Hello ladies, not been on for a while but I have given myself a few projects in the house to get done before lo arrives so been keeping very busy but having a much needed feet up day today so here for a catch up.
mls just had a quick look back at what happened with your scan, so sorry it wasn't the best news but don't give up on you little bean in there. I know you will have heard all the stories but the dates can so easily be out at this stage and you hpt test sounds very good. The emotions that we go through are torture, no other word for it, but I keep remembering the nightmare that vjay had to go through in the early days with Alex and just look at her now, hold onto that thought.
4ever keep clinging onto the hope stories hun. As you know my story has been going on nearly 2 years and deep down I had given up hope although I wouldn't fully admit it to myself. DH and I had basically said lets try one more time and what will be will be. I fell preg this time fully expecting to go on and mc again, the tears when I seen a hb this time were as much shock as relief. I finished work after being made redundant the day before I fell preg this time so I know the worry that also brings. In fact with each of my mc's the financial situation would have been perfect to have a baby, this time round it is not ideal and look what happens, it's almost like it's against the odds. Eight years ago today I married my fabulous DH, that day we could only see happy times and we had no idea the road that lay ahead for us but it has made us who we are, both together and as a family. Sorry if I am rambling (very sentimental these days) but I guess what I am trying to say is don't give up and even on the dark days keep clinging onto those stories of hope, it's the only way we get through them. I truely believe that you and your DH will be parents one day and your experiences together will go on to make you just the best parents ever...................your time will come.
barbie thinking about you today as I knew what this date mean't. Glad you sound upbeat, what a difference a year makes.
fifi sorry you are finding it hard atm, some of the days just seem so dark but it does get better and you do get through them. We have all been there so feel free to get it all out on here anytime.
hoping we took 6 months out ttc for our sanity, it just got to the point where I knew we had to. I know this time round I was in a much better place both physically and mentally and I believe it made a difference. Now I am sitting here 24 weeks preg feeling my lo kick away. I hope I will be sitting in 2010 reading about you feeling you lo kick.
vjay not posted yet but Alex is gorgeous, so happy for you hun and love the name. I am sure his big brother just loves having him around. DD for the first time felt her little brother or sister kick this morning, her face was a picture, another precious moment to remember.
cupcake congrats on your BFP, you must be thrilled, so happy for you.
Not much to report here, been really busy painting and stuff like that but time to give my back a rest now. Going to catch up with the rest of the thread then go decide what to cook for DH tonight for our anniversary dinner, sun is out here so thinking will probably cook on the bar-b-q before it goes away for the winter. Big waves to blue, jools, neeko, curly, mermaid, gracie, kate, moon, sabs, annie, lbm, baking, lionstar, iggy and sorry if I have missed anyone. Will post properly to you all later xx.