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In the Company of Pregnant Ladies (No1 Babies Detective Agency pt6)

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nomoremagnolia · 26/03/2008 19:19

Thought it was time we had a new home, seeing as we've almost outgrown the old one. So in honour to Scorpio, Sybil, BB and toomuch (hope I didn't forget anyone ) here we are - in the company of pregnant (and cheerful) ladies

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nomoremagnolia · 30/03/2008 18:31

Scorpio Glad they arrived ok (and before Millie )
kensgirl So nice to see you, welcome back Hope things are ok now?

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mistlethrush · 30/03/2008 23:07

Kensgirl - Hello - been looking for you, hopeing that you were OK. I mean, you are the reason that I was here! What's been happening? Let us know what's been up if you feel like it.

Ready you don't want separate handles - you want one. Means you can push it single handedly.

Nomore - sorry about the illness. I used to get tonsilitis very regularly - probably about 3 or 4 times a year or more - until I gave up cows milk - I can have yoghurt and cheese but not milk. Now, if I have some, it gives me a very specific cough and even dh can tell that I've had some milk in something. It can be as little as a single scone that sets me off (so the icecream that dh and I've had this evening will definitely have repercussions tomorrow, but it had to be done!)

kensgirl · 31/03/2008 11:17

Thanks for the welcome back, girlies ! 7 I think bump is fine now, but to cut a long story very short I was scanned because of my history at 6 weeks, everything fine, then started spotting bright red blood at 7 weeks. It didn't last long, so the GP diagnosed thrush. I was scanned again just before 10 weeks, still fine, then started bleeding quite heavily at almost 12 weeks, scanned again, still fine, but the bleeding lasted on and off for 2 weeks, the hospital decided it was coming from me not the baby, but having been there before, was convinced that it mean the end. Anyway, we heard the hearbeat at 16 weeks, but have spotted reguarly on and off since, at the moment everything is well. I had another scan at 19 weeks, which was just amazing, and feel as though I have passed a real milestone now.
On top of that, I have been incredibly itchy everywhere!! So. I am currentlyhaving bloodtests and fortnihghtly monitoring for obstetric choleostasis, and to add insult to injury, there has been an outbreak of slapped cheek/ parvovirus in my class so I have been off sick for 2 weeks, as the consultant says mu blood teasts show I have no immunity to it, and if I get it it could seriously affect the baby with a severe form of anaemia. Phew!
To be honest though, I'll go to hell and back in how anything affects me, so long as bump stays healthy and well.

Mistlethrush, I hope your rmc appontment goes well, have you had any more news yet?

Nomore!!I hope you are feeeling better, I am absolutely willing everything to work for you, I think your blue bugaboo dream was a phrophecy xx

Hello there Ready! Its lovely to see you,I have a feeling that this is your year too, and glad to see you are still perky and positive. x

wow, Scorpio, I can;t believe how fast your pregnancy has gone,anyday now really! Its lovely that you are having a girl. We decided not to find out the flavour, I just feel so blessed to be having a baby at all, i really couldn't care less what its going to be.

I have been loving the pram wars .
heres my two pennysworth.

We had narrowed it down to 3 : Bugaboo cameleon, Stokke Xplory, Silver cross sleepover. They are all lovely, I love the ease and the look of the bug, and that it fully reclines forward and rear facing, and that the carrycot bit converts to the pushchait bit so that we don't have that to store. I loved the height of the Xplory, as it means baby has a better view of the world and is up and out of the way of dogs, fumes etc, but in pushchair mode it barely reclined in the forward facing position, and I don't like the thought of a todler falling asleep and waking up grumpy because they are stiff and squashed. It also felt more stiff and difficult to put up and down than the Bug, and the footmuff has 2 legs rather tha a sleeping bag shape, and I was wondering if that would make it feel restricting for a toddler.
the silver cross felt lovely - the fabrics were so soft and snuggable, I could imagine, a baby feeling cocooned and safe, but it was huge when folded down and wouldn't fit inmu car!

So, I have just decided to order the bug, in a dark brown base and sand tailored fabric. We have been offered a really good deal on it £629 including car seat and fittings, and the footmuff, but I have to order before midday today. Not a hardship really.....

Sorry for the mammoth - back later x

mistlethrush · 31/03/2008 11:38

Kensgirl - glad all is well with bump anyway!

So, have you ordered the bug then? Colours sound nice. I did see rather a nice pink one in Harrogate at the weekend - ds would have liked that colour! Although £629 is a good deal is it? And I thought that the MB was expensive! (Although we did need to buy a car seat on top of course)

We didn't get a cosytoes with the MB - I made one (dog footprint pattern) which did really well for the winter before ds was 1 - used a blanket before then. But mostly we wrapped ds up in a snowsuit which was best for us (given regular dog walking) - for very cold, snow suit plus own cosytoes!

How's everyone else on this lovely sunny day?

toomuchtimeonline · 31/03/2008 12:03

Morning folks!! Hope you all had a good weekend!!

Hi Kensgirl - great to hear from you - but to hear you've been having a hard time!! Stay and chat with us - we are now the TTC first (and second/third) timers and the ladies with bumps (or just flab in my case) thread

MT - I really want to try washables so bore away with any insights!

Still can't decide on a buggy - reckon I need to go and see them in the flesh to decide so I'm going to drag DH out this weekend for a sneaky peak - where would be the best place to go for a good range?

Also, was nearly finished knitting an item this weekend and dropped a stich which undid the stitch below and after a few tears gave in trying to work out how to pick it back up - I'm rubbish at knitting!! Off to google how you pick up a stitch through the row below now..

kensgirl · 31/03/2008 12:39

Yes,its all ordered! I feel a bit shocked that I have actually bought something so real, I havn't bought anything else really, out of superstition.[Hope I don't change my mnd now...}

Hi there, Toomuch![waves] I know what you mean, you do need to see them, touch them, have a go at them first, for me the deciding factor was the one which fits in my car, and user friendly in getting it up and down quickly. good luck..

mistlethrush · 31/03/2008 13:11

Toomuch we found a really friendly baby shop that was also very helpful. We had the MB then the Jane, then the MB in the boot trying to work out which one fitted best. (had to have 1/2 back seat down in Polo for both, so not ideal, but only practical solution for dog walking)(Now have company Skoda estate, so no longer a problem!)

They also did nappies, and we bought our Tots Bots there, but bought others on-line. Did you like the wraps link - which would you go for?

toomuchtimeonline · 31/03/2008 14:42

MT - they all look soooo cute!! The gingam ones I think are my favourites

I reckon we'll do what you did and order a range to try before we go out and buy them!

Everyone thinks I'm mad and that I'll never last with them because they leak so much - is this true!

As the resident knitting expert - will I have to unpick back a couple of rows to fix my knitting?

toomuchtimeonline · 31/03/2008 14:52

I've just found a webist which says all I need is a hook to pick up my stitches - I'm going to be brave and give it a go tonight - wish me luck!!

mistlethrush · 31/03/2008 15:11

toomuch I don't use a hook - I can manage with a spare needle if it gets that far. Normally fairly easy to pick it up and follow through as long as you're not in a complicated pattern that will throw things out! Hope it goes OK - should be fine.

Leakage - we decided that ds was actually less leaky if he was in one of his shaped nappies with a nature babies wrap over the top. But even saying that, still got the odd nappy that required two people to deal with it (and you will get those with disposables too). I did change ds more often than I might have done in disposables - partly as it didn't cost anything more (as I would be doing the washing anyway and one or two more nappies in it wasn't going to make any difference) and because if the internal nappy got very wet, the binding on the wraps you use can sometimes wick the moisture out. They all did this and didn't find NB wraps any less-so.

Re buying washables, I would really recommend not getting any (unless you see some pre-loved in eg NCT sale) until you've got dc, then hiring a selection to see what fits - otherwise you might end up getting lots that you never use.

Ready · 31/03/2008 16:36

MT... does your skoda come with the jelly tail-lights? ..

Ready · 31/03/2008 16:43

Kensgirl, so lovely to hear from you... although I am sorry to hear that you have been having so much bleeding... and then scares with viruses... look after yourself and stay away from the germ carriers
I hope you are right, I hope it is my year - but I am feeling rather philosophical about life in general today, so I won't complain.

Toomuch... how's the knitting going? Did you manage to hook yourself to safety?

mistlethrush · 31/03/2008 16:50

No, it does come with a lot of mud, dog hair and crumbs though!

That ad is great isn't it. They only did 1 take I believe. Unfortunately it wasn't able to be eaten as it had taken a while to put it together.

Ready · 31/03/2008 16:55

Oh, I know.... I would have loved to have taken a running jump straight in... I would have eaten the liqourice gear cogs first

toomuchtimeonline · 31/03/2008 17:44

I loooooooooooove that advert!! I sing along every time it comes on!!

Ready I'm heading home now with my webpage printoffs in hand to try and hook my dropped stitch - I'll let you know whether I've been successful in the morning

night everyone!

Ready · 31/03/2008 17:49

The book I use suggests a crochet hook... and, by the look of it, lots of knitting knowledge... here's hoping I never drop a stitch. I just know I would throw in the towel and unravel everything.

Do any of you knitters suggest a beginners book? I do have one (Beginners Guide To Knitting - Alison Dupernex) and so far I am doing ok with the garter stitch... but is there something out there that will inspire me to move on to purl?

nomoremagnolia · 31/03/2008 20:42

Ready Try Baby Knits for Beginners by Debbie Bliss
Takes you through all the stitches/techniques one at a time, eash project introduces something new and builds on what you've learnt so far.

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nomoremagnolia · 31/03/2008 21:07

ps I am sure your nearest library will have a copy - try the cathedral city I'm sure someone there will help you find it

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Ready · 31/03/2008 21:15

Oooh... good idea to look in the library ... are you on commission?

Ready · 31/03/2008 21:16

Thanks for the tip

kensgirl · 31/03/2008 22:49

I am so in awe of all the knitting! I know my attempts would be utter rubbish, so I'll leave it to the rest of you. [Kensgirl wanders away in shame...]

mistlethrush · 01/04/2008 08:52

Kensgirl - its really not that difficult once you get started. There seem to be lots of knitting groups setting up all over the place, and even knitting classes - I'm sure that if you went to something like this you'd pick up the basics pretty fast and get started. It all sounds and looks more complicated than it really is once you get going!

Ready · 01/04/2008 10:17

I have to say, I was daunted (still am a bit if I am honest)... but the more rows I do, the more comfortable I feel. Give it a go, what's the worst that can happen?

mistlethrush · 01/04/2008 10:30

Kensgirl - why don't you have a go at a square for Oxfam as a starter in a good cause? We're all here to cheer you on!

scorpio1 · 01/04/2008 10:41

lots of tummy ache.......