The addictable wagoners have abandoned the waterlogged field back to the safety of the Wagon (with Spa facilities). Thread for those waiting to TTC, those TTC now and other graduates alike!!

[GYo]

New thread over here!!

Shusshhhhh we're hiding!!

Oh, and after all that rambling...

SES - I would definitely recommend the early scan route.

Dal -sorry about period (sorry, can't do 'AF'!) . You sound like you have your head screwed on re TTC but we will do our best to bully you anyway

Cal - you're sounding a bit brighter. I hope you are feeling it.

Oh god, I HATE the DFS advert too, it soooo embarassing!

I'm adding my AF, ok a little selfish but I feel necassary.

It's no good is it? You are all conspiring against me....

Thanks Teuch, as ever you speak sense! It is confusing, but do-able, I thought it would be like going back to the weeks following the MC emotionally, but I am strangely(?) settled.

NJ you're an old meany!

I don't think there is a right way for you to feel today, although I should think there's plenty of expectation of how you should feel, which I guess is confusing, particularly if you don't feel it. I'd like to think that I'll be pg by the time the edd comes round and be able to take comfort from it like Teuch says - I hope you can too.

I realised on Weds evening that I was booked for the 12 week scan in the afternoon - I mentioned it to DH and he said "oh", and that's how I felt - not enough to make me cry and I hope that's a good sign of acceptance and willingness to move on (rather than a complete lack of compassion for myself IYKWIM?)

Dal - lol at your 'oops' for eating chocolate ....I haven't had anything to eat yet as don't really fancy anything, but chocolate....mmmmmmmmm Might have to go and raid the cupboards and see what's lurking. I think your plans for waiting sound good, in as much as they suit you - clearly would be over the moon for you if you got a BFP though! And expect lots of pushing tempting comments from NJ to get you back off the wagon over the coming months!

GYo, you could have made me a bowl of porridge - I just can't be arsed this morning! Maybe I'll have some in a minute...with chocolate!

Teuch, good to hear from you, I've missed you

Teuch - am feeling it , if a lot little lazy too

Think the real test will be going back to work but doc said not to go back till I was going out of my mind with boredom and wanted to go back to work - so clearly he's never heard of MN!

Ahem, less of the old if you don't mind!

I am actually going into hiding for a while now, I have a date with my mother on the phone, think I'd rather talk to TalkTalk LOL

See you in a bit xxx

I'm off to get my stinky self in to the bath before I become one with the sofa and the neighbours think I only ever wear my dresing gown . Back when i'm clean!

ooh sorry Cal- thought you were still in bed

will make double porridge next time..

you were right Diege- rain stopped here and its a bit brighter....

Am following Dal's example and sending myself off to the kitchen for something to eat, then running myself a big bath to wallow in whilst testing out a new face mask I ordered in from body shop a couple of weeks ago . Not quite the same as a spa break but about right for now I think.

I'm having a bit of a zit break out at the moment, which is very unlike me, which I guess is a combination of my unclean tramp like couch potato status, and hormones settling down. The bleeding seems to have finally stopped which is nice, kind of feel like I can really close a door today - by making nice plans for this weekend, next week and even next weekend.

And whilst trying not to get emotional (due to starvation) can I just say, one more (and last) time, a really, really, really big thanks to all of you for listening, supporting and helping me to see past my experiences of last week. I know its difficult 'posting around' someone who's a bit down, so appreciate your honesty and support. Thank you for not ignoring me...

Right, food. Bath. GET DRESSED!

Enjoy your bath Cal-

Glad you are feeling a bit better and have nice w/e plans.

Im off shortly to hosp. Going early so we can get a coffee before and not turn up stressed.

Will report back

Byeee

PS thanks for all the wishes of luck

Am of all your wallowy baths, you know what I'll be doing tonight, in fact no I won't BB final, tomorrow night then

I have started the shopping, BUT, big but, I can get away with saying it's for DS2's birthday because it is all for him............ so far

Am now off to choose my new mobile, why do I always get really sillily excited about getting a new phone, then it turns up, I put it on charge, put it in my bag, and don't touch it till the next time it want's upgrading

meant to say (and honestly thought I'd started my last post with):

Good luck for the scan GYo, can't wait for the pics

Glad you have good relaxing afternoon planned CALS . Face pack sound slovely, as do your plans for pamering next week .
LOL at phome Nat - I'm exactly the same re: usage, though admit I'll happily pick up a £30 cheapie at supermarket as I never get the damn thing out!
It's STILL raining here, so have got my super bright wellies out of garage, and will team with my super bright Boden raincoat - ok so I'll look like a children's presented but I'll be dry!
DD on the other hand will have to slum it in wellies and brolly as I can't for the life of me find her raincover - arghhh!!!!
Looking forward to hearing about scan GYO ; hi Dal!! Are you non-stinkified yet??

slovely You know what I mean!!

Hi Diege!
Meant to say thanks for the book recommendation. I'm going to have a look as I think I'll need something!
Still raining here too!
Have managed to wangle working from home today and am currently watching crappy Music and Lyrics! Mindless fun!

Hey everyone - I'm now de-stinkified!

What have you bought for DS NJ? I'm stuck for ideas and his birthday seems to be coming round really quick. We didn't spend much on him last year so will probably splurge a bit more this time around.

Also, last year we had a party for him and his 'friends' from swimming at our house, not really sure I could manage that this time around! Too many climbers etc!

Morning all!

After a days let up of sickness yesterday which sent me in to a panic it appears to be back with avengeance today

I just got home from a morning's nannying to a letter from the hospital to say that I have a scan on Tues at 9am How exciting!

LOL at the hiding behind the tumbleweeds!

Diege I am also plucking up the courage to brave the rain but I just can't bring myself to do it! Its pouring grrr!

Yes, thanks, I am non-stinkified

Havr just spent ages wiping philidelphia (sp?) off ds as he would rather play with his dinner than eat it

Right off to get ready to actually leave the house cause I ahve to get flour to make a pie.

Back later, can't wait to hear about the scan!!!

morning

busy on here 2 day will try and remember everyone

cal feelings r normal hormones can be mean.

good luck gyo exciting

gruff scan is exciting

hi nat

darly soz for ew

dd had her 2nd day @ nursery went gr8. did 9-12pm
while she was @ nursery we went to mothercare so that dh could test out quinny buzz loves it 2
also had a look @ the baby clothes very cute.
saw some lovely fitted sheets with dogs,bears and rabbits on.
we had a hot drink in sainsburys, out of the rain

hi ladies sorry not had time to catch up receently i think ive become drivin obsessed i cant atop just nipping here there and everywhere

also getting last of things for ds to start school on monday.
still no TEW and still BFN!! i had that 3 days of spotting 2 weeks ago? would anyone take that as a period? think will leave another couple of weeks an dif no proper AF will go to doctor. then will have been 8 weeks without proper AF!

any news i have to catch upon? ive tried reading thru the threads but only a quick scan through!

i knonw is sad cos im not even PG but i've been looking at buying the accessories for my mutsy urban rider for a new born! there are a few bargains on ebay! i have had about 10 prams in total and this is my fav so want to kee using it!

Hello Everyone

Back from scan. Everything is fine and my nuchal measurement worked out as low risk (they dont do triple test yet in my hosp) at 1:2589.

The little bean- though not really a bean anymore, was jumping all over the place till they tried to measure it then it slumped and wouldnt move so i got sent off to firstly have a wee (massive relief) then when that didnt work I had to go off for caffiene and sugar to try and get it moving!

Anyway- so relieved, actually almost feel shocked.. DH is scanning in the pics as I type so will upload in a moment!

Sorry for me me me post, will now catch up
with everyone ones news!

GYo - that's fantastic!! Or should I say fanatastica!!???