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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

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Ella31 · 19/04/2024 23:16

Part three of of our previous threads.

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Rosyposy26 · 22/04/2024 14:31

@Ella31 i think I’m nearing then as cloudy white and quite think not sticky

ToeBeans24 · 22/04/2024 14:45

Ella31 · 22/04/2024 13:49

That's a wonderful line on the frer @ToeBeans24

Thank you @Ella31 was my third wee of the day 🤭 came up so fast. The Morrisons one now has a decent line as it’s dried

Ella31 · 22/04/2024 17:31

emmatcc1 · 22/04/2024 13:04

@Ella31 I’m cd 12 also have a bit of ewcm. I’m wondering if I ovulated already but last month I had a late ovulation on cd20.
I think I’m gonna start tracking bbt again just to know when I ovulate.

I'd definitely track if you are unsure. Are you dtd every other day?

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Onthedouble123 · 22/04/2024 17:31

@ToeBeans24 that's wonderful! Congratulations. 💕💕💕

Ella31 · 22/04/2024 17:32

ToeBeans24 · 22/04/2024 14:45

Thank you @Ella31 was my third wee of the day 🤭 came up so fast. The Morrisons one now has a decent line as it’s dried

I'm delighted for you. That line is good enough for a digital.

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emmatcc1 · 22/04/2024 19:42

@Ella31 No we did cd7, cd9 and now we had a rough couple of days and we’re gonna do cd13, cd15 and cd17. If still no ovulation we’ll continue. My cervix is closed but I think I haven’t ovulated yet.

DonnaWhat · 22/04/2024 20:59

@Ncl31 I hope so, as gutted as I am, I think AF is on her way now, had light pink blood / fluid and brown discharge now, hopefully I can get AF out the way and regulate a bit more for the next month. In the mean time, taking pregnacare and downloaded this premom app to see what that's like as I've only ever tracked with my health app on my phone an ovulation tests.

@Ella31 I hope it is regulating and like you've said, I'll have a good starting point if things go back to normal. Just gutted I didn't ovulate this month, especially when they say you're most fertile even if unproven to be true.

@ToeBeans24 I can definitely see a line, congratulations. Are you going to do a digital test? 🥰

ToeBeans24 · 22/04/2024 20:59

Good luck @Ella31 we did SMEP this month too. Although with my dates going wonky I’m not sure the plan went quite to plan. But I do think it helped!

Bb542 · 22/04/2024 21:02

Hi guys. Is it ok to join? First cycle properly trying since my loss two months ago. It's been so tough. I'm on CD2 now and my period is horrible. I have such horrible pain/feeling sick and my mood is so low. I just want to be a mum so much 🥹 hope everyone else is ok xx

ToeBeans24 · 22/04/2024 21:05

Thanks @DonnaWhat !

I will do a digital just not sure when. I got 1-2 weeks last time before my chemical but then once the spotting started, seeing the words “not pregnant” has engraved an awful memory for me.

I feel so fortunate to be where I am but I’m honestly a bit of an anxious, blubbery mess at the moment 😢

I’m going to do a Frer on alternate days for now and monitor. Then may do a digital next week if I’m feeling braver.

I love the support on this thread (& the previous versions) so much. I can’t thank you enough for the help you’ve given me in some of my worst and happiest times. Thank you 🤍

Ella31 · 22/04/2024 21:20

Bb542 · 22/04/2024 21:02

Hi guys. Is it ok to join? First cycle properly trying since my loss two months ago. It's been so tough. I'm on CD2 now and my period is horrible. I have such horrible pain/feeling sick and my mood is so low. I just want to be a mum so much 🥹 hope everyone else is ok xx

Welcome..we're all on the same journey here after losing our babies. I'm sorry for your loss. First period is always so tough and triggering. Be kind to yourself.

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Ella31 · 22/04/2024 21:22

ToeBeans24 · 22/04/2024 21:05

Thanks @DonnaWhat !

I will do a digital just not sure when. I got 1-2 weeks last time before my chemical but then once the spotting started, seeing the words “not pregnant” has engraved an awful memory for me.

I feel so fortunate to be where I am but I’m honestly a bit of an anxious, blubbery mess at the moment 😢

I’m going to do a Frer on alternate days for now and monitor. Then may do a digital next week if I’m feeling braver.

I love the support on this thread (& the previous versions) so much. I can’t thank you enough for the help you’ve given me in some of my worst and happiest times. Thank you 🤍

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@ToeBeans24 I was like that when I conceived my twins and they were perfect. Obviously a different thing happened in the last trimester but all I'm saying is....you have no control over this so try your best to enjoy it. The stars are written now. This is a happy day for you.

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DonnaWhat · 22/04/2024 22:04

@ToeBeans24 Honestly, the women on here have helped me massively and I've only been on here a few weeks. We are all truly rooting for you and I hope we are all not too far behind you 💖 This feels like a safe place for me, somewhere I can ask stupid questions and get amazing advice by women who know how I'm feeling and know what to say. I know it's not easy but try and enjoy every moment the best you can. I am sending lots of well wishes and luck to you.

ToeBeans24 · 22/04/2024 22:09

Thanks so much @Ella31 and @DonnaWhat
ps - no question is stupid !

emmatcc1 · 22/04/2024 22:16

@ToeBeans24 Congrats!! Fingers crossed for a healthy pregnancy this time. Feeling so jealous right now😂

jellyfish2 · 22/04/2024 22:24

@ToeBeans24 lovely news! Congratulations 🩷 wishing you a healthy pregnancy.

I love seeing BFPs after loss. Hope this thread brings lots more 🥰

ToeBeans24 · 23/04/2024 05:46

@emmatcc1 & @jellyfish2 thank you xx

Rosyposy26 · 23/04/2024 07:17

@ToeBeans24 congratulations.

Onthedouble123 · 23/04/2024 12:35

I definitely enjoy the hope that the BFPs bring 🥰💕 May there be many many more. (Hopefully all of us before long!) Xx

emmatcc1 · 23/04/2024 16:04

Just found out my friend is pregnant on their first try…

ThelastRolo20 · 23/04/2024 16:11

@emmatcc1 I'm sorry - it's always difficult when we see people having easier journeys than us. I can't really say anything to make it better but I think we can all relate to how you'll be feeling x

Ella31 · 23/04/2024 16:41

ThelastRolo20 · 23/04/2024 16:11

@emmatcc1 I'm sorry - it's always difficult when we see people having easier journeys than us. I can't really say anything to make it better but I think we can all relate to how you'll be feeling x

@ThelastRolo20 agree with this.
@emmatcc1 try to remember everyone is on their own journey. You'll very likely be that friend someday and someone will be feeling the way you do now. It's so hard but you will get there.

How's your holiday going?

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Ncl31 · 23/04/2024 20:39

@ToeBeans24 congratulations, so happy for you! Fingers crossed it’s a sticky little bean.

@emmatcc1 its difficult but hopefully you will get your BFP soon and be able to enjoy it along with your friend.

ThelastRolo20 · 23/04/2024 20:41

@Ella31 good thank you 🥰 very relaxed and just about to entire fertile week.

Hoping a very chilled egg will be produced! I think ovulation will be Sunday but I'm not tracking so could be a day or two either side.

I think you're a few days ahead of me? I'm CD 10 today x

Ncl31 · 24/04/2024 07:24

ThelastRolo20 · 23/04/2024 20:41

@Ella31 good thank you 🥰 very relaxed and just about to entire fertile week.

Hoping a very chilled egg will be produced! I think ovulation will be Sunday but I'm not tracking so could be a day or two either side.

I think you're a few days ahead of me? I'm CD 10 today x

I’m predicted ovulation on Sunday too.

im glad you’ve had a chilled holiday and going into fertile week relaxed.

good luck! DH is away tonight and tomorrow night too. DTD this morning to make sure we only miss one day. Hoping we will have done enough.