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Anyone else in the early stages of their TTC journey for baby #1?

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Ivylilac · 23/03/2025 00:23

Hi everyone,

We’re early into our TTC journey and are currently on cycle number 2 for our first baby. I’ve also never been pregnant before.

I’m currently on day 14 of my cycle but my cycles are around 25-27 days on average, so my Flo app predicted I’d ovulate on day 12 based off symptoms of ovulation from previous months which have been quite consistent. We dtd on day 7,8,10 and 11 and haven’t been able to do it again since due to clashing work schedules, mega long days and then being exhausted in our free time as a result, so I have no idea if we’ve done enough this cycle.

Either way, it would be nice to chat to others in the same boat who are also only just starting their TTC journey! :) I told myself this cycle I wouldn’t count down the days or symptom spot like I did last cycle, but it’s hard not to already!

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BrightSide234 · 04/05/2025 12:12

So despite sending that message I decided I couldn't wait as I feel really off today, can't explain it. Well I think I've got my BFP 🥹

I'm trying not to get hopes up too quick as have heard the cheapy tests sometimes have an indentation line in etc. So will use a CB one to double check. Only thing is my husband is away on a stag do until tomorrow evening so will be torture waiting until he gets back!

Anyone else in the early stages of their TTC journey for baby #1?
PearOpal · 04/05/2025 14:39

BrightSide234 · 04/05/2025 12:12

So despite sending that message I decided I couldn't wait as I feel really off today, can't explain it. Well I think I've got my BFP 🥹

I'm trying not to get hopes up too quick as have heard the cheapy tests sometimes have an indentation line in etc. So will use a CB one to double check. Only thing is my husband is away on a stag do until tomorrow evening so will be torture waiting until he gets back!

That looks very much positive!!! Congrats @BrightSide234

Crocs30 · 04/05/2025 16:50

BrightSide234 · 04/05/2025 12:12

So despite sending that message I decided I couldn't wait as I feel really off today, can't explain it. Well I think I've got my BFP 🥹

I'm trying not to get hopes up too quick as have heard the cheapy tests sometimes have an indentation line in etc. So will use a CB one to double check. Only thing is my husband is away on a stag do until tomorrow evening so will be torture waiting until he gets back!

Ah congrats!!! From what I’ve read elsewhere indent lines are much thinner and fainter than that. That looks like some of the earlier tests I did!

2Sugars2 · 04/05/2025 17:51

Aww @BrightSide234 that looks positive to me!! Fingers crossed for you that the lines get darker. Congrats ✨

BrightSide234 · 04/05/2025 19:43

Thank you @PearOpal, @Crocs30, @2Sugars2

I'm in disbelief to be honest, doesn't feel real after a few months of BFN. Did a CB digital test with weeks and it said 1-2 weeks pregnant so must be true! Maybe it was the sushi in the middle of the TWW hah.

Desperate to tell my husband but want to do it in person so will have to endure more waiting 🙈

Ivylilac · 04/05/2025 19:47

@BrightSide234 how exciting!!! Congratulations! 🥰

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BrightSide234 · 04/05/2025 19:50

Ivylilac · 04/05/2025 19:47

@BrightSide234 how exciting!!! Congratulations! 🥰

Thanks @Ivylilac, how are you getting on? Are you still planning on testing tomorrow?

Ivylilac · 04/05/2025 20:42

BrightSide234 · 04/05/2025 19:50

Thanks @Ivylilac, how are you getting on? Are you still planning on testing tomorrow?

Yes still planning to test tomorrow! AF still hasn’t arrived and despite being convinced last night I was going to start, I woke up again this morning with more controlled cramps and went about my day with no real feelings that my period was going to come on. Had slightly sore boobs today, a mega stuffy nose when I first woke up and backache too, and according to my CB app I’m now 2 days late and 1 day late by Flo’s prediction. So definitely going to test tomorrow morning if I don’t start my period before!

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Couchtattie · 05/05/2025 05:04

That’s a strong positive, congrats @BrightSide234 !!! Lovely news.

Also good luck @Ivylilac. x

BrightSide234 · 05/05/2025 08:28

Fingers crossed for you @Ivylilac, sending baby dust!

Thank you @Couchtattie ☺️

Ivylilac · 05/05/2025 09:18

So after doubting it completely this month, I got my BFP this morning 🥰 I’m in shock to be honest, I really thought it wasn’t going to happen for me for a while!! I used a CB ultra early even though I was technically 3 days late, but that was all I had and the dark line came up instantly!

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ProfessionalOverthinker1 · 05/05/2025 09:37

Congratulations @Ivylilac and @BrightSide234 ❤️ 🤩

LuellaB · 05/05/2025 09:39

Congratulations @Ivylilac and @BrightSide234! the best news

tiutinkerbell · 05/05/2025 10:02

Congrats @Ivylilac and @BrightSide234 - incredibly chuffed for you both!!! What a lovely way to start a new week!

mummm2 · 05/05/2025 10:10

Huge congratulations @Ivylilac& @BrightSide234! Wishing you both happy healthy pregnancies 🥰

Crocs30 · 05/05/2025 10:56

Ahh congrats @Ivylilac!!!!

Ivylilac · 05/05/2025 11:12

Thanks everyone 🥰

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BrightSide234 · 05/05/2025 11:14

Thanks so much everyone 🥰

Amazing news, huge congrats @Ivylilac! Funny that when this started we were same cycle and CD and now both pregnant same time 😂

SilverDrive · 05/05/2025 11:32

Congratulations @Ivylilac and @BrightSide234 🥰

Ivylilac · 05/05/2025 11:59

BrightSide234 · 05/05/2025 11:14

Thanks so much everyone 🥰

Amazing news, huge congrats @Ivylilac! Funny that when this started we were same cycle and CD and now both pregnant same time 😂

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I know literally identical timings!! 😂

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PearOpal · 05/05/2025 13:59

Ahhh congrats @Ivylilac and again to you @BrightSide234!! so happy for both of you. Sending so many blessings and wishing you happy healthy pregnancies!

2Sugars2 · 05/05/2025 14:15

Congrats @Ivylilac lovely to see the news about you and @BrightSide234 wishing you both happy and healthy pregnancies

Ivylilac · 05/05/2025 17:12

@PearOpal @2Sugars2 thank you both!!! ❤️

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Couchtattie · 05/05/2025 18:12

Congrats @Ivylilac wonderful news!!!

BrightSide234 · 05/05/2025 22:40

Thanks for all of the love everyone, so kind. Finally got to tell my husband this afternoon and was met with tears 🥹 The googling of "can you eat [insert food here] if pregnant" has begun 😂

Sending baby dust to all in the TWW or getting ready for the next cycle 💖✨

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