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Nov 2024 TTC 💖 part 2 ✨

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CoolSummer89 · 09/11/2024 13:40

Hi all,
We have reached 500 posts in the part 1 thread already and we are only a third of the way through November!! Starting a new thread here.

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JessicaViolet · 11/11/2024 08:29

JessicaViolet · 11/11/2024 08:26

Morning ladies. 12dpo today and still feeling rough as a badgers ass 😂 took an easy@home 10miu test this morning and it was bfn so I'm now starting to think my symptoms are down to me coming off the pill in august 🤷🏻‍♀️

I forgot to add onto my post, is anyone on here good at bbt charts? I got a thermometer this month and managed to start tracking my temp just after O. Wondered if anyone might take a look at my chart? I appreciate I didn't start temping until after O!

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Kateb149 · 11/11/2024 08:30

MyGardenDaisies · 11/11/2024 07:32

Is this a v faint line forming? Tell me if I’m making it up! Period due tomorrow, 11DPO today, not a sensitive test.

I feel like I can see something… have you tried the negative thingy again on the photo? How are you feeling?

Kateb149 · 11/11/2024 08:31

HollyGolightly4 · 11/11/2024 06:38

Hope everyone is ok. I'm 7dpo and feeling so nervous.

I have an internal scan today.

Hope everything goes okay, sending love and we’re all here if you need us! X

AudreyJL · 11/11/2024 08:32

Kateb149 · 10/11/2024 07:47

Sorry to hear, it’s never a nice day when it comes is it! I felt okay yesterday until I got into bed and then had a little cry 🥲
I saw a tip from someone else that if AF comes you should do something that you wouldn’t be able to do if you were pregnant to give yourself a little pick me up… so I might eat some sushi and have a glass of wine this week 😅 x

I had a little lie in bed feeling sorry for myself 😅 Sushi definitely sounds good! x

AudreyJL · 11/11/2024 08:34

JW24M · 10/11/2024 21:31

Sending love. So bloody hard when it comes x

Thank you x

Kateb149 · 11/11/2024 08:34

JW24M · 10/11/2024 21:35

Hope everyone is ok ❤️ new week starts tomorrow. I always feel the most sad about this ttc stuff on a sunday, think it’s cause i’ve less on so think about it more… but fertile window I believe starts tomorrow. I’m just hoping this breathing space without bbt/lh has relaxed us more.
Sending baby dust to anyone in their TWW, and love to anyone who’s af has arrived. Crossing fingers and toes we get some BFP’s on this chain soon! Xx

Keeping everything crossed for you 🤞 sounds like you are doing the right thing and hopefully not tracking will make you feel less stressed about it all.
Totally agree with you about Sundays or any time there’s not much happening!
Good luck this week ❤️ xx

AudreyJL · 11/11/2024 08:36

Tryingfor3rd · 10/11/2024 12:52

Hi @HNM I'm also breastfeeding my 18 month old and wondering if it will affect my chances of getting pregnant. My 1st was combined fed so I got my periods pretty quickly so conceiving my 2nd wasn't such a worry at the time. But with my 2nd I ebf and only got my periods at the end of this August and so have only had 2 periods which was a long cycle over 40 days. Like you I'm not bf constantly but she loves her bm and I feed to sleep. I posted a thread on here asking about getting pregnant while bf and there were positive experiences so hoping for both us!

I'm glad to hear your thread got such positive experiences. That definitely gives me hope. I'm still breastfeeding my little girl but have had my cycles return 5 months postpartum but not sure how breastfeeding plays a role with all my hormones lately as it's been a little out of whack.

MyGardenDaisies · 11/11/2024 08:45

I just got my period so I’ll take time to be upset and be back for December..

wouldlovearoast · 11/11/2024 08:55

@MyGardenDaisies I feel like a see a v v faint line, can you try get a sensitive test?

wouldlovearoast · 11/11/2024 08:58

@MyGardenDaisies ah sorry just seen your post about AF arrival. Sorry to read! ☹️ it's so hard this TTC! I'll see you on the next one as my AF is in full flow

1woodpecker · 11/11/2024 10:21

Hi everyone. I posted on the last thread but then disappeared for a bit! Tried to not think about it all for a bit. Anyway, think I ovulated yesterday so today is 1DPO.

Didn’t catch a peak OPK this cycle - usually I get a dye stealer, so not entirely sure when peak was, but my temperature rose this morning. Will see how it looks tomorrow. I have a 21 day progesterone test ready to take so hoping to accurately know when I ovulated so that can be accurate.

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1woodpecker · 11/11/2024 10:23

JessicaViolet · 11/11/2024 08:29

I forgot to add onto my post, is anyone on here good at bbt charts? I got a thermometer this month and managed to start tracking my temp just after O. Wondered if anyone might take a look at my chart? I appreciate I didn't start temping until after O!

I’ve been BBT charting for a couple of years, is there anything specific you’re wanting to know? Looks good!

1woodpecker · 11/11/2024 10:23

Also, has anyone else read It Starts With the Egg. I just got it and have been reading. Ordered some specific supplements that it recommends - happy to take a photo of the pages if it would be helpful to anyone!

JW24M · 11/11/2024 10:36

MyGardenDaisies · 11/11/2024 07:32

Is this a v faint line forming? Tell me if I’m making it up! Period due tomorrow, 11DPO today, not a sensitive test.

There is something there, but as someone constantly stung with indents, keeping fingers crossed for your next test to be a bit stronger 🤞🏽❤️ xx

JW24M · 11/11/2024 10:38

wouldlovearoast · 11/11/2024 07:42

Morning ladies! Lovely to see lots of positives over the weekend.
As I prepare for TTC cycle 4, just wondering if any of you use vitamins / supplements to help fertility or if you have heard of success stories from anyone else using them?
I'm using folic acid, I've tried VIT DNA and coq10 but so far not worked and they are expensive, may just try folic acid moving forward?
Also what's your thoughts on drinking when TTC? I don't drink a huge amount but wondering to cut down even more or all together?

Pregnacare pre-preg vitamins i’m 100% positive messed up my cycle- was 10 days late after taking for a while and its the only change. Cycle is now going back to original pattern now xx I take folic acid and vitamin tablet xx

JW24M · 11/11/2024 10:40

MyGardenDaisies · 11/11/2024 08:45

I just got my period so I’ll take time to be upset and be back for December..

I’m so sorry - I was reading in order of the thread and didn’t see this before my above comment. Sending you so much love xx

JW24M · 11/11/2024 10:42

So so random - but does DTD at different times of the day make a difference? Fertile window this week but CM is indicating I may be ovulating sooner rather than later… we usually DTD at night but does it make a diff to do it in the morn for swimmers mobility etc? I’ll google but be interested to know thoughts xx

MyGardenDaisies · 11/11/2024 10:56

Thank you @JW24M @wouldlovearoast
I am happy I had a normal 28 day cycle again after last month’s 26 days, and also no sobbing, just got teary eyed and sad.

I’m gonna focus on weight loss for fertility now more and hope December will bring a BFP.

CoolSummer89 · 11/11/2024 11:00

@1woodpecker I think that 0.97 looks like a 1. Sometimes when the light is dark (ugh winter!) the reader on premom doesn't work so well. I would love to look at the pages in that book if you're happy to share? Thinking of switching up the supplements I use.

@JW24M only thing I know about diff times of the day is that men tend to have more testosterone in the morning, but not sure if/how that would effect fertility. Probably just arousal.

@MyGardenDaisies I'm so sorry lovely, it's so hard isn't it. I will def be joining you in 1-2 days.

@JessicaViolet I think there is only so much you can read into BBT. 1. temp gets higher after ovulation and this confirms ovulation. 2. temp will go down right before period. Some say that erratic temps after ovulation could be a sign of weak progesterone, but there are a lot of factors which affect temps (e.g. sleep, illnesses etc). You have a dip at 10dpo, for some people this can indicate implantation however for many (including me) it's a sign of second oestrogen surge. Oestrogen lowers your temp and progesterone will raise it.

Basically this is a long-winded way of saying, BBT is great for confirming ovulation but for other things there are too many variables to say for sure! Your temps look lovely and consistent though.

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JessicaViolet · 11/11/2024 11:02

@CoolSummer89 ah thank you so much for that, that was really helpful! To be honest I have minimal knowledge about bbt but I've been using fertility friend so thought I would give it a go!

1woodpecker · 11/11/2024 11:11

@wouldlovearoast and anyone else interested re supplements. This is from it starts the egg. Hopefully it comes in order, as it’s different recommendations based on if there’s specific issues like PCOS.

Personally I’m taking Proceive woman, plus Coq10 (Ubiquinol), vitamin C, vitamin E, Vitamin D. Quite high doses for some as recommended in the book.

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Thank you so much so helpful 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Sugarcube84 · 11/11/2024 11:27

MyGardenDaisies · 11/11/2024 10:56

Thank you @JW24M @wouldlovearoast
I am happy I had a normal 28 day cycle again after last month’s 26 days, and also no sobbing, just got teary eyed and sad.

I’m gonna focus on weight loss for fertility now more and hope December will bring a BFP.

Keep positive, this time next month you could have a bfp just in time for Christmas.

1woodpecker · 11/11/2024 11:32

On the Christmas note! Crazy how I feel it’s so unlikely to get a BFP but then last night when i was trying to sleep I kept thinking about if I do and how will I manage Christmas drinking and keeping it a secret. I worked out I’d be about 9 weeks at Christmas.. then I felt silly for even thinking it could happen!