Mollie you know my views on this, but at Sparkly's post Sparkly I would have loved to have seen your face after you posted! Don't you hate it when that happens!
Mollie you have so many more important things to think about at the moment, if members of your own family can't see that, and don't appreciate how much you have on your plates and how much stress you are going through then sod 'em all. You should have every right to feel that amongst Friends you can say whatever you need to, especially with everything you're going through atm, without worrying that you're being spied on. Of course we all look at other threds from time to time, that's what mn is all about, but there is a world of difference between surfing other threads and reading posts by people whose real life ID's you know. A girl I work with is on here, I know her nickname but I would never go looking for her posts, if she wants to tell me how she's feeling at a particular time that's up to her, I have no business reading things that quite clearly were not intended for me. Sorry for the rant but I feel really strongly about this. I just can't imagine what she was thinking coming onto this thread in the first place if she knew you were posting. IMO it is nosey, prying, and beyond rude and it is not you who should be apologising.
So there! I imagine if she's still lurking I'm firmly off her christmas card list now! Someone should tell her that no one ever hears any good of themselves by listening in to others' conversations, which it seems to me is what she's done.
Fruity postman's just been, nothing () Will have to wait til tom! xx