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Bonkers Anonymous - the one where so many babies will be born that we need some new people TTC!!! (Still no such thing as TMI) !!!

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ChocolateEclair · 07/11/2008 09:31

Hi ladies - hope you find the link!

Welcome to any newbies that would like to join - this is a VERY successful thread - consequently we need new people to join us!

Here's to lots of babies being born safely, and lots more BFP's!

Here are the stats!

Bonking Bonkers

HumphreysCorner TTC No3 CD 17 of Cycle 7
ChubbyDick
BSL
Detoxdiva

Bonked Bonkers

Ceebee74 - 36+4 elective cs booked 20 Nov (DC2)
Heartmum2Jamie - OVERDUE (40+3)
ChocolateEclair - 19w + 5d EDD 28th March (#1 ttc 6 cycles)
Mandy73 - 20+0 (#1, TTC 11 cycles) EDD 21 March
Majormoo-34+6 EDD 7th Dec
DaisyJ ? 19+2 EDD 28 March
Dawn
Knax
Juanitad

Time Out Bonking Bonkers
Willmouse ? ttc#3 in 57 days
Soosy
BB

Bonkers Babies

Myjobismum - Naomi Caitlin 21/9/08 5lb10oz (DS 3YRS old)

PLease update when you get a chance - HM2J - have you had that darling baby yet ????????

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Mandy73 · 05/12/2008 12:18

Oh no Dawn that is beyond horrible. No guarantees eh?
It is/was the scariest time of my life too, no doubt.
I would wait for the amnio if I was you. CVSs can be so dodgy, they don't even always tell you anything you can 'take to the bank' as you can have a 'mosaic' ie chromosome issues in the placenta but not actually in the baby.
So just grin and bear it until you can have an amnio is my advice. You are very strong and your DH hasn't seen half of it. His reaction was just knee-jerk - go easy on him, he seems a very caring and emotional man.
Don't dwell on different termination options right now and how time is running out for surgical - I completely understand your thinking but should it come to the worst you will cope.

Lots of love to everyone - so sorry to hear about poorly little ones - sending get-well-vibes. V happy to hear BDing in December is going well - just stick on those romantic fairy lights, whip out the bubbly and cute nighties and get on with some winter lovin' girls!
xx

tistheCEEBEEtobejolly · 05/12/2008 12:30

MJIM yes it was me that struggled to bf Josh so I am ff Sam - as it turned out, my milk actually came in this time round!! Glad your DS is on the mend - it feels like I was up most of the night either feeding Sam or plying Josh with Calpol!!

Juanitad random feeding/sleeping is perfectly normal so don't worry! During the day, Sam's feeding/sleeping is also very random - I am trying to go for a 3-hourly feeding schedule (that is what I did with Josh and we were soon in a routine) but Sam doesn't seem to want to go along with my plans . Tis still very early days for both Sam and Patrick - hope you are enjoying all the lovely snuggly, cuddly moments you get with a newborn - am gonna miss them........

BlueStarOverBethlehem · 05/12/2008 12:48

Sorry, I've got a bit behind with everyone over the last day or two. Crazy busy time of year for me.

Dawn - I'm so sorry you went through everything and won't get any results! I don't know what to suggest. I think I'd have to re-do the CVS as I wouldn't be able to wait! As for your DH, I agree with the others...it's a knee-jerk reaction and he's hurting too.

Dawni - yay for + OPKs!! I was doing them every 12 hours for my first few cycles to pin down OV. I got some +'s at in the morning and evening

Sorry for all our sickly little people! I hope they are all getting better!

I went to the GP yesterday and all my tests were fine and indicate I'm Oving. I had thyroid function and things other than just 21 day progesterone. GP said there's no point in doing any more tests and the hospital will want to re-do everything anyway including the 21-day test and DH's sperm test. So we just wait...
He was concerned about DH though and asked if he was ok, as he was quiet and withdrawn, but then my DH is very quiet...so I think all is fine! GP also said that he's going to very interested in seeing what they decide to do with us, as fertility problems this way around aren't that common. hey ho.

Anyway...sorry I've missed people...I have another t-con in a min.

Hope to hear some good news from Knax soon!!!!

BSOB x

Dawni · 05/12/2008 15:28

Just a quickie girls......On my break today I went to a local cafe for early lunch, while I was in I decided to fill in my time sheet, I hunted in my pocket and brought out yesterdays ov testing stick it wouldnt have been that bad but I laughed out rather too loudly and everyone looked my way !!!! OOOPs

What a nugget eh ?

D xx

Knax · 05/12/2008 15:45

Oh Dawn, i can't believe it. So sorry you are going through this. I agree with mandy (but she always puts it so much better!!) that if you can bear to wait for the amnio it sounds like your Mum may have a point. The waiting is awful, but if the amnio is more conclusive and safer it does sound a better option. Sending you loads of hugs!!!!

I've got good news, and am sooo relieved. I was so sure it was going to be bad news we are delighted. It seems like there may be a sac there from an ?unviable (I hate that word) twin that may be causing the bleeding. Sac is now a more regular shape, and there's a heartbeat so all seems well.

Dawn, I'm thinking of you, and lots of waves to everyone else. thanks for all your good wishes. Going to collapse on sofa now as exhausted!
Knax xx

detoxdiva · 05/12/2008 15:50

Afternoon ladies

Hope all is well with all the beans, babies and bonkers

Dawn - goodness you really are being put through the mill aren't you. You are being so strong, just hang on in there. I have no advice other than just do what feels right for you. I am sure dh will be fine - men often react in ways that are completely alien to us don't they??

Dawni - pmsl at your opk in the cafe!! Thankfully I throw mine straight away, or else that's the kind of thing I'd do .

BSOB - glad to hear the tests are gong well. Hope dh stays strong during his tests and that you get some answers soon

All ok here - am now cd 8 and will start using the opk's tomorrow I think. Ov'd on cd 16 on my last cycle when I got my bfp, so will start the bd'ing in earnest tonight and aim for every other day for the next week. Should keep dh happy

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DawnAS · 05/12/2008 16:56

Hello all,

Knax, so pleased with your news hun!! You can start to relax a little now and enjoy things. Although if you're anything like me, you'll still worry a bit, but I think everyone does!! Sounds like things are definitely moving in the right direction though - yay!! [hgrin]

DD, it is a bit of a nightmare at the moment but I'm starting to feel a bit calmer about things now. There's nothing that I can do so I just need to wait. I phoned ARC aswell and they were brilliant. Said that any time I didn't feel that I was getting the support from DH, to call them and talk through how I was feeling. It's a real comfort to know that all you girls, my family and ARC are there to help me through. Good luck on the OPKs hun!!

BSL, thanks for all your thoughts hun. Having gone through the CVS, I just feel that I need to get over that trauma before I go headlong into another one!! Good news for you though at the docs, that's brilliant. Hope your DH is Ok. I would imagine that all this is a little overwhelming!!

Mandy, as always, thank you for your continued support. I'm actually feeling quite positive at the moment and know that I will be busy over the next few weeks, so even though I think about it constantly, it doesn't seem such a sharp pain at the moment, more of a dull feeling in the back of my mind. Hopefully I can keep it there until we move house and get settled in and then focus again.

Dawni, you do make me laugh. Luckily I work from home - so it's only the dog that I have to hide things from. Well, she'd get very jealous if she knew we were having a baby I'm sure!!

Ceebee, hope Sam is still doing well - bless his little cottons!!

Juanitad, thanks for your thoughts. Hope Patrick is Ok today. Assuming that you had snow then, everyone enjoying it? We never get it down here - it has started raining quite heavily though and DH has just taken the dog out - ooops!!

Majormoo, thanks for the suggestion about the private scan hun, but we've decided I think just to wait for the amnio. I'm 14 weeks next Wednesday and we're really busy with moving house, Xmas and busy at work, so hopefully it won't feel too long....

Hi to HC, MJIM and CE, hope I haven't missed anyone.

So, I just called the hospital after we've decided definitely to go for the Amnio. They're going to call back with some available dates and we're going to try and go for the week between Xmas and New Year when I'll be 16-17 weeks. They did say that I'd be lucky to get the results in two days because of it being the holiday period and may have to wait until 5th January, but if I know up front, at least I can be prepared for that.

I had a visit from two of my sisters today with my two nieces. It was really lovely. They bought me lunch AND a big box of chocolates. They then Oohed and Aaahed over my bump and the scan pics. Everyone's convinced that our little Jellybean is going to be Ok so I'm clinging onto that at the moment. They told me that I have a very neat bump - which every pregnant woman likes to hear I'm sure!!

After months of organising, it's my Dad's surprise 60th birthday party tomorrow night. My DH works in the photographic industry and has created some brilliant posters to go up at the party with my Dad shaking Winston Churchill's hand and my Dad's head on Prince Phillip's body next to the Queen. Hilarious!!

Wish me luck for tomorrow. I'm going out with him tonight and just hope I don't drop myself in it so that he guesses about his party!!

Hope you all have a lovely weekend!!

xxxx

Mandy73 · 05/12/2008 17:49

Knax I'm so happy to hear the good news.

Sorry for being so cr*p at catching up with everyone - come the 20th I'm taking two weeks off so I'll be better then.

Have a nice w/e!
xx

detoxdiva · 05/12/2008 19:13

Goodness Knax - how rude of me, we must have crossed posts....so pleased to hear your news.

soosy · 05/12/2008 20:15

BSOB I am about what your GP said! I was told its a third male, third female and third other (including unexplained).

Congrats to any babies I have missed and any conceptions....

Knax I hope you have a belated christmas present this year (well the results anyway.)

Sorry to hear Naomi has been unwell.

HC how are you?

Hope all the bumps are growing!

Sorry so short and not very personal, but have been busy. Still popping in occasionally.

Love to you all

S x

FrostyTheSnowman · 05/12/2008 20:23

Back from the Bike Show at the NEC and as expected there was an accident on the M1 which delayed us an hour. DH stopped at the Chinese on the way home so have a Sweet and Sour Pork waiting to be eaten.

Knax-that is good news. Sadly it is quite common to have the unviable twin.

Dawn-pleased you have made the decision to have an amnio. Not too long to wait but long enough eh?

Dawni-lol at you. I always throw mine out the following morning. Last night on CD6 was -ive but just been to look at one I did earlier and even DH with tired driving eyes can see a line so whoopee, must be still OVing but on CD8 or 9. Means we must send the troups in tonight but AF still not completely finished. Have never ever had a 7 day AF before.

Anyway, Jungle final in a mo so must get my Chinese.

Love to all.

HC
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Dawni · 05/12/2008 20:33

frosty From now on they will go straight in the bin !! jungle final, I am dead excited, i want Joe to win followed by George then Martina, but really I'm not fussed....Did you have a good time except the delay ?

Hi to all, I do read everything, I just cant get to reply cause my 16 year old is always wanting on and watching over my shoulder !!!

Love & hugs to all girlies

D xx

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FrostyTheSnowman · 05/12/2008 21:34

Yup, Joe to win followed by George then Martina so same as your order Dawni.

Was a good day, sat on some new bikes.

HC
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BlueStarOverBethlehem · 05/12/2008 23:50

Hey guys!

Knax - I am so so so happy to hear your news!!! I feel all emotional and happy for you!!

Dawn - I'm so glad you made the right decision for you! When you put it like that, it makes perfect sense. PLus we are all here for a chat/vent...what ever you need!

Frosty - yay!!! It has to be good news about the the OPKs! I am having a good feeling about a BFP for you and me this month!! (okay...amending that to I am praying for a BFP for you and me, but surely we must be due one by now!)

Soosy - hey! hope things are good for you. I'm lurking on the AC thread...but am feeling a fraud at the moment. Can I ask you how your DH dealt with fertility treatment etc...as I know we have a similar situation. I thought (til yesterday) me and DH were great and now there's a small seed of worry!!

Mandy - how's your growing wriggy bump?? Have you bought much yet????

Ceebee - great news about the routine!!!

Myjob - Awwww bless little Naomi!! It sounds like you are besotted! Glad the routine is settled! How's you DS??

Detox - we are pretty much in sync this cycle!!! yay! Everything okay??

Majormoo - looking forward to seeing some more newborn pix...!!

Sleeps now!

BSOB x

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Dawni · 06/12/2008 15:33

Hi to all, another cold day !!

knax just read back properly, fantastic news, sending ya love xx

frosty My DH is so full of envy, he is a megga bike fan and used to teach years ago, he does'nt have one now and I'm not wanting him to, they are heavy and powerful and my DH has only one leg and it scares me to death all the nutters on the road that don't respect bikers. One day we might invest in a trike, that could be fun

My baby is officially 16 today, I gave birth to him at 1.16pm after 18 hours of labour, I remember it like it was yesterday....hope to god I get a GFP this month, I'm so broody I cry when I see a new baby !!!

D xx

Dawni · 06/12/2008 15:34

God I cant type !! I meant BFP

detoxdiva · 06/12/2008 16:12

You and me both Dawni

And good luck BSOB & Frosty too - you never know

The winter of love has started - bring on the bfp's

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Dawni · 06/12/2008 21:25

MJIM Thankyou......Great pics of your little ones hun

D xx

FrostyTheSnowman · 06/12/2008 21:54

MJIM-isn't Naomi growing. She is very pretty.

Dawni-Happy 16th B'Day to your baby. Hope you get a BFP soon. How come DH has only one leg? We had a bad motorbike crash 10 years ago and I was in hospital 8 days. Did put me off being a pillion especially after having the girls but am getting a bit of a yearning for it again. We know so many people that have died though.

Bluestar-surely me, you, detox, Dawni, Willmouse, soosy et all are due a BFP soon. Running out of time as I really don't want to be over 40 when I give birth.

Went to M&S earlier and picked up a brochure and Take That were on the cover and pics of the advert are inside so going to take it to bed to swoon over it.

Also went to the Pizza Hut so am bursting out of my jeans.

Love to all.

HC
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Dawni · 07/12/2008 06:35

Goodmorning to all you ladies, im sat with my weetabix, it very bloody early but im working today . The tv is on the blink in the kitchen so ive switched on my DH works laptop.....How naughty am I

frosty My DH was born without his right leg, it has never stopped him doing anything at all, he is body builing right now with my DS who won under 18s mr uk championship a few months ago. DH is waiting for full pelvis and hip and thigh bone replacement at the mo as the bone has been getting no blood supply and has died !! He has been in agony poor soul, but never says anything, just carries on working and tries to keep cheery....gotta go scrape the car now, catch up later on.

Much love

D xx

tistheCEEBEEtobejolly · 07/12/2008 13:10

MJIM wow Naomi is beautiful - no wonder you are smitten!! Just looking at the photos make me a little about the fact I am never going to have a baby girl!

Dawni hope you have a good day at work - and hope the BFing is going well

HC glad you had a good time at the bike show and you didn't miss Em and Soph that much?? I am sorry - have been really slack on the Scrabble front since Sam was born - will try and get back into it asap

Knax glad everything seems ok but about the unviable twin. As HC says, it is quite common.

Soosy lovely to hear from you - hope you are all well

DH has taken Josh to MIL's for the afternoon so it is just me and Sam for the next few hours although he is currently asleep and I may just join him in a mo....

Hope you are all having a good weekend

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