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Bonkers Anonymous-Bonkers, Bonked and Bonkers Babies all welcome and there are plenty of positive vibes and babydust for everyone!

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HumphreysCorner · 20/01/2009 09:28

Over here ladies! Will try and link to here.

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corblimeymadam · 26/02/2009 20:40

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MrsPuddleduck · 26/02/2009 20:43

I think we should change our thread title to "Stalkers Anonymous" - what are we like FGS!

She must still come on Mumsnet - it is too addictive to leave

If she's not back in a few days we should start up a come back CE thread and talk over there until she gets the hint.

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MrsPuddleduck · 26/02/2009 20:55

I now feel physically sick for a different reason

I am never horrible to anyone ever (other than DH when he deserves it )

Ceebee74 · 26/02/2009 20:57

Oh well bang goes that idea then

CE if you are reading this, please come back - we love you and miss you and no-one blames you for what you said - in fact I admire you for having the courage to say what we were all probably thinking

Willmouse don't be If she has left, it won't be because of what you said - just the whole situation in general.

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MrsPuddleduck · 26/02/2009 21:15

I was wondering how Heartmum2jamie was getting on the other day. She probably has her hands full with 3!

Ceebee74 · 26/02/2009 21:18

I was wondering about HM2J as well - she hasn't posted on our PN thread for a long time either.

But she is still active on facebook as she commented on one of my photos a couple of weeks ago - I will send her a message on there and see if she is ok

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HumphreysCorner · 26/02/2009 21:33

Damn, have just spent all this time seaching for the post with the link to the Prague pics on Facebook, clicked on it and of course it isn't there. I see why now I've read the link.

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HumphreysCorner · 26/02/2009 21:41

BTW Ceebee-any chance of us finishing our Scrabble game that we started before Sam was born?

HC
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Ceebee74 · 27/02/2009 08:37

HC I promise I will return to Scrabble asap - it will not be today though as DH is working from home and therefore hogs the office - maybe tonight!

MrsPuddleduck · 27/02/2009 09:05

Morning all

Mum and Dad are coming over today to help me out (thank God) - I'm not feeling as bad as I did yesterday either but I will still make the most of it!

Supposed to be having friends over for lunch tomorrow and can't face it. DH said to cancel but to make sure I re-arrange at the same time. Just checked calendar - unless it is the week after next we don't have a free weekend until May

Hope everyone has a good day!

DawnAS · 27/02/2009 09:09

Oh my goodness ladies,

I didn't realise how much time I spent on MN and how much we all mean to each other.

Last night I had a dream that CEs DH came online and posted saying how we'd all upset CE terribly and that's why she wasn't coming back. But I remember in my dream feeling almost relieved because it meant that we could beg and plead with him and explain that she hadn't at all and that we all missed her so terribly.

The dream actually woke me up and I laid there for hours thinking about her and thinking that bearing in mind she's 35 weeks PG, she needs us all more than ever now and she's not here. I am really really gutted. This is the trouble with posting on sites like these, it's like texting and emailing, your words can be misinterpreted so easily because people can't hear the way that they're being said and I'm terrible for Previewing my messages before I post, I rarely do.

Anyway, I just pray that she at least lurks and sees that we all miss her so much.

CE PLEASE COME BACK !! Willmouse, love the idea about the "Come back CE" thread!!

HC, how are you feeling today? How's the MS?

Ceebee, thanks for the tip on the Glucose test. Luckily for me, they've booked my GT test for the same day as my extra 28 week growth scan. So my GTT is at 9am and then my scan is at 10.30am, so at least I'll have something to look forward to during the wait. I'm just hoping that the GTT won't make Jelly jump around so much that they won't be able to take her measurements!!

Big waves to MJIM and Belgian, also to all beans and babies!!

Dawni, how are you today hun?

Phew, it's Friday!!

xxx

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HumphreysCorner · 27/02/2009 10:44

Seem to think I may have dreampt about ChocEclair last night but it was mixed amongst the Turkish terrorists in a hotel I was staying in-ugh, was dodging lots of bullets.

Very acidy this morning which has made me feel grotty. Mum and dad have bothered me this morning by saying there is no way we can move Emma out of her bedroom and make her share with Sophie. DH isn't doing any room changing until the New Year but then I think-where will I keep all the baby clothes as the baby won't have a room until something is sorted. Can't cope with this worry at the moment.

Have a good day ladies.

HC
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Dawni · 27/02/2009 11:14

Good morning all
I missed alot lastnight !! I feel so wretched about CE she used to post fantasticly and i looked forward to hear from her, she put so much into it ! please come back CE, it was a minor blip & NO blame on anyone {big sighs}
What a crap night we had, we got 'in the mood' and half way through poor DH lost it (iykwim) He was so upset it was terrible, he said just to add it to the list of things he cant do, he ended taking a load of morphine and sleeping on the sofa ...We have had a good chat and he is ok this morning, but he said 'lets forget about babies and get a dog !!!!!!' Dont think he meant it though

Hope you girls are all ok, sorry it was just a me post, will catch you's later, going food shopping now

Much love

D xx

Bellie · 27/02/2009 12:27

OMG - I am away for a couple of weeks (long story) and now CE has gone! I was hoping that I would come back on to hear about her baby not that she had disappeared.

What a couple of weeks for you all - I was here in spirit with you, but have just had my hands full - dd has been ill and what with her and a 3 week old ds I am not sure which way is up. Thank god my parents were here, as mum coped with the 3 changes of bed a night for the past 3 nights as she has been sick so much.

Welcome to Ray - please stay and let us all help where we can. I can vouch for the Taking charge book - It was really helpful to me. I didn't temp, but found it really useful about the ewcm and the lifestyle parts helped too. I am sorry aabout your history though

Bluestar is there anything that can help the 2 years become less - some partial private or is that a definate no no because of cost?

BB - hope the lifestyle changes can help you am thinking positive thoughts for you.

Dawni - I am amazed at how you manage to stay so positive - have been thinking about you and your dh and wish I could help you,

Sorry can't answer everyone individually - wanted to say hello and that we are ok here - ds is a cutie although I don't always say that when he has his awake hour 3-4am!!

Off to get some lunch before he wakes again!

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DawnAS · 27/02/2009 12:28

Dawni, I've probably already missed you as you've no doubt left to go shopping, but if not, I'd like a packet of doughnuts, a cadburys chocolate bar - any kind - a big bag of cool doritos aaaaaand hmmmm, no I think that's it - oh no, wait - a new book, I've just finished mine!! Hmmm, can you tell that I've got food on my mind?!! Sorry about your poor DH last night. It's horrid for both of you when that happens. Men feel embarassed and women try to convince them that it's not big deal. Glad he's feeling a bit better this morning though.

Well, you'll all be pleased to know that I haven't been scarred for life with the Salsa incident. I am attempting Nachos again tonight!! (Although I did ask DH to loosen the lid on the jar before he left for work this morning... ).

HC, oooh, don't fancy your dream much hun, I'll let you keep that one.. Sorry that you're all acidy... I've started to get that in the morning if I have my cereal and then follow it with my toast too soon. I have to separate them now and have them about an hour apart.

Willmouse, I remember those days at the beginning and feeling really exhausted. I'm lucky because I work from home (have no other DC) and had all-female work colleagues that have had children. They would often drop me an instant message sending me off for a nap. It's all changed now though as job is on the line again. Now writing to lots of people that I've networked over the years with the company to find out if there are any jobs. It's looking hopeful but couldn't have come at a worse time since I'm due to go on Mat leave in June!! Ho hum, never rains but it pours... Anyway, at least it's Friday!!

Anyone got any exciting plans for the weekend? DH is working on Sunday so I get to have a lovely long lie-in, as long as doggy is fed and watered before DH goes to work. She will come and lie on the bed with me and we'll chill!! Other than that, a quiet one in tomorrow night (again - we only ever have "quiet nights in" now!!), with DH. I guess I should enjoy that while it lasts though!!

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juanitad · 27/02/2009 13:24

I am looking through the old bonkers threads (it's taking ages!) to try and find the link CE did to facebook so that we can find her. I am worried that she is really upset by this whole business and want to ask her to come back!! Will update with any progress - this could take a while!

juanitad · 27/02/2009 13:28

Found it - posted on 25th March, but link not working, it is saying content not available. Damn. I am determined to find her, will have to resort to plan B - although I don't actually have a plan B!

juanitad · 27/02/2009 13:46

Next update - I have figured out CE's name, I remembered she was a teacher and the town she worked in, so searched the schools there and found her!! God, I am a total stalker!! Anyway, when I put her name into facebook, it hasn't found her, so it looks like she might have left facebook too. This isn't looking good, I have run out of options. Unless I phone her school, but that seems a bit drastic, and what would I say? CE if you are reading this, please come back, or get in touch with one of us to let us know you are ok!!

Bellie · 27/02/2009 13:49

Oh juanitad - or should I say Miss Marple! Looks like you had a plan b and c!!

Well done on getting as far as you have! I think that we should ring the school although I think she is on mat leave now anyway isn't she?

I hope she lets us know what happens with her bump.

We miss you CE!!

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HumphreysCorner · 27/02/2009 14:14

juanitad-if you look further down you will see that I searched last night to find the Prague pics on Facebook and then discovered she had deregistered. Do you think MNHQ can E-Mail her? Long shot I know.

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Dawni · 27/02/2009 14:30

Back from shopping,

sorry DawnAs, missed you as we'd left, but i did get a box of creme eggs if that is any good to you ??? I could virtually post them ...As for books, ive plenty of Dean Koontz, Stephen King, Dawn French's book which is brilliant, and a few other murder type books, i like a good death before bed !!! Pleased you have got DH to release the jar before he left, very good thinking hun xx

Bellie hope you are well although your having a slight lack of sleep !! Thankyou for thinking of us, it certainly is tough going some days, but we seem to bounce back !! Hope DD is better soon xx

Ray What is the book you got, i may try it as ive tried everything else possible, was even thinking of going for accupuncture !!Is this drastic ?? Hope you well hun xx

Massive hello's to BB..HC..Willmouse..MJIM..Juanitad & CeeBee and anyone else ive missed

D xx

Dawni · 27/02/2009 14:39

I went back a few pages and found the name of the book, have now bought one on ebay....will have to swap my bed time reading from murder to fertility, bloody hell i eat, sleep & drink fertility, now im gonna be reading it !!!!! I have a hypnotherapy CD which i listen to on the iPod as im going to sleep.....saddo or what {wink]

D xx

juanitad · 27/02/2009 14:41

oops HC, didn't realise - I only skim read yesterday's posts. It's like she's disappeared off the face of th earth! Wonder if she's still posting on her AN thread? Good idea about getting MNHQ to e mail her, how would we go about that?