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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Nov 2024 TTC 💖 part 2 ✨

502 replies

CoolSummer89 · 09/11/2024 13:40

Hi all,
We have reached 500 posts in the part 1 thread already and we are only a third of the way through November!! Starting a new thread here.

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Kateb149 · 09/11/2024 21:22

AF has showed up this evening so CD1 for me! Was really hoping cycle 4 would be lucky for us but we’ll keep trying. Congrats to everyone with a BFP this month! ☺️ x

MyGardenDaisies · 09/11/2024 21:24

@Kateb149 sorry to hear :/

Kateb149 · 09/11/2024 21:36

Thank you, it is bang on time so it can’t be mistaken for anything else! I have everything crossed for you 🤞 x

Ttcftmama · 09/11/2024 21:51

Kateb149 · 09/11/2024 21:22

AF has showed up this evening so CD1 for me! Was really hoping cycle 4 would be lucky for us but we’ll keep trying. Congrats to everyone with a BFP this month! ☺️ x

Ah sorry to hear xx

JW24M · 09/11/2024 22:17

Kateb149 · 09/11/2024 21:22

AF has showed up this evening so CD1 for me! Was really hoping cycle 4 would be lucky for us but we’ll keep trying. Congrats to everyone with a BFP this month! ☺️ x

Sorry to hear this :( i’m just starting our ttc#1, cycle 4- its weirdly my lucky number. Hopefully cycle 5 is your lucky one ✨🤞🏽❤️

Confusedmermaid1 · 09/11/2024 22:24

Thanks for adding me to the new thread ☺️ trying not to symptom spot as I’m only 4 dpo but I’ve had mild cramps all day.. hoping it’s not a sign that my period will turn up ridiculously early again 🙄

Kateb149 · 09/11/2024 22:33

JW24M · 09/11/2024 22:17

Sorry to hear this :( i’m just starting our ttc#1, cycle 4- its weirdly my lucky number. Hopefully cycle 5 is your lucky one ✨🤞🏽❤️

Number 4 is my lucky number too! 😅 maybe it will show up in another way for me ☺️ hope your lucky number lives up to its expectation ❤️ x

JW24M · 09/11/2024 22:49

Kateb149 · 09/11/2024 22:33

Number 4 is my lucky number too! 😅 maybe it will show up in another way for me ☺️ hope your lucky number lives up to its expectation ❤️ x

Thank you lovely xx

AudreyJL · 09/11/2024 23:16

Ttcftmama · 09/11/2024 20:55

Hi yes of course, after having my daughter my cycle became incredibly irregular. I think I had 2 periods in one year! This was my most obvious symptom and led me to seeking medical advice. Also my periods were incredibly painful (when they came) x

Thank you for sharing this x

AudreyJL · 09/11/2024 23:18

Kateb149 · 09/11/2024 21:22

AF has showed up this evening so CD1 for me! Was really hoping cycle 4 would be lucky for us but we’ll keep trying. Congrats to everyone with a BFP this month! ☺️ x

Sorry to hear this. AF showed up for me today as well x

Smileymom · 10/11/2024 00:23

CoolSummer89 · 09/11/2024 14:09

Tagging some people who are still active on the thread based on where they are up to based on their last posts.

BFPs (big fat positives)
@Moomoo20
@Triangleflower
@HonestPinkTiger
@LifeonMarss
@Pipersgirl
@TTCIrish

TWW (two week wait)
Me!
@kateb149
@mygardendaisies
@sugarcube84
@HollyGolightly4
@WonderGirl1111
@confusedmermaid1
@row23
@wouldlovearoast
@BrightLilacCat
@Mammyplease
@Mae2B
@SB0
@Jologi
@sellingupslow
@ThatSnugSwan
@kinderbueno89
@LittleGeneral
@LoveispatientLoveisKind
@Rorograce

Approaching fertile window
@LolaJ87
@JoMummyJessica
@rebecca199
@Tadpolecat

Just starting cycle
@jw24M
@HNM

Not sure
@bsummer
@Heartypandaa
@victoriarich

Joining us later
@nico89

@Liyoness not sure where you are as I think you were a bit confused yourself?
And I think there are tentative congrats for @butterflygirl23 but she is waiting to hear from EPAU

I would be in the ovulation stage of this list xx congratulations to all and sticky baby dust to those who are in limbo xxx

Tryingfor3rd · 10/11/2024 00:35

Hi may I join please? Not exactly sure when I ovulated as didn't track ovulation. Only got my periods back in August while currently breastfeeding my 18 month old. Had ewcm earlier this week so hoping I ovulated this week. Have 2 DC, a 4 year old and 18 month old. Been having really strong cramps last few days but trying not to symptom spot! Congrats to all the lovely bfps and can't wait to celebrate more here! X

Tadpolecat · 10/11/2024 06:36

Thank you for the tag @CoolSummer89 !
I'm impatiently waiting for my fertile window to start. If it's anything like my last cycles though I will stay low until I get a sudden static smiley. I just don't get flashing smileys!

Readysetgooo · 10/11/2024 06:48

Hi all. 2DPO here and feeling surprisingly relaxed, far more than I was when waiting for ovulation and constantly testing with OPKs. When I conceived my son I had lots of nausea, bloating and gassy at 7DPO and BFP at 10DPO so will probably start questioning every feeling as the week goes on.

Sugarcube84 · 10/11/2024 07:16

Row23 · 09/11/2024 20:35

Aha maybe I’ll show this to my husband so I can have a proper excuse to repaint the bathroom!

Do it!

Kateb149 · 10/11/2024 07:47

AudreyJL · 09/11/2024 23:18

Sorry to hear this. AF showed up for me today as well x

Sorry to hear, it’s never a nice day when it comes is it! I felt okay yesterday until I got into bed and then had a little cry 🥲
I saw a tip from someone else that if AF comes you should do something that you wouldn’t be able to do if you were pregnant to give yourself a little pick me up… so I might eat some sushi and have a glass of wine this week 😅 x

MrsB902 · 10/11/2024 07:53

Hope you don’t mind me joining, I’m ovulating today if I’ve tracked everything correctly. Currently on cycle 6 of trying for number 2. It’s definitely different this time round ttc when we have a toddler who loves to frequent our bed - he’s like the tiniest, cutest little cock block! Best of luck to all of you lovely ladies for this month and congratulations to those who have had positive tests 💕

MoonDaydream · 10/11/2024 08:06

Hi everyone, would like to join in here too! :)
This is my first month TTC after a MMC in September. I’m currently 8dpo, and obsessively googling every tiny cramp or ‘symptom’ (which is what led me here!)
My partner and I are desperate to conceive, especially after going through the trauma of a MMC (found out at 12 week scan with no prior indication anything was wrong), so I’m really putting the pressure on myself this month. I know the pressure probably won’t help me, especially as this is my first cycle since the MMC. I really can’t think about anything else!

Anyway, that’s my story currently.. looking forward to joining you all here!

MyGardenDaisies · 10/11/2024 08:16

Good morning! 10DPO, patiently waiting for Tuesday to miss period and test 🤞

rebecca199 · 10/11/2024 08:56

Finally it's peak day!! I feel like the wait for this was as painful as the TWW 😂

Nov 2024 TTC 💖 part 2 ✨
Shellbells44 · 10/11/2024 10:08

Congratulations to all those with their positive results! Going to be TTC towards to end of this month now x

rebecca199 · 10/11/2024 10:36

When do you guys have sex around positive LH test? We used to do it in the days before but I realised the 2 times I have been pregnant we did it about 2 days after the positive test so I think for us the sperm maybe don't live the '5 days' and don't last long enough to meet the egg! And maybe all this time we actually weren't doing it at the best time!

Curious to see what others do x

CoolSummer89 · 10/11/2024 11:10

Morning all,
Feeling much better after just allowing myself to test yesterday (BFN). Had a fun day with friends and then saw my mum. I think she tried to give me a birds and the bees talk even though I am 35 and actually she conceived me (her only child) accidentally - so not sure what advice she feels like she can give😅

Welcome @Dereksscrubcap @AudreyJL @Ttcftmama @Jemmy94 @Smileymom @Tryingfor3rd @MrsB902 @MoonDaydream

Congrats @Jologi best of luck for Monday's test too

Yay @sellingupslow - I did think you would be after that huge RHR rise

Oh @Butterflygirl23 I'm so sorry to hear that things are still up in the air. Will keep you in my thoughts 💓

Sorry to hear that AF has arrived @Kateb149 best of luck for next cycle

@rebecca199 I try to have sex every other day the 5 days before ovulation and then the three days after until ovulation is confirmed by BBT rise. I usually get my LH peak the day before ovulation.

When people say that sperm lives up for 5 days that is very rare and more of a warning for people trying NOT to get pregnant. The conditions have to be pretty perfect for sperm to survive that long. That's one of the reasons why it's easier to get pregnant in your 20s because you produce more EWCM which helps sperm live for longer.

But as I've not got pregnant once in the 11 months I have been trying who am I to give advice!

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Nicola1988 · 10/11/2024 11:16

Woke up to period. On to cd1 for me. This ill be ovulating around the 23rd of novemeber. Trying to remain positive. Working night shift tonight for the next 2 days. Wishing i could just curl up with my partner tonight x

HNM · 10/11/2024 12:34

Lots of people on this new thread, good luck everyone! It's so lovely we're all supporting each other through this stressful time - it's so encouraging to see some lovely positive pregnancy tests and also I love seeing people's very positive ovulation tests too! It gets me all excited for you.

As my situation is a little different I did an ovulation test this morning just to check there was absolutely no line, I think I was concerned I wasn't ovulating after the early miscarriage. I've had ovulation symptoms but wanted to check any way and it was fairly decent, definitely not super dark but dark enough to convince myself that I have some of the right hormones going on!

I'm really unsure of timings etc. so we're DTD every other day/some days every day to increase our chances. I'm also breastfeeding a 14 month old, not constantly but enough LOL, so I'm worried this will affect my chances of getting pregnant then staying pregnant - is anyone else in a similar situation?

Sending love Xx