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Twenties TTC - Join Me Pleeeease!

844 replies

Etcha · 12/01/2009 21:28

I'm 23 and hoping to try for a baby from next month.

Anyone else?

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SuziBhoy · 23/03/2009 18:48

pmsl at hoo-ha

ray81 · 24/03/2009 07:40

Right well blow me down with a feather...................i got a BFP.

Joy no you dont have to take temp in hoo ha just normally in the mouth. I got a digital one in Safers and it was just £2.00. You have to take it first thing in morning before you do ANYTHING and after 3 hrs of sleep.

Bubblebell1 · 24/03/2009 07:58

Congratulations Ray im so pleased for you

Trikken · 24/03/2009 08:37

congratulations ray! hope everyone else gets their bfp soon!

Joy27 · 24/03/2009 12:10

Congratulations Ray, so pleased for you!

When are you due?

ray81 · 24/03/2009 12:47

Hi Joy EDD is the 1st Dec. At least is what FF told me so will have to see what docs say.

Spoke to EPU today as have had 3mc and therefore they will monitor me. Waiting for call from consultant in next few days to see how they want to proceed. MAy get a scan at 7 weeks which would be nice as took clomid so would like to know if 1 or 2 in there.
I dont mind either way.

Joy27 · 24/03/2009 13:47

Ray, wishing you all the best for this pregnancy... after all you have been through you deserve smooth sailing (and possibly a 2for1 deal too!). Hurrah for babies!

I'm wondering idly whether my extra-long cycle this month was caused by a chemical pregnancy. Not that it matters, I suppose, but it's just odd that my period was sooo late. And in a strange way, I'd feel better knowing that sperm met egg, iyswim (that acronym looks like "if you swim", which is appropriate...). CPs don't give a +ve on a pregnancy test, so I guess it's possible... no way of knowing though.

Feeling a bit hacked off really after initial relief yesterday. But Ray your news has cheered me up no end.

How is everyone today?

Bubblebell1 · 24/03/2009 16:39

Hi joy, it is possible that it was a cp. it would explain why you were late. was af heavier than usual?

Ray i am soo pleased for you. i found myself telling my dh today as if you were a real life friend

stay with us pleaseeee... want to hear all the details

im feeling better. am on cd9/10 and gearing up for a bd marathon this weekend.

advice pls.... anyone. my af arrived very suddenly and heavily at 6pm in the evening. is that cd1 or the next. when i put the info on my chart ff make it cd1 ??? i thought the next full day was???

Suzi how are you?

Joy27 · 24/03/2009 17:48

Yes Ray, do stay with us! How are you feeling? I hope you're allowing yourself to be excited.

Bubble I think it's the first full day of bleeding that counts as CD1- but I think I got that information from you a couple of months ago! So am not much help.

So you've got a good weekend planned then? (Bom chicka wow wow...). Our shagathon will be next week. We are away and when we get back, our housemate is away, so should be able to go full throttle. Hurrah!

My period has been heavier, more painful and very, erm, clotty (SORRY!). I guess it doesn't matter if it was a CP or not really- but I suppose I'd feel a little encouraged if it was a CP. How sad is that?

ray81 · 24/03/2009 18:55

Bubble and Joy, will def stay with you have not even considering moving to Pg thread as is far to early and dont want to jinx anything.

I feel ok very tired but thats because was up at 5.30 to do test and never went back to sleep. Its very strange as cannot get excited feel calm and apprenhensive just realy hoping that this one sticks.

Bubble thanks that is such a lovely thing to say i feel the same about alot of you on here.

Joy from what i understood when i went throught fertility treatment was that you count CD1 as the day you get full bleed so if it came on suddenly at 6pm but was full flow that is CD1 which would be why FF has done it that way.
also think could possibly have been a CP your cycle was very unusualy long.

Good luck both of you for bding this month have everything crossed for both of you.

award2812 · 24/03/2009 20:08

i have been awol for a while. The witch got me last Friday, was expecting it tomorrow if not pg, so it was 5 days early but first af since mc.

...so here we go again!! Depending on how long my cyle is now, 29 days? 34 days? I have no clue, but I may still make it for a December baby, I'm 30 in December so would like it to happen around then.

Congrats ray81!! x

Bubblebell1 · 25/03/2009 08:26

Morning girls!

Award this was my first cycle after mc and af arrived 5 days early too. how strange. good luck for this cycle.

Thanks Joy and Ray so i guess ived gained a day then... im on cd11.

Ray this first bit is strange isnt it... you cant believe its really happened and then you worry its gonna end in tears. Everything will be fine im sure. what are the odds of you having twins?? wouldnt that be amazing. id love twins

seanybosmummy · 25/03/2009 13:21

Hi girls

Sorry i disappeared for a while.

congrats ray!!!!! i am so pleased for you!!

how is everyone?

im havin a bit of a crisis at the mo, just wondering if anyone would have any advice?

ok here goes: still no af and im on cd33. ( i have reg 30 day cycle)

still have horrible taste in my mouth so poas on cd31 and got bfp (very faint but there!)

Got sooooooo excited,but decided to do another 1 the next day(yesterday afternoon). bfn! ?????????????

got up at 5am this morning and poas again, and again bfn

what is going on? why is my body being so cruel? i must admit i am feeling really upset and still af has not arrived.

Might go to the doctors in the morning and ask for a blood test, what do you think?

seanybosmummy · 25/03/2009 13:24

forgot to add that when i wiped this morning had tiny dot of pink and this afternoon some (tmi alert) miniscule brown stingy things???

SuziBhoy · 25/03/2009 14:24

hey everyone......... congrats ray.. brill news

Hey bubble... well im still in limbo.. so tired of waiting!! now on CD 44 and still no AF.. havent tested since last week so maybe i should test again or go to docs... im not qutie sure what to do!! how are you?

Bubblebell1 · 25/03/2009 15:29

Hey Suzi! im good thanks. just waiting for the bd marathon at the end of the week. I def think you should test again. you may have ovd a little later and could still be pg i hope its a bfp

seany i would go to the drs tomorrow. last month i had a +ive test then a neg then 3 more +ives and then a neg. i then went on to have a mc 2 days later. dr said that it was a non viable pregnancy. i had a small amount of hcg that was being picked up by the sensitive tests but a blood test showed that the levels were falling and therefore pg ended. I hope that its not whats happening to you and i know of positive stories where ppl have had neg tests then gone on to have a healthy baby but i would ask for a blood test to try and ease the worries..

Rtuff · 25/03/2009 16:05

Hi All

AF finally got me this morning after a 36 day long cycle!!

Fingers crossed for a Jan 2010 baby!!

SuziBhoy · 25/03/2009 16:17

sorry AF got you rtuf, good luck with trying again this time!

seanybosmummy · 25/03/2009 16:59

Thanks for the advice bubble, i am def going to go to doctors tomorrow. that must have been a horrible couple of days for you hanging in limbo and then having a mc. i am so worried.

so sorry to hear the witch got you rtuff best of luck for next month x

Bubblebell1 · 25/03/2009 17:08

Sorry about af Rtuff

seany im thinking of ya. if you got a +ive then you def have some hcg hanging around. im keeping my fingers crossed that you get a BFP again.

seanybosmummy · 25/03/2009 22:01

Thanks bubble im going to the doctors tomorrow morning so i prob wont know results until monday or tuesday.

Im going away on friday til monday with dp and ds so im just going to relax and try not to think about, i just have to resign myself to the fact that there is nothing at all i can do apart from wait.

Enjoy your weekend of bding i really hope its your lucky month

Hi suzi how are you feeling? have you decided to test again yet? im keeping my fingers crossed for you!

SuziBhoy · 25/03/2009 22:16

Hi seany I hope things go well for you at the GP, good luck
I will test again... been feeling really tired today but i think its all the stressing im doing, so im going to test one more time then go to docs!! I hope you get some answers

seanybosmummy · 25/03/2009 22:19

Thanks suzi

Let us know how you get on. the tiredness is a good sign i always think, but i know what you mean about the stressing, our bodies always find new ways to confuse us!!

Bubblebell1 · 26/03/2009 08:15

Have a great weekend away Seany.

Suzi have youtested yet? good luck for when you do xxx

seanybosmummy · 26/03/2009 10:02

Thanks bubble! I went to the docs this morning and will have the blood test results tomorrow oooh im so nervous!!!!!