TTC after second or third trimester loss

[MissingMyBaby]

Hi, I thought I would start a thread to see if there’s anyone who has had a second or third trimester loss and is TTC or will be in the next few months.

I was pregnant until a few weeks ago where i sadly lost my so wanted baby at 20 weeks. It’s a horrible pain. We’ve decided to wait until April to TTC so that we can grieve our baby and try to heal mentally and physically. It’s difficult as I really just want my current baby, but my body is also aching to have a living child in my arms.

I’ve now had my first period since the loss and i’ve started tracking so i can start to understand my cycle post loss.

I am so so sorry for your loss, that is so devastating 😞 please take care of yourselves, don't make any final decisions right now. Grieve and take the time you need. Of course it's completely understandable if once you've had that time, you still feel the same way.

We've not had a great round, despite 10 eggs and 7 fertilizing, we've only been left with 2 blasts to send for PGT, so the chance of this cycle producing a usable embryo is incredibly small. We're mentally preparing for the next round already really, which is our final NHS funded round, and would be our final round overall as we can't afford to pay privately x

I’m am so, so sorry @i123i. Absolutely heartbreaking update. Please be kind to yourself. I hope that you have lots of support and kindness around you. ❤️

I am so sorry @i123i. Such heartbreaking news. Are you getting the support you need from those around you? I hope the physical side of things is manageable.

I completely understand why you’re saying you’re done with TTC, but don’t put pressure on yourself to even think about that yet. Maybe you will still feel that your journey is over in a few weeks, but maybe you won’t. Either way, you have our support 💐