Evening all! I feel like I?ve been away for aaaageeeeees! I guess that?s what travelling 130 miles a day does for you (I was wrong when I said 110 miles? ) Apologies in advance if I don?t manage to catch up with everything, have resorted to cutting and pasting from a word doc as it is!
Bella at the alternative therapies, you sound like the total opposite of me! I?m not remotely ?alternative? ? no joss sticks in this house, and am a big fan of waxing ? but I?m a sucker for all the alternative therapy stuff. I love seeing my acupuncturist, I?ve even got DH converted (previously assumed impossible) and he now raves about the cranial osteopath he sees, reckons she?s amaaaaazing? maybe I should meet her??!?! (in case she?s gorgeous ) Fair enough if it?s not for you, but we?ve both been amazed by the results we?ve seen. It?s totally changed my cycle for one thing, I?d never ever had a 28 day cycle before, Thomas was conceived on day 25 which would have been a 39 day-er, the month I conceived this time would have been 28 days Glad the MS is going, mine eased up at about 10 weeks last time too.
Fruity at your friends!! I can?t imagine! Would be wonderful to wake up and realise you?d missed the 1st trimester!! Afraid I?m pretty rubbish at getting up too Although I only do max 2x 5min snoozes before I haul my arse out of bed CANNOT BELIEVE you?re 30 weeks btw!!!
Scully so glad to hear the ms is finally easing, seems like it?s been a long time for you, bet it feels like a long time from where you?re sitting anyway! I think my DH will be pretty good if I?m ever fortunate enough to ever have a baby ?properly?, but there are a few reasons why I?d like one:
- from talking to friends it really sounds like luck with which mw you happen to get can play such a huge part in the birth you have. A good friend of mine is convinced she only ended up with an episiotomy and a big-horrible-forceps delivery because her mw was such a cow. At the ?11th hour? she came and had a huge go at her mum because they had too many pillows in their room!!! My friend got so upset/angry she released so much adrenaline her contractions stopped altogether and she ended up in theatre!
- I learnt with Thomas that DH and I have different views about what my pain threshold is? They gave me a morphine injection and said it should work within 20minutes and to call them after that if I needed more. It honestly might as well have been saline for all the good it did. The 20mins felt like an eternity. I found out afterwards that was because DH made me wait 40 minutes just in case, so we "didn't have to bother them"?. So I?d like to know there?s someone there who will actually listen to me!
- The bf help. I feel a bit like my mum will set me up to fail. She had a dreadful time trying to feed me and gave up within a day or so, certainly before she left the nursing home. She didn?t even attempt it with my sister because she was so traumatised by it? And I really don't want it to be that way for me. She?s already told me not everyone can do it, it?s not easy/that important etc etc, and I?d like someone to fight my corner on that one too
- she says she brings cake
Sparkly glad you?ve managed a duvet-day, very important once in a while! A good friend of mine is a teacher, I gave her this pencil case for her birthday! (Am not mean, she really wanted it!) If you use the mn code you can get 10% off
Teehee duvet prison doesn?t sound like so much fun though? Have you tried fybogel? I used to get horrendous constipation (DH used to call me his little poo camel?) The things that helped were that and acidophilus (massively helped) Can you take it while you?re pg? How about pro-biotoc drinks? I know it?s different from constipation, but I figure anything?s worth a try! Really hope they bugger off soon! Big hugs. We?re not doing much this weekend, I have a TON of work to do. We?re seeing friends for dinner at theirs tomorrow night. Might take my strawberry jam with me in case I just end up with toast! Mind you, managed chinese tonight?!
Mollie I read the title of that thread you posted & couldn?t bring myself to read any more! I hope this weekend passes leaving something positive in its wake. I know how hard anniversaries are If there?s anything at all I can do, you know where I am. Sending much love xxx
Ei glad to hear you?re ok. How many books are there in the series? I started a trashy novel on the train yesterday. Finished it today. Bit too trashy methinks! Might go for a surf through amazon in a mo?
CriCri Hope you get good results from the cranial osteopath, as I said to Bella DH seems to think the sun shines out if his! Apparently there?s one near us who specialises in babies, who?s so good that he has a waiting list of babies who haven?t even been born yet!
Georgie good luck tomorrow! Will Libby know her presents are Mollie?s cast offs? Hope the ms esaes off for you for the party. Can imagine that definitely would NOT be a good combination!
MAMMOTH post! Sorry! to everyone else.