**********March 2010 Bus*********** TTC for March 2010, Join me....

[Rtuff]

Hi everyone,

The March bus is now departing, Everyone welcome....

Rtuff: TTC#2 Cycle 13 UCL 30 CD 2

Oh hello I am secretly starting to TTC#4 this month would love a March baby

Only thing is AF is MIA, am still BFing DD3, had bleeding last month for 3 days thought it was AF returning, was due AF last week but nothing, did a test and it was BFN, usually have a 27 day cycle, now when I am Oving etc.

So can I hang out here until she shows her face? Must be the only one wanting her to turn up this month lol

I remember you from March08 for a while. (I was DontlookatmeImshy)

Thanks, NancyPreg. What help am I looking for? I just don't know! All I know is that I fell pregnant instantly with my first DD. Now, 6 years older and with a new DP, we're just not having any luck, despite charts, temperatures and OV kits. I'm 37 so we can't hang around! My bloods have come back normal, DP has a sperm test next month, and next week I'll see what other investigations they'll do into me... Ooo-errrr!

I have a feeling I've had two non-stickies in the last 7 months - I was sure I was pregnant in Dec and again this month, but who knows?

Good luck for you with your gynae appt. Why have you been referred?

Dlamis - you have a good memory yes I was due March 08, had a mc, then DD3 in July 08, DH and I had a good old chat and decided we both wanted one more (gulp) sooner rather than later as we don't want a big gap to number 4 so here I am, huge secret though no one in RL will approve, not that I care.

So your off for number 3 then I adore having 3, DD3 is an utter joy adored by everyone?

welcome newbies.

Well i'm feeling lucky this month. Next monday 15th would be earliest I coule reliably test though, this is gonna be a long week.

hobnob, good luck with your tests and hope you get some answers if there is a problem (which there might not be of course and March could be your month!). I've been referred because I've had three consecutive mc in the last 9mths (the first two were discovered at 12wks but the third one I mc spontaneously last week) so I'm wondering about the reason why. My doc today didn't even seem to think that you had to have three mc to get referred so I could've pursued a referral in Feb but never mind.

liaghen - fingers crossed for you and everyone else this month!

Thanks for the welcome NancyPreg, it's nice to feel like i'm going through this with others - all my friends have already had kids and would be quite shocked if I told them me and DP are trying (after 10 years of protesting we've given in to our biological clocks!)

Am thinking of buying some ovulation tests as cycle can vary 28-32 days and think I need to get to know it better! Anyone have any advice on which ones etc?

Thanks for the welcome ladies, this will be my fifth time ttc so feel like a bit of an expert

Re: OPKs I have used the Clearblue Digital ones and ebay cheapie ones, I was surprised using them for the first time as I have a 27 day cycle but OV day 15 which is later than I thought. It's good to know when you OV I think, also looking for other signs, I have never done temping but I have very definite EWCM.

I am trying to drop a few more feeds with DD3 to see if this will trigger anything, she's 11 months now but has quite a few feeds in the night still as she doesn't sleep well

liaghen - fingers crossed for you

Nancypreg - so sorry to hear about your mcs but glad you have been referred

SK - yep we're going for no3. Like you it's a case of doing it sooner rather than later and not wanting too big a gap,and no-one in RL knows we are trying yet, (although some know we may try one day). STill bf'ing ds2 and cycles are a bit eratic though.

Dh did say last night he thinks 4 is a good number. My face was .

Hobnob - hope you get some answers soon.

NancyPreg - glad you got your referal

Teeny - We were married 9 years before we started ttc. Quite a few grandparentspeople had given up waiting were a bit suprised when it finally happened.

We are going away for a few days which should pass a bit of time in the 2ww. Fingers crossed liahgen will have a BFP by the time we get back.

Dlamis - I don't want to stop feeding DD3 completely just try and get her to stop using me as a dummy at night, can I ask you are you on my FB, don't want to "out" you but if you are (and I think I know how you are) can you send me a message , I'm TTC in secret as well.

I'm so sorry, NancyPreg - that must be some rollercoaster you've been on the last nine months. Good news on the referral - I hope they get to the bottom of it quickly - I'm sure they will.

Ikwym, ds uses me as a dummy at night too. He has only ever slept through twice, last week 2 nights together and i started getting all excited tinking we'd cracked it but it wasn't to be.

I don't think i'm on your facebook, afaik i'm not on anybodys unless i got on there by accident!. I'm all intrigued now

I'm still feeding dd who is 2yrs. Morning and night. I cut it down to once to get periods back in septmember but once I got them, upped it back to twice. Thinking of giving up altogether now though. If we not lucky this month, I will.

I've used cheapie ebay OPK's with not very easily readable positives, (ie not that positive), this month used Clearblue digital and got smiley face on day 13 so for me too slightly longer thanI thought, with a 26 day cycle.

Fingers crossed for everyone this month, lets make this the luckiest bus.

Thanks for your advice ladies, am off to buy clear blue digital OPKs at lunchtime have told DP he should prepare for a BD marathon this month!

Really hope this is a lucky bus for us all. I seem to know so many people having probs, have a colleague going through IVF after 3 years TTC and have everything crossed for her. Makes me feel guilty for being impatient after 3 cycles but we all need reassurance sometimes I feel. With TTC#1 in my 30's after 10 years with DP using only withdrawal for 6 years I have to consciously banish the niggling thoughts that it should have happened by accident by now really and try to be positive. Although contrary to warnings from school nurse I do know A LOT of people that have used withdrawal and not had any accidents!

Good luck to all on the March bus, I have a good feeling about this and am looking forward to knicker checking and symptom spotting madness!

sweetkitty - my DS (7 months) has started doing his nights when i actually stopped feeding him at night and left him in his bed for the night.
We went cold turkey and he didnt cry that much tbh and it really worked after a week.
he is doing 8.30pm til 6am now.

Im on the 2ww... AF are planned for the 24th and Im due to test on the 28th... will be at my parents that week...

tostaky - we have a plan of action for next month when DH is on holiday, we are moving her into her own room and DH will stay with her when she wakes to comfort her but no boob, I will be completely out the picture as if she sees me she will cry even more, she won't be left alone to cry but once she realises she isn't getting a feed then hopefully she will sleep through, worked in two nights with DD2 at a year so hopefully it will be the same with DD3. Best of luck on your 2ww, I am the most impatient person ever I always say I am not testing until AF is late but end up peeing on ebay cheapies and driving myself mad squinting at them from about 10dpo. No willpower.

This month I promise to NOT TEST TOO EARLY!!!!! That is my promise, but those nagging wishes and hopes always snare me early!

I'm going away on a 2 week trip from 8 July, period is due around 28 June, so I will try very very very hard to not test until 1st July....

I know I'm not the only one who does this!

TLC I am already working out the earlies I could test this month, and with my 26 day cycle, I make it Sunday.

Can't make rash promises of not testing too early this month. Good luck to you.

Evening Ladies ...

Ouch still feeling tired but no other changes that I can see/feel. Although, I do have a very light, clear discharge - could this be a sign that AF coming towards the end of the week? Oh I dont know if I can handle another negative month!

ok, I think the list is out cos Monday and Tuesday are displaying cycle days same.

sorry I don't know how to rectify it

new, you must be able to test soon aren't you? I don't know how you could resist.

I've updated the list for today:

SAEJ: TTC#2 Cycle3 UCL3O CD24
Dlamis: TTC#3 Cycle1 UCL28-35 CD23
Lizkin: TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 28-32 CD22
Newmember: TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL24-25 CD20
Tostaky: TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL3Oish CD20
Liahgen: TTC#6 Cycle4 UCL26 CD19
ApuskiDusky: TTC#2 Cycle3 UCL31 CD19
Rtuff: TTC#2 Cycle13 UCL3O CD17
donttrythisathome: TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL28-32 CD17
ilove2shop: TTC#1 Cycle6 UCL28 CD17 (opk+ CD13)
LittleOneMum: TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL32-33 CD17
FloweringCurrent: TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL27 CD16
skihorse: TTC#1 Cycle8 UCL26 CD14
Shopna: TTC#2 Cycle2 UCL28 CD13
TakeLovingChanges: TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL26-31 CD13
Trigger: TTC#1 Cycle1-post-MC UCL? CD13 incl day of mc
potatofactory: TTC#2 Cycle3 UCL25 CD12
opsocks: TTC#3 Cycle3 UCL28 CD12
KayCadburyButton: TTC#1 Cycle12 UCL29-3O CD11
Summer2OO8 TTC#1 Cycle2 UCL34 CD8
MissieK TTC#1 Cycle4 UCL28 CD8
teenycalls TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL30 CD8
NancyPreg TTC#3 Cycle1 UCL26-7 CD57

Dlamis, please add your details to the list when you get the chance!!

Another week for me at least until I expect to see any mid-cycle changes...guess this is
2ww Mark 1, equally dull but not quite as exciting as 2ww Mark 2

Think this is correct now??x

SAEJ: TTC#2 Cycle3 UCL3O CD24
Dlamis: TTC#3 Cycle1 UCL28-35 CD23
Lizkin: TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 28-32 CD22
Newmember: TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL24-25 CD20
Tostaky: TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL3Oish CD20
Liahgen: TTC#6 Cycle4 UCL26 CD19
ApuskiDusky: TTC#2 Cycle3 UCL31 CD19
Rtuff: TTC#2 Cycle13 UCL3O CD17
donttrythisathome: TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL28-32 CD17
ilove2shop: TTC#1 Cycle6 UCL28 CD17 (opk+ CD13)
LittleOneMum: TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL32-33 CD17
FloweringCurrent: TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL27 CD16
skihorse: TTC#1 Cycle8 UCL26 CD14
Shopna: TTC#2 Cycle2 UCL28 CD13
TakeLovingChanges: TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL26-31 CD13
Trigger: TTC#1 Cycle1-post-MC UCL? CD13 incl day of mc
potatofactory: TTC#2 Cycle3 UCL25 CD12
opsocks: TTC#3 Cycle3 UCL28 CD12
KayCadburyButton: TTC#1 Cycle12 UCL29-3O CD11
Summer2OO8 TTC#1 Cycle2 UCL34 CD8
MissieK TTC#1 Cycle4 UCL28 CD8
teenycalls TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL30 CD8
NancyPreg TTC#3 Cycle1 UCL26-7 CD7
Hobnob TTC#2, cycle 8, UCL 26-28, CD3

haha!! within seconds! :0)

, just seen the error against my CD!! Try again:

SAEJ: TTC#2 Cycle3 UCL3O CD24
Dlamis: TTC#3 Cycle1 UCL28-35 CD23
Lizkin: TTC#1 Cycle 2 UCL 28-32 CD22
Newmember: TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL24-25 CD20
Tostaky: TTC#2 Cycle1 UCL3Oish CD20
Liahgen: TTC#6 Cycle4 UCL26 CD19
ApuskiDusky: TTC#2 Cycle3 UCL31 CD19
Rtuff: TTC#2 Cycle13 UCL3O CD17
donttrythisathome: TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL28-32 CD17
ilove2shop: TTC#1 Cycle6 UCL28 CD17 (opk+ CD13)
LittleOneMum: TTC#2 Cycle4 UCL32-33 CD17
FloweringCurrent: TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL27 CD16
skihorse: TTC#1 Cycle8 UCL26 CD14
Shopna: TTC#2 Cycle2 UCL28 CD13
TakeLovingChanges: TTC#1 Cycle3 UCL26-31 CD13
Trigger: TTC#1 Cycle1-post-MC UCL? CD13 incl day of mc
potatofactory: TTC#2 Cycle3 UCL25 CD12
opsocks: TTC#3 Cycle3 UCL28 CD12
KayCadburyButton: TTC#1 Cycle12 UCL29-3O CD11
Summer2OO8 TTC#1 Cycle2 UCL34 CD8
MissieK TTC#1 Cycle4 UCL28 CD8
teenycalls TTC#1 Cycle 3 UCL30 CD8
NancyPreg TTC#3 Cycle1 UCL26-7 CD7