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Bonkers Anonymous - the one where so many babies will be born that we need some new people TTC!!! (Still no such thing as TMI) !!!

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ChocolateEclair · 07/11/2008 09:31

Hi ladies - hope you find the link!

Welcome to any newbies that would like to join - this is a VERY successful thread - consequently we need new people to join us!

Here's to lots of babies being born safely, and lots more BFP's!

Here are the stats!

Bonking Bonkers

HumphreysCorner TTC No3 CD 17 of Cycle 7
ChubbyDick
BSL
Detoxdiva

Bonked Bonkers

Ceebee74 - 36+4 elective cs booked 20 Nov (DC2)
Heartmum2Jamie - OVERDUE (40+3)
ChocolateEclair - 19w + 5d EDD 28th March (#1 ttc 6 cycles)
Mandy73 - 20+0 (#1, TTC 11 cycles) EDD 21 March
Majormoo-34+6 EDD 7th Dec
DaisyJ ? 19+2 EDD 28 March
Dawn
Knax
Juanitad

Time Out Bonking Bonkers
Willmouse ? ttc#3 in 57 days
Soosy
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Bonkers Babies

Myjobismum - Naomi Caitlin 21/9/08 5lb10oz (DS 3YRS old)

PLease update when you get a chance - HM2J - have you had that darling baby yet ????????

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ceebee74 · 03/12/2008 20:53

Knax how scary for you and fingers crossed for your scan

Dawn how rude of me to not say that I am glad your CVS went ok - I guess the odds were on your side with your 'expert' consultant. Will be keeping everything crossed for you for Friday and sending you lots of positive thoughts between now and then.

Sam is doing well - janudice now pretty much gone, he is feeding better and his poos are normal now (although only every other day-ish which is good for us ). He is still the most contented, calm baby I can imagine exists - long may it continue

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BlueStarOverBethlehem · 03/12/2008 21:49

Hi everyone,

Having a crazy busy time at work...so just popping on to say, Hope you're okay!! and your little bean is hang on tight! I really hope Friday goes well!! Praying lots that all is fine!

Dawn - sent email, and can't remember my last post...but so glad the procedure was okay, albeit a little painful!

Big waves to all!!! Sorry for not doing proper replies.

BSOB x

BlueStarOverBethlehem · 03/12/2008 23:15

Oh forgot to say, I'm off to the doc in the morning to talk about 21day P test and request some more before consultant appointment.

Been having a rubbish time at work, but had a good day for me today. Thank goodness. There's still some nasty stuff going on though...I saw an email today from one of my work friends, she had reached out for some help and info to one of my colleagues. They had accidently sent a reply back to her, clearly not meant for her, but bad mouthing her! It's all pretty horrid and messy.

Anyhow, off to sleep...hopefully tomorrow with a good day!

BSOB x

BlueStarOverBethlehem · 03/12/2008 23:16

I meant - hopefully tomorrow will be a better day!

DawnAS · 04/12/2008 09:07

Hi All,

Hope your all Ok, beans and babies alike.

Knax, how scary for you - keeping everything crossed for you for tomorrow. Tomorrow is going to be a big day for both of us - fingers crossed for good news for each!! I wonder if you are just going to be one of those people that's prone to bleeding throughout your PG. My Mum had 5 children and with 2 of us, she bled virtually every 6 weeks throughout her pregnancies and we were all big healthy babies and luckily were all healthy children. Although I'm sure that's because they didn't have antiseptic kitchen sprays and we were allowed to eat mud and worms and chew our lead-painted cots!! There's a lot to be said for the squeaky clean environments we live in today I think. I won't say try not to worry, because I absolutely know, like me, that you will... But keeping everything crossed for you.

BSOB, sorry that you're having a bad time at work. I had that exact scenario a couple of weeks ago. A woman who had requested a Voluntary Redundancy quote came back through one of my business team with some questions. Which made me cross because the answers were clearly stated in her letter that she's already received, so I sent a polite note back (again through the same person in my business team) advising that she read the letter thoroughly. The member of my business team sent back a note to the woman, apologising for how "unhelpful" my answer was. Unfortunately for her, sent it to me by mistake. It didn't take long for the apology to come through I can tell you!! It's horrible when things like that happen and you have to witness it. Poor you. Hope things go OK at the Doctors.

MJIM, having not had any children yet, but having already put on about 9lbs in weight and I'm only 13 weeks, I can understand why you may feel upset. But it's very early days isn't it? Please don't worry too much...

Ceebee, I'm so glad that Sam is getting better. It's lovely to have a contented, happy baby. I remember when my niece Tianey was born, she didn't used to cry when she woke up from when she could smile. I'd never witnessed it before, but she just used to wake up and just sit and listen to everything going on around her and would just smile at you. She actually used to make me jump. She'd be fast asleep and then I'd just turn to look at her and she'd be smiling at me. So sweet!!

Daisy, hello hun, so glad to have you back!! Your flat sounds lovely, maybe you could take some pics of that aswell!! I'm sure you're not huge, I'm sure you'll be fine! I look 5 months already and I'm only 13 weeks - now THAT'S huge!! We still haven't moved house - looks like it's going to be the week before Xmas - talk about last minute!!

Dawni - hope you're Ok today hun and managed to polish off those Matchmakers!! Mmmm, Matchmakers - orange ones for me because they take me back to my childhood!!

Frosty - how are you today hun? Did you get all your wrapping done? All our Xmas presents are packed so if we don't move the week before Xmas as expected, we may well be unpacking everything again!! We can't even put a tree up because we have no room with all the boxes stacked to the ceiling in the lounge. DH did manage to find the advent calendars though - well, most of the them - we couldn't find Tilly's (the dog's) so she's having to share the cat's. My experiment has proved that Catnip has no effect on dogs whatsoever!!

Majormoo, thanks for all your support hun. I'm keeping everything firmly crossed at the moment, as are my family and DHs. There haven't been any babies born on DHs side of the famiy for 10 years so everyone is very excited for us and praying for the best. I saw something on line yesterday that said that if a nasal bone is visible at a 13 week scan, it is unlikely that the baby has Downs. But now I'm worried that maybe the nasal bone wasn't visible. But surely the Sonographer wouldn't have mentioned it being there if it wasn't would she?

Juanitad, hi Hun, thanks for your kind thoughts!

Mandy, thank you so much for all your support. You've given me so much hope and your strength is a real inspiration to me. I think this is probably the scariest time of my life....

CE, thanks for all your thoughts hun. I think next time tomorrow I'll struggle to eat breakfast because I'll be so nervous!!

Phew - sorry about the mammoth post but I just wanted to thank everyone individually for all your support. It means so much and you're all the first people I think of writing to as soon as I hear anything positive or negative. I know that you'll all understand.

I do apologise though if I've missed anyone! I'm back to work today so I need to get on with it - I'm dreading how many messages I've got in my Inbox!!

xxxx

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DawnAS · 04/12/2008 10:48

Oh MJIM, I'm so sorry!! I feel silly - that'll teach me to read the posts more thoroughly!! I really hope that Naomi is Ok at the Doctors today!! Fingers crossed the spots are nothing.

xxxx

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DawnAS · 04/12/2008 14:53

Hello all,

Well, the hospital phoned this afternoon and apparently they didn't get enough blood.

So I've got to go through it all again. So yet another blow in this long line of disasters....

I can't decide what to do and DH is being more than unhelpful. I would prefer not to risk another CVS so soon so wanted to wait for the amnio. DH's response was, that's fine, but don't moan to me and be miserable all through Xmas because you're waiting for it. I burst into tears and he told me to stop being silly. What the hell do I do now?

Do I put myself through another risky CVS, with the same possible outcome, that they still don't get enough blood, or do I wait 3 weeks for an Amnio where getting the fluid is much easier, less painful AND there's less risk of miscarriage, but I have to wait longer.

My Mum reckons this is fate (especially after the woman cancelled on Monday) telling me that everything's Ok and I probably don't need the test at all. I'm starting to wonder if she might be right.

Apparently the next CVS I can have is Monday and the result will come in too late to have a surgical termination if I needed one and I'd have to have an Induced one, the same as an Amnio.

Would be really interested to hear your views guys on another really bad day in the DawnAS household...

xxx

ceebee74 · 04/12/2008 16:25

OMG Dawn - I am speechless that you are having to go through this for you and at the hospital!

I honestly cannot imagine how gutted you must be feeling and what you are thinking....

What an awful position to be in and difficult decision to make but I think my instinct would be to wait for the amnio now - as hard as the waiting would be, and over Xmas aswell - but no-one can make the decision for you.

I don't really know what else to say and nothing is going to make you feel better - so just big hugs to you......

Dawni · 04/12/2008 16:40

DawnAS I really dont know what to suggest, it seems a long wait but maybe your mum is right, try keep positive over xmas and when its time to go it'll be less painfull etc and hopefully with a good outcome love and hugs xx

frosty OMG you wouldnt believe it......I came in from work today and decided to do an ov test cause Im so damned impatient, and it came up with 2..yes 2 lines !! I would have totaly missed this if I'd waited till CD10, it just so happens we BD lastnight just for fun but that aint the point

Hows things with you

MJIM Pleased to hear your little one is ok xx

Hello to everyone else....I'm off for a brew, check ya later

D xx

ChocolateEclair · 04/12/2008 17:47

Dawn I am speechless as to what has happened now . Just when youn think nothing else could go wrong it does! I think I might be in agreement with your Mum if I think about it a while. I do believe in fate and maybe she is right - baby is fine and this is happening to let you know that. If you think you could believe that enough not to worry then maybe you shouldn't have it done again. As for your DH's reaction, I read out your post to my DP and he immediately said it was probably the sort of thing he would have said. it's just a very male response when they are upset and hurting themselves and worried sick about you and the baby and can't do anything to help. Men are funny creatures and it doesn't mean they don't care. Hopefully you can come to a decision that is right for you both xxxxxxxxxxx

dawni - congrats on the +ve opk!!! Now get off here and get BDing!

willmouse - sorry you are worried about ds2. I have no advice to offer but I don't think many young kids eat much do they? I saw one tv programme (discovery!) that said a toddler needs the nutritional equivalent of a boiled egg per day to survive! I couldn't believe it was so little! What about cheese and crackers? rice pudding with cream in? steak pie? .... trying to think of high fat versions???

MJIM - glad you had a fab night just being you two! Your sis prob really loved having them al to herself! Does she have any kids of her own? Another trip to the doctors! Hope little Naomi is better soon xx

ceebee - you haven't had a night out in over 2 years!!! Do you live a long way from your families? Glad that Sam is seeming a bit better and that you are still getting plenty of sleep! Josh is probably just acting his age and add the new baby - hey presto!

Majormoo - no baby yet?????????????

knax - more scary times! Good luck for tomorrow xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Daisyj - thanks for the kind comments! Bump has expanded again in the last few weeks but weight seems to have stabalised at + 1 stone!!! [shockhorror!] I am sure you are not as big as you think and that one woman was just rude! You're really tiny though aren't you so it might look bigger! (I'm 5'5'')

Waves to HC, BSL, Mandy, Junaitad, HM2J xxx

My school was closed today due to the awful snow and blizzard conditions. I did manage to get there but struggled to get back! DP also couldn't get to work so we had a nice unexpected day snuggled up under a duvet! I have also put the xmas tree up and wrapped some pressies so feeling very christmassy!

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DawnAS · 04/12/2008 18:11

Thanks ladies.

I am trying to really put a brave face on it at the moment and TBH I am feeling slightly more confident about the outcome now. Although I'm sure I'll have ups and downs as time goes on.

CE, thanks for the comments that your DP made, I do understand that it must be very hard when you can't do anything to help. There's always going to be a difference in feelings and reactions. My DH will now distance himself from the baby, I know that and I think that's natural. Unfortunately women can't do that. He's already saying that he's not going to tell any good friends about the baby in case it's bad news. But I did point out that, terrible as it is, bad things can happen at any time during a pregnancy. The baby could turn out to be fine and then something go wrong later on. So I don't see the point in hiding it. But they're his friends so he can make the decision on that. All my friends already know!!

Ceebee, I must admit that I am starting to lose faith in the medical profession slightly... Although I guess anyone can make a mistake. I've just spoken to my FIL and he is livid!! He can't believe that they made such a mistake, especially considering how many procedures the woman had done! But hey, nothing I can do now... Thanks for your thoughts and hugs though hun...

Dawni, thanks for the love and hugs hun. Really needed right now. Fab news about the OPK. Get BDing for the next 48 hours then (although maybe not constantly...)

xxxx

FrostyTheSnowman · 04/12/2008 19:17

Ay up, festive smileys

Dawn-can't believe that but can believe DH's response as that would be exactly Mr HC's response too. Sadly, they just can't don't understand. Personally, I would go for another CVS as I would have to know and couldn't wait any longer. Crikey, what a difficult decision.

Dawni- how have you got a +ive OPK this early in the day. I only get them at 10pm ish and that was a couple of months ago but am determined to catch the +ive OPK this month by starting testing tonight on CD 6. Problem is, I am having the longest AF ever as still bleeding on CD 6, never been heard of before.

Willmouse-how old is DS2 and what does he weigh in pounds and how tall is he and I'll compare with my little dot.

Child free here in the HC house as we off to the Bike Show at the NEC tomorrow so need an early start so girls are staying at mum and dad's tonight and tomorrow night.

Love to all.

HC
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majormoo · 04/12/2008 20:05

Dawn I cannot believe that they did not get enough blood. How stressful for you. I honestly don't know what to suggest. Possibly I would wait for the amnio. It is hard to say. How many weeks exactly are you? Possibly I would book a private nuchal scan for a second opinion in the mean time if you are less than 13+6.

Knax hope all is well on Friday.

CE I am jealous of the snow!

MJIM glad your health visitor sounded helpful and sensible.

Ceebee Sam sounds like he is doing really well.

BSL hope doc appointment went well.

Enjoy your childfree night HC

Hi to everyone else.
No action here yet-had lovely appointment at birth centre today. SOOOOOO want to have my baby there and not in busy hospital. Am not too fussed about baby being a bit late-have DD's ballet show and Christmas play that I do not want to miss next week, plus want to get tree up. So any time after 11th Dec would suit me fine!!

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Dawni · 04/12/2008 20:38

frosty Just a quick note before Im a celeb !!! Ive been testing between 2 & 3pm and found that a better time of day and I dont drink for 2-3 hours. My period only lasted 3 days this month so just went for it, very lucky I think

FrostyTheSnowman · 04/12/2008 21:57

Jungle over, off to wee on that OPK. Bet it's -ive.

Night all!

HC
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Dawni · 04/12/2008 22:03

Thank the lord David went tonight,,,,,,, Goodnight love to all

D xx

tistheCEEBEEtobejolly · 05/12/2008 08:25

Morning all

MJIM how is DS this morning? Josh was also poorly last night - he came home from nursery wearing just his vest and pants as he had developed a temperature - and then he just sat on the sofa till bedtime which is not like him AT ALL!! He seems ok this morning - temp down, but snotty so I assume it is a cold.

Majormoo lets hoping the baby hears you and decides to stay put until after the 11th

Dawni get bding asap!! Fingers crossed for you.

HC what result was the OPK??

Not much to report here - Sam seems to have settled into a nighttime routine of waking at 2ish and 5ish, feeding for 5-10 minutes and then straight back to sleep which is definitely manageable!! But he will not 'dreamfeed'...so he has some milk at 7.30ish and then that is it for the evening as he is asleep!! If I could get some milk down him before I go to bed, he might only wake once...wishful thinking I feel!!

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juanitad · 05/12/2008 10:36

Morning all,

DawnAS, what a nightmare for you...it's so hard to know what to advise as ultimately I think you have to go with your gut instinct, and it seems as though maybe you are leaning towards waiting for the amnio. The wait will be horrid, but if the thought of another CVS is making you feel too uneasy, maybe it's the way to go.

CE - My school was closed yesterday too, not that it made any difference to me! Every year I hope and hope that there will be a snow day or some other reason for a school closure, but there never is, and as soon as I stop working, hey presto school closes!! Still, musn't be complaining!

Ceebee, am well impressed that Sam is settling into any kind of routine at all - Patrick is still being very random in his feeding and sleeping times - is this fairly normal do you think?

Anyway, must go, see you all later

xx

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