on to me.
How as a mother are you supposed to just walk away. When I walked out the door he was crying his eyes out and crawled after me. How is he supposed to understand what is happening.
And things were just getting better between us, he was starting to come to me as well as DH - I've even had kisses and cuddles.
I just know he's going to completely ignore me when I pick him up and bring him home.
boodleboot fingers crossed your pregnant with twins and ASBO boy gets the book thrown at him.