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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Twenties ttc -- all aboard!!!!!

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seanybosmummy · 16/04/2009 15:46

Hey girls here's the new thread

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Bubblebell1 · 07/07/2009 14:07

whitty sorry about the spottin. BUT it aint over til its over treacle xxxx

kaylo i hope this is my lucky month too. i dont fancy taking this clomid again.

how u doin?

Kaylo · 07/07/2009 14:54

Well hello

Whitty Chip up honey - it ain't over yet! Sending you smiles and optimism

Beans Does that mean you're testing tomorrow if no sign of the monthly witch?

Bubble Glad to see you smiling chick! Sending you lots of happy vibes ---->

Kaylo · 07/07/2009 16:31

errrr Whitty - I meant CHIN up not CHIP

whittywantababy6 · 07/07/2009 17:43

Hey ladies well Im officially out I dropped a blood clot...this is now cycle 9 dont thing Im cut out for this.

Kaylo · 07/07/2009 21:52

Whitty Please stay with us...I have faith that it will happen for you but I certainly understand how heartbreaking it can be. It took a while to conceive our DS but it's so worth it, all the waiting around - all the worry while you're pregnant, I had SPD and was even grateful for that.

Please try to stay positive - I know it's difficult. If you need to take a break from TTC then do that...you never know It might even happen then when you're not trying.

Thinking of you! p.s - did you get the smiles I sent you (couldn't afford recorded delivery )
xxx
Hows everyone else tonight?
xx xx xx

whittywantababy6 · 08/07/2009 02:47

thanks kaylo right now that was probably the best thing I have heard and thank you for the smiles...

I will take a break just going to enjoy the moment wont worry about when I ovulate might not even temp...just take a break I wont leave you guys though

Kaylo · 08/07/2009 17:46

Hi Whitty I'm glad to see you here still!

Can I be honest with you...I was so clueless about TTC when we were trying that I didn't have a clue about temping and only vaguely understood ovulation - enough to but the test sticks and have a go with them. I'm not doing the temping this time either - I'll forget or not do it right or not get time etc... I'm rubbish with stuff like that. And I'm pretty sure my mum and sister, auntie etc never did anything like that either.
I think sometimes it can make you MORE stressed with it all because you know you've done everything right and exactly how it says on websites/books.

I'm glad you're not leaving
Take Care hun - enjoy your time together cos it definitely goes out of the window when you have kids [we barely have time to do it nowadays at all!!!

x xx xx x

Antdamm · 10/07/2009 12:27

Hey ladies,

Well, AF got me this morning but I knew she was coming. Roll on next week.

How is everyone else?
Bubble? Seany? Kaylo? Whitty? Suzhi? Joy? Meanbean? Any news? Any progress?

Its my birthday tomorrow!! Yay! And I will be 24. Woo hoo for me.

Hope everyone is well.

Bubblebell1 · 10/07/2009 16:33

ant its my sisters birthday tomorrow aswell!! Happy birthday... get really drunk and enjoy urself

on day 5 of clomid no side effects as yet.. fingers crossed they stay away.

Goin out tonight with DH and tomorrow away for my sisters birthday CANT WAIT

hope ur all well..

xxxxx

Kaylo · 10/07/2009 21:53

Hellooooo [waves frantically]

I'm still here

How are you two?? Not many people on here lately is there?
I wonder how Whitty is? So for her - hope she's doing ok.

Ant Happy Birthday for tomorrow - I'm 24 too - it's fab!

Bubble Sooooo glad theres no side effects as of yet Very much hope it stays that way for you hun.
Hope your sister has a great birthday (and you enjoy the celebration.

x xx x

whittywantababy6 · 11/07/2009 03:35

Hey Everybody just checking in...I had a good day relaxed and had a whole bottle of wine to myself and nice big one...

ant happy birthday honey...whew I cant wait to hit 24 the end of the year anyways enjoy your day and dont worry about ttc

As for the rest hope you guys are peachy

Meanbeansmum · 11/07/2009 09:03

Ant, happy birthday!!!! 24 is a fab age!

Af found me.

Hope we get some bfp's soon.xx

Bubblebell1 · 11/07/2009 09:45

Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday to you
Happy birthday dear ant
Happy birthday to you.

hope you get spoilt and have a lovely day.

whitty make sure u drown ur sorrows babe. then get back on this ttc rollercoaster and get a bfp this time

mean im sorry af got u. good luck for this next cycle..

kaylo how r ya honey? is the sick leave driving u round the twist?

xxx

Kaylo · 11/07/2009 22:48

Happy Birthday Ant and Bubble's sister. Hope it's pampered bliss for you both.

Whitty hope you're enjoying you're break hun and you're not as stressed.

Beans DAMN AF!!! Although she's due to get me next week as well - Monday if she's punctual!!

Bubble I'm good thanks hun - you? Hope everything with clomid still good Sick leave seems to have done it's job so far - feel back to normal but think when I get back to work it'll hit me again, oh well. Gonna start TTC in 4-5 weeks so am just focusing on that and hoping for best Have really enjoyed the 5 weeks off tho - reeeeally don't wanna go back

Hoping everyone else is fine and dandy xxx

whittywantababy6 · 12/07/2009 15:40

Hey girlies, hope everyone is enjoying the weather...ant I hope your birthday was lovely...beans Im sorry af got you to...

Well ladies I have bad news to bare well good and bad...I ordered Presees since everyone claims they get pregnant the first time...but the only issue I now have is that the dear love of my life wants to wait until we get married now since we have been ttc for 8 months. So I think Im out of the race until January we shall see he said hes not going to try anymore but he isnt going to prevent it....I think he will use the pull out method...

so once again I drank another bottle of wine and cried because I was really anxious to try the preseed and I dont want to try it and then feel like I trapped him... oh well gotta go...

Kaylo · 12/07/2009 17:25

Oh Whitty Have you told him about the preseed? I've also heard good things about it!! When is it you get married? ((((hugs))))
I don't know what to say honey - could it be a blessing in disguise perhaps? It may not be much of a consolation but if you conceived after you were married - you would all have the same name on baby's birth certificate.

Is he open to discussion on it? If you're getting married in next few months - you may be showing that much anyway so it will be an exciting secret for you to keep.

Whatever happens - I wish you well hun - looking forward to seeing you on here again

xxxxx

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seanybosmummy · 12/07/2009 19:57

Hiya everyone

Happy belated birthday ant, hope you had a lovely day and got spoilt rotten

bubble happy to hear you have had no side effects this month . did you enjoy your night out?

whitty i hope you and your dp manage to sort something out,im sorry your feeling so down.

kaylo how are you? Glad to hear you're making the most of your time off-when are you back?

mean and ant sorry the witch got you-chins up for next month.

joy, suzi, plant, rach, lou- how are you all keeping?

Sorry if i have left anyone out-its been so long since i've been on.

Just a little update on me- af has still not arrived. im on cd53. had a blood test last tue and was neg for pg (hcg level was 5).
Have been having some random strong cramps since last wk, but still nothing happening. i guess i just skipped a month, as af is due again next wk. [sigh]

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seanybosmummy · 12/07/2009 19:59

its weird though, i've had this feeling for the past couple of weeks that afs just not gonna turn up at all

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Trying4Baby1 · 13/07/2009 22:31

Hi there, just joined mumsnet, hope you guys don't mind if I join you. I'm 29 and just started trying for my first. Feel a bit behind everyone as I don't understand half the lingo but I'm sure I'll pick it up as I go along.

Ladylou83 · 13/07/2009 22:46

Hi trying4baby1

Im also new to this, and I agree, I dont understand half the lingo, but Im getting there.

I joined about 3 days ago, and am also trying for my first (at 26).

Good Lucj, happy BD...

Bubblebell1 · 14/07/2009 12:05

hi everyone.

seany i hope u get af soon and can start tryin again soon. have u been to the dr and asked them to investigate the cause of your irregular periods?

hi and welcome to lady and tryin... good luck. i hope you get a BFP soon

had a brilliant time out this weekend.

am on day 9 and just waiting for the bd marathon to commence.

Antdamm · 14/07/2009 12:21

Hi ladies,

I had thought I had posted this previoulsy, but obviously wasn't paying attention

Will be AWOL for about a week. On my birthday we got a call from DP's Stepmum to tell us that DP's cousin was hit by a lorry outside T in The Park and died. He was only 17

SO DP is arranging to go back to Scotland for the funeral. So we will be taking things slowly for a while afterwards.

Be back soon

whittywantababy6 · 14/07/2009 12:57

Hey ladies old and new welcome...ant Im sorry for your loss 17 is so young take it easy.

Hope everyone is doing well...Im back to work and trying to stay positive guess I will just plan my lovely wedding since I cant plan for my child...but we shall see I think we just may stop trying until september which works for me.

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seanybosmummy · 15/07/2009 21:34

hey everyone,

welcome trying and ladylou, best of luck to you both.

ant im so sorry to hear your sad news,that is such a tragedy . Hope you're ok.

bubble how are you? My next af is due on monday so i am waiting until i miss that one then im going to the doc again to demand tests or something be done. Im also going to change my doctor at long last cause the one i have is keeky bobo. enjoy your next couple of days

whitty im glad to hear your sounding a bit more positive.

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April80 · 15/07/2009 22:39

Hi everyone! I'm really new to all this and not good on computers and especially bad with all these abbreviations!! Was hoping to join in with you girls!?
I came off my pill the 19th june and got a lighter than normal af a week later. I have got everything crossed that i'll get a bfp first go this time round! We are TTC number 2, first baby took 9 months.