Hi ladies, thank you all for your kind messages. I’m sorry for all your losses too.
@lozzmax I’m so pleased to hear your scan went well and hope all continues to go well. I get really worked up before scans too, it’s only natural when we’ve had bad experiences in the past. Thanks for mentioning the cervical weakness however it was a MMC for me this time, there was no heart beat at my 16 week scan. Based on measurements they think it happened not soon before which would align with coming off the prednisolone 😔 I’m finding the thought of the regular testing overwhelming too but it appears to be our own choice now. I’m also just so petrified of having another late (or even later) loss, I also had quite a traumatic experience giving birth to her (on Mother’s Day, would you believe it) so I think that’s holding me back. My initial consultations have been with Dr Shehata then Miss Edge takes over, she is lovely.
@HopefulH Great news from your scan but sorry to hear you have morning sickness. Do you mind if I ask what AIP foods are, were you recommended to stick to a specific diet whilst pregnant? I hope you are able to relax a little on holiday. May I ask why Dr Shehata was against Fragmin? I was already recommended it by my IVF consultant due to having the MTFR snp but he recommend it also. There was no genetic abnormality found and we have 4 genetically tested embryos left so it’s more a case of me being mentally ready to try this again!
@v60 I hope you get a positive result soon. If we opt to try again, it will be via IVF and I need to be on the Tacrolimus for a month before the transfer so I’m happy to share my experience with you. Has it been recommend that you still have testing but just less frequently?
@Carportforme Sorry for your losses and I hope you are able to find some answers. I didn’t have any signs of immune issues either before I had testing (other than my losses) although like HopefulH I also have endometriosis and have suspected there may be a link.
@Jecca88 Well done on going to your SIL’s party. I’ve been there with my SIL too, it’s really hard especially with family. I have a friend who is due in 3 weeks time, exactly the same time I would have been with this recent loss, it’s really tough navigating being happy for some one and managing your own emotions/pain etc.