TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

[Ella31]

Part three of of our previous threads.

@ThelastRolo20 this is a completely new pregnancy , keep telling yourself that. I felt the same way with my boys and they were flying it scan after scan and as you know that loss was not related to mc. It was a twin thing.

My mam said something really helpful when i pregnant with my boys. She said the baby is there now and the story is written. There's nothing you can do or not do that will change this. Stress or no stress.

It made me realise that it was out of my control. So as hard as it is, keep strong. Look at you. Today you are pregnant. It's wonderful.

Thank you ❤️ that's so helpful in reframing my mind. I seem to be in groundhog day of the first trimester 😂

Tell your mam thank you too ❤️

@Ttcagainnow wonderful news! Congratulations 💕 xx

I absolutely was with my boys. But I came to realise it was pointless. I'm glad I stood back and enjoyed my pregnancy until the vomiting started 🤣🤣🤣

@Ttcagainnow Congratulations. Xx

I did a digital test and said not pregnant, yet faint on easy at home test. I'm probably guessing a chemical pregnancy. It would explain everything that's been going on. Ovulation tracker lower than the low readings yesterday.🙄 Just waiting to restart again next month. My due date for AF is 16th-18th May

@DonnaWhat hope you are ok today.

I'm sorry that's so hard not having a definitive answer. I hope your AF arrives on time and behaves itself ready for a new cycle ❤️

How are you doing @Ella31? Am I right thinking you're around 7DPO now? X

I am. And I tested 😅🤣 obviously a bfn. Feeling kind of down tbh. I just don't feel like it's my month.

I'm wondering what I can possibly do different next month. Thinking of reverting back to only folic acid and vit d as well. My ovulation is so late since the boys. Day 20 to 22 every month. Not sure what to do.

@Ella31 I've been the same. Tested yesterday and today (8dpo) and nothing.
Feeling a bit shit too.
But we're not out yet!!
🤞

I started taking coQ10, vit D and folic acid after my last miscarriage and my ovulation has actually been a couple of days early? I can only think it's the coQ10!

You and @Ella31 are definitely not out yet. My squinter came 9DPO 🤞🏻

@Ella31 I'm good. Don't beat yourself up about BFN, next month is our month!!!

@Ella31 @spamOFtheDAY Our body's are going to play bloody ball next month 😆 there's a few days between us cycle wise so we will have to spur each other on! I'm taking pregnacare for conception at the moment. I think that has a mixture of everything. I can't absorb b12 due yo my crohns surgery I had but I have that injected every 12 weeks. I'm going to ask my nurse if they can up it while trying as I saw somewhere that deficiency of b12 can cause problems.

@ThelastRolo20 I hope so too. I'm due on the day I get back off holiday. Me holidays and periods always end up all over the place. I was late on when on holiday in tunisia and took a pregnancy test there which was negative and came on 3 days late. Went to Poland and was due on the day I got back and I was pregnant with my angel and now i have this holiday. I never intentionally book holidays to coincide with 2WW but it always happens 😁 How are you feeling today? Any symptoms kicking in yet?

100 percent. Have to stay strong. That's mad, I also fell pregnant twice on holiday. South Africa on my honeymoon and Spain a few months later. My boys were just home plain old rainy Ireland 🤣🤣

Fingers crossed. Why did I waste a test on 7dpo 😅🤣🤣

I'm okay. Keep wildly swinging between "this one will work out" and "of course it'll be another miscarriage".

I'm not even 4 weeks until Sunday so no 😂 apart from mild cramps and aching/ pulling. Nothing to worry about at the moment, but both my miscarriages were missed ones with no signs either so I'm hardly reassured...

Haha you know what the answer is then, another holiday! X

@spamOFtheDAY and @Ella31 seeing as everyone else is confessing, I also early tested today (8dpo) bfn. I don't know why I early tested because I also have a feeling it's not my month... I reckon it's a definite addiction, maybe we should start a club testers anonymous x

Sorry @DonnaWhat the not knowing what is going on is frustrating x

Cramps are a good sign @ThelastRolo20 little egg is snuggling In nice and tight and secure x

not a whiff of a line until day 12 for me! You’re not out until AF comes!!!!

😝
Would we all sit in a circle admitting to testing at 1DPO?

🤣 or going back to get the test out of the bin later to recheck it 3 times @spamOFtheDAY x

Ha ha
-and blinding yourself with the torch 🔦

I'm so glad this hasn't been just me 😂😂

Hi ladies. I think I've commented on this thread before but I'm officially back TTC after a miscarriage in February. Currently 2dpo. I don't feel like I'll be able to relax at all if I see another positive test. I'll just be so anxious. Congrats to the BFPs and sending lots of love to those still waiting xx

@Bb542 sorry that your back on here, we're all here for you to vent at. Currently 3dpo myself. Already out this month as I've not ovulated. Possibly had a chemical pregnancy but can't confirm it although all symptoms lead to it. It's so frustrating. Sending love and baby dust to you.