Twenties ttc -- all aboard!!!!!

[seanybosmummy]

Hey girls here's the new thread

Hi Ant, I'm so sorry about your BFN!! Are you ok? You're still late tho aren't you? What do u think, just a long cycle? Has AF even hinted her arrival yet? Wish I could give you better advice hun - I know how disappointing and often devastating it can be to have a little bit hope evaporate in front of you.
I'm also sorry that I haven't had much of a chance to come online today - DS's 3rd birthday and we've been out visiting family who couldn't come visit him.

Heres looking forward to next month with lots BD'ing and positivity (in every sense of the word! ) - because if nothing else we have to stay optimistic. Oooooh, I wish I had some pom poms!!

"Zero, One, Two, Three
What do we want...a BFP!!
Seven, Eight, Nine, Ten
If it's not a BFP we'll try again!!
Wooooooo - go team!!"

Hows everyone else, it's sounding like an empty sports hall in here.

Wherever you are - I hope you're having fun and are all well

Joy, 2-3 times a day was what was needed for ds2 lol. Although on average....this month according to my chart I've managed 14 times, we missed ovulation though lol. Always next month.

Good luck to all those undergoing treatment and to all those waiting to POAS.

Ant sorry about the BFN, I tested -ve with ds2 on cd 34 and then had a bleed and had a bfp on cd 36.....you never know, good luck.x

Hi girls!

ant im sorry it was a BFN i hope you get some answers soon. As for drowning your sorrows.... I would !!!

Hi and welcome to meanbean good luck on this ttc rollercoaster.

How is everyone else?

Im ok. Pissed that the clomid didnt work and that i have to take it again. Dreading the side effects... will end up with a divorce not a baby!!!

Hi girls,

I just popped back for a sec:

Welcome meanbeansmum

Bubble im so sorry to hear your results,i really hope the higher dosage works for you this month xx

Ant sorry about your bfn, though meanbean is right,you just never know,as that bleed you had was really strange.x

Hope everyone else is doing ok.

kaylo love the cheering

And just to update on me-af is officially 2 weeks late!! This is the longest cycle ever. Did test yest but bfn.Wish af would just hurry up so i can get on with my life! Though i don't know why but ive just got the strangest feeling that its not coming.who knows.

Have a good wkend everyone

ps suzi hope you're ok x

Sorry forgot to say hello to you rach

Hi seany
so sorry AF hasnt shown again.. unfortunatly its an indication that you havnt ovulated which u knew already from the blood test on day 21.

my gp described irregular periods as this..... estrogen is the dominant hormone during the first part of your cycle and it prepares the womb lining. at the point of ovulation progesterone takes over and maintains the womb lining.. if no ovulation occurs then the estrogen continues to thicken the womb lining until it cant maintain it any longer. causing a bleed.... this is not a period merely our body not managing to mantain the thick womb lining and we often think its our period.

Have you had any of your tests done yet? u need to go armed with info on assisted fertility etc and get your gp to pull his bloody finger out... if he went any slower u would b moving backwards.
I feel so frustrated for you... u should be getting help.. tis not fair.

xxx

Morning girls!

Seany, so sorry that you are in limbo, annovulatory cycles are cruel.
Bubblebell, so sorry that clomid didn';t work. My friend went through 5 months of clomid and then she conceived her little boy. One ogf my other friends had clomid twins and is on her second clomid pg, keep the faith, it will be worth it.

CD26 here, last month af arrived on cd 29, I think it may be cd30 this month. No chance though, no babydancing between cd's 10 and 16. I blame work patterns lol.

I am looking forward to next month.

Heya evreyone, anyone got any GOOD news, I have just got out of hospital, and am feelig like I have little faith at the moment, and would love to hear any good news from you lot, lol.

Seany-How frustrating and annoying, its really unfair, and I hope it gets sorted out for you soon, x

Hi Rach, welcome back. I hope you're feeling better and you gave that woman the 'what for'!! Terminations indeed (sorry...was reading other thread) I'd have slapped her with something heavy if I were you!!

Seany - hope you're ok, any ideas what's happening yet? It seems so weird for you to be so late with no BFP???

Hoping everyone is fine and dandy!! xxx

lol kaylo she was the ultimate cowbag!

Hey girlies...its time for some good news around here so here goes...I got a new dog so excited...only thing new...

Sorry for being MIA...but I'm here for good now....anywho I see I missed alot and I hope things go better for us all....

Whitty? Is it really you?

Welcome back - hope you're well and congrats on WhittyK9

Rach Cowbag isn't the word for that woman. How dare she be so presumptuous!! Grrrr. I may very well give someone like that a piece of my mind (and the table) if they said that to me!

Hope everyone is well

xxx

Yes kaylo Im back in action...my new furry friend is so hyper it keeps me going though.. how are you feeling these days

How is everyone today?

Hey-ho peeps, very quiet lately

Whitty I don't feel too bad these days...good days and bad days - today a very good day
TBH, I think as September approaches I get better and better - shallow I know, not to mention a tad selfish . Can't wait til September so we can actively start TTC. It's gonna be a happy time

Hows you hun? How's everything these days?

Well all you other guys must have very exciting lives I must say. I miss you all tho...I'm not at work and don't have much to do and I miss yooooouuuuuu!!!
But hope you're well
xxx

Hello, I'm still here!

Kaylo- yes it will be great when you can start in earnest in September. Less than 2 months away now, hurrah!

Whitty- congrats on your new pup.

Bubble- can't recall if I already said that I'm really sorry the clomid didn't work How are you doing now?

Ant- sorry too about your BFN. Still no sign of AF?

As for me, everything seems to be going as it should be, nothing to report but no mad panics either. Am 9w 4d and getting less anxious, finally. Have got my sights on 12w and the scan... really hope this bean stays sticky...

Hope everyone else is doing OK. Positive thinking ladies....

Why have you got to wait until sseptember kaylo (sorry for asking!!)

Hello joy thats great that you are approaching your 12 week scan. I wish you all the luck in the world.

kaylo - I put in my complaint- and the nurse I first told was sooo cross, but I was too shocked to say anything at the time, but it was the horrible smile she gave me that made it worse, it was really patronising and sickly

Hey ladies,

Sorry I have not been on, busy sorting out house for DP's parents visit next week. Lots and Lots and Lots of cleaning

Still no sign of AF, I reckon that she make an appearance on the 17th(ish) and that means she would be back to a 56day cycle (oh the Joy!!) I wonder if its worth a trip to Docs or if I should let it go like this for another couple of months to see if there is a pattern?
I'm so annoyed that I got myself worked up when I had that one day period and nothing else after it. I had utterly convinced myself that it was going to be a bfp

Joy - Hope the time flies for you leading up to your scan so you can see your bean.

Whit - congrats on your pup. What kind is it? What his/hers name?

Rach -Don't want to be too nosy, but what happened to you? Why are you complaining?

Kaylo - here's hoping time also flies for you

Suzi - Hope you are okay

Bubble? Seany? Where are you guys hiding?
Sorry to anyone I've missed

Hi ladies - how are we all? Everyone enjoying the thunderstorms???

Rach In truth I have no idea why we're waiting til September - I'm ready to go now but DH insists on September. A good thing really tho I guess as he initially said "How about waiting 7 years?" Then he was gonna book himself in for the dreaded snip . I told him if he did I'd divorce him not the best tactic but it did work at least and it got my point across loud and clear, well that and lots of distraught tears.

Ant Nice to see you back on here - I thought you were a dead cert for a BFP too!

Joy - Hope the time doesn't drag on and on for you hun - for once lets wish the time away - just ever so briefly

Whitty - Hows your puppy doing? Is he/she settling in ok?

Suzi - Hows things with you chick?

Beans - Everything ok? Any sign of AF or dare I say...a BFP?

Bubble - I'm truly sorry the clomid didn't work but please don't despair, it will come right in the end (I expect you're sick of hearing that )

Seany? Everything ok? I'm still holding a little hope that somehow there's a little BFP just waiting to be identified...not wanting to bring false hope but it's just so strange...

Sorry to anyone I've missed - promise it's not deliberate.
I'm off to try and calm down now as have had doet coke and it's sent me more than a little wacky.... I really should know better...

who can't spell?? lol

Of course I meant diet coke, and not doet

Morning girls!

how is everyone?

ant if i were you i would go to the dr. it doesnt seem to me that you are ovulating... pls ask for some kind of help from the dr. its agonising enough each month waiting for AF but 56 days indicates there is def a problem xxx

Well i started the 100mg of clomid last night. im dreading it to be honest... last month i was evil. My MIL is coming to stay thursday for a week and i hope i can control my self.

next weekend is my sisters 21st... we are goin out and stayin in a hotel. just the girls.. i really cant wait.

missing you too. come back everyone!!

Hiya Bubble - how are you? Not too bad I hope - hoping this month is your month B as we can see the side effects are worrying you.

Back later x xx x

Hey ladies hope everyone has a better day today...I believe I am out once again this month as for I' am spotting...so today will be a day that Im not thrilled about not in the mood.

hope everyone is better and I wish you guys would come back

whitty, huge hugs coming your way. (((hugs)))

kaylo, I got you hunni, my typing is really bad, lol....I blame fat fingers lol.

bubble...oh I'd love to be 21 again....28 now and I can feel 30 looming...yikes lol!

I'm on cd 29...this is cycle 2 after the mirena coil...last month I had 29 day cycle...ovulating on cd 13/14...

I thought it would be similar this month, we missed babydancing fron cd 10-16.

BUT af isn't here yet...if I'm not visited by the witch tomorrow then I'm in with a chance as bding would have been right.

I'm trying not to get my hopes up...no doubt the witch will ghet me tonight....

My PMT has been really bad the last few days so no doubt in reality she's coming....we all live in hope though don't we lol.