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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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munz · 15/05/2005 10:13

right then, here goes hope this one's as luck as Rom's thread,

we have some priority orders coming to the top for HQ, (will catch up on the old thread then post on this new one!)

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charleepeters · 20/05/2005 19:38

Hi i just had some news................ my sis is pg! i feel happy for her but bad at he same time because im absoulutly gutted they wernt actually trying, actually i dont know how to feel she sounded so happy on the phone i kinda feel empty.

Frizbe · 20/05/2005 19:43

Well that's good news for her charliepeters and for you as your going to be an auntie! anyway, your in the two week wait now, so you might be joining her right!

charleepeters · 20/05/2005 19:46

i supose its just i was dreading a bfn anyway but now im dreading it even more she knows were trying so its gonna make me feel bad and her feel bad at the same time its just annoying how people who want kids have hell getting them and peoplew ho dont mind get em easily, i am happy for them as they already have two beautiful little girls who i love to piece its just a bit of a blow i supose, just keep my fingers crossed i suppose.

can i ave an extra dose of foary dust this month im feeling down

wendy11 · 20/05/2005 19:56

Charleepeters - (((((hugs))))) It is hard. You are happy for them but at the same time a wee voice is saying why not me, but it soon will be you

charleepeters · 20/05/2005 19:58

Thanks |Wendy i feel so stupid im close to tears i cant explain it, i feel so guilty feeling like this my poor sis she didnt ask to fall pg before me!

milosmum · 20/05/2005 20:27

oh charlee {sad] we all feel it! as much as the ladies on this thread help, each time one of them falls pregnant i want to scream! im happy for them as i know they must be joyus but then i do think when will it be my turn....

i do console myself with the gact that if number 2 is never gonna happen at least i have my DS....

and munz - you very down also? hugs to you too... its seems to catch on this thread once one gets depressed we all drop like flies with it! im due to test in the next couple of days but really can t bare another BFN, so i know just how you feel (we all do!)

Frizbe · 20/05/2005 20:31

Oh Milosmum n Munz, please cheer up I know its not easy, when you have to do all of this waiting around, but it will be you one of these months, I promise (gaw'd I sound like the woman doing the lottery ad's) and in the meantime, grab the choc's, booze, blue cheese, pate and all the other things you can't have during pregnancy!

charleepeters · 20/05/2005 20:32

i have perios type pains but AF not due for 12 days anyone else get there period pains early???? oh god dont tell me all that stupid bleeding is gonna start up i really will cry if it does!

Frizbe · 20/05/2005 20:36

I know you should have ov'd but could you be ov'ing, as I get period type pains when I am?

charleepeters · 20/05/2005 20:37

i have pains in my boobs (i know its not early pg sicns not that quick!) to but will bd incase it is ov!

charleepeters · 20/05/2005 20:38

nave had pains for couple of days feels like when ur period is about to start

Frizbe · 20/05/2005 20:46

Urm, sorry dunno mate, my boobs don't really seem to come into it for periods? I guess you'll just have to wait and see?

milosmum · 20/05/2005 20:46

im ok frizbe - just feeling sorry for myself! it helps soooo much being able to talk to you guys. in RL non of my friends understand -they are all still into going out and having a laugh- having a husband and children is a long way off for them. They thought i was crazy getting married at 22 but time has shown i was right! god listen to me whinging on like im ancient- im twenty bloody eight this year!!!!

i shall shake myself off and start with a smiley face tomorrow!

charleepeters · 21/05/2005 08:35

Morning all, Period type pains seem to have gone this morning so dont know what was going on there suppose i could of ovulated a little later than expected, i have had EWCM for 3 days now what does that mean good/bad??? sorry im kind new and dont know alot about CM
I have woken up this orning feeling alot better and im very happy for my sis and her dp,.
I hope everyone who ws yesterday is feeling better, its peeing down with rain here so im bored so i hope your all gonna be active chatters today, i really wanna test but AF not due for 11 days well hope to heref rom you all bright and early today!

munz · 21/05/2005 09:44

charlee - well yes at least u're gonna be an aunt, I know it's hard but please try to osund happy for your sis even if u go home and have a good cry about it, don't let her know. ((((hugs)))) I used to get OV pains as ell, (only slight ones) now I get nothing, no real period pains( in fact only symptoms - grumpyness and all) and no OV pains so how's a girl to know?

i'm trying to pick up again, CM seems thin today again, so will go and grab DH b4 he gets out of bed, the thing is thou I just wanns know when's it gonna be my turn? when will I get the BFP? I'm really not sure I can keep doing this for much longer as the BFN's are heart breaking and all I want to do at the minute is sit down and have a good cry, but then DH will be upset cos I can't even tell him why I wanna cry cos I'm not 100 sure, bloody hormones. mainly thou I just wanna stay in my house and not see/talk to anyone,(and have done since thursday I just can't be arsed which is so unlike me, normally i'm the exact opposite. my boobs are sore, my whole body aches (prob thru doing too much at swimming on thursday) and generally things are crap, cos today my body's decided to make me feel sick after eating my brekkie, oh and it looks like my wisdom teeth are coming thru, so I have jaw ache as well - some one just shoot me now! anyhow sorry girls moan over. i'll try to shake it off b4 I come back agian promise!

friz - thanks hon, but I think i'll get m,y sleep whilst I can, i'm constantly tired at the minute which is prob why i'm feeling so anti social! and isn't it typical that RM get it wrong and go via japan? everything goes via japan/china these days!

rom - hope ur night out was good.

MM - u too huh? the 2ww is the worst part of it I think cos u can't be arsed to BD cos u know it won't get anywhere hormones are all over the place! god who'd be a woman huh?

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charleepeters · 21/05/2005 10:16

Munz - dont worry i wont let her know how im feeling, it will happen for me soon i hope then it will be a magic time to share together, i have told her i will help her when she needs me and im really happy for her, which i am its just a wee bit of me that thinks why not me??? but i am happy and i wish her all the best and i do get to be an aunt for the 4th time!

Tabs · 21/05/2005 10:37

Morning all

Well it's another day, so another day closer to finding out if we're going to get BFPs this month!

Munz - sore boobs, achey body, feeling sick - couldn't these be 'signs'???

Charlee - bless, you're going to have to learn to be more patient I'm afraid, though I'm sure we'd all love a 'next day' test too!!!

Trix - think you should hold off til Saturday to test, so that we can do them on the same day (if no AF of course!). My temps went a bit weird round ov this month, so although I think I will be 15 DPO then, I may only be 13, so def not testing any earlier.

Hello to everyone else, and hope you're all having lovely weekends, and watching Eurovision this evening!

charleepeters · 21/05/2005 10:38

Thanks Tabs i know im sooooooo impatient and i will of course wait i dont wanna waist tests just because im being silly!

munz · 21/05/2005 10:46

tabs - no highly unlikely, I think it's all pre AF signs as yesterday I was really grouchy with DH, he couldn't do anything right, but then again he was irritable anyways cos he had no sleep on thurs and also isn't smoking - a barrel of laughs there then! not gettingmy hopes up at all this month.

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Trix1 · 21/05/2005 11:19

Oh the thought of not having a BFP this month is really depresing. I ahve just been searching on the net to see if there are any other tests i can do NOW and theres not

I did read that you can have blood tests done at the hospital that may be able to advise if you were pregnant. But i dont suppose I can just pop into the local hospital looking for a blood test they would keep me there on the grounds of not being mentally minded

Day 23 today - do you not think I should test on day 28 - Thursday

Munz - you do sound like you could have a BFP on the way - when is AF due.

munz · 21/05/2005 11:22

trix - honestly I have no idea! i'll be testing on the 1st june if no AF which hopefully there won't be. (that will be 28 days) might have to cave in and buy a test from boots (i'll go all out and buy expensive ones this month I think if I do, althou I doubt we're lucky this month.

when r u due to test/is AF coming, the first responce ones are ment to be good (3 day b4 af apparently)

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for us all! off to wake DH up now and get in some BD as can fell a stack of EWCM so might as well take advantage!

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Trix1 · 21/05/2005 11:27

Can you buy First Response from ebay or somewhere else that is cheaper than Boots. I spend a fortune every month buying from Boots - testing and then half an hour later AF arrives

charleepeters · 21/05/2005 11:28

how soon can u use first response??

Trix1 · 21/05/2005 11:45

Hi Charlee - Going on what Munz said three days before AF due so for me with a 28 day cycle that would be day 26 (Tuesday) -

Do they really detect pregnancy that early does anyone know??

munz · 21/05/2005 12:08

aparently so yes, on ebay there is a few FR tests 2 for 6 I think and CB ones the same, they have early detection on there as well which apparently show a BFP from 7DPO and others are 9 DPO

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