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TTC after early miscarriage part 2

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RaisingCornishWildlings · 07/02/2024 21:16

Hi guys, I've made a new thread! @ThelastRolo20 @bluebunny2 @Blueskies4 @miamiamia869 @Claudiasaz @mumsince2021 @Holly0609

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emmatcc1 · 04/03/2024 19:47

I just ordered a clearblue test that will arrive on Thursday and I will test Friday if my bbt is still high.

Claudiasaz · 04/03/2024 20:06

@Figtree11 amazing news congratulations to you too xx

Thanks everyone for the lovely messages. Love how supportive this group is through the bad and the good xx

Ncl31 · 04/03/2024 20:13

emmatcc1 · 04/03/2024 19:33

@Onthedouble123 I’m 9dpo and will be testing around Friday/Saturday.
Are you testing soon?

I’m 6DPO so hoping to test Monday before I got Cyprus. DH is away with work this weekend, but I bet I can’t hold off all weekend so maybe Friday/Saturday

Ella31 · 04/03/2024 20:16

5dpo today. Testing Friday. No cramps yet which is unusual for me but not too confident either.

Blueskies4 · 04/03/2024 20:43

@mumsince2021 yeah makes sense x

@Figtree11 congratulations lovely xx

Onthedouble123 · 04/03/2024 21:06

Good luck @Ella31!! Xx

ToeBeans24 · 04/03/2024 21:56

Congrats @Figtree11 !

Onthedouble123 · 04/03/2024 22:53

As this evening has progressed I'm now firmly in the these AF symptoms are because AF is on her way camp. Upper thighs are aching and generally just got that heavy sense of doom that she's around the corner.
Feeling very deflated. (I know I'm not out til I'm out but fairly certain it's not going to be our month 😔). Xx

Claudiasaz · 05/03/2024 07:12

@Onthedouble123 did you see my posts on here last week. I was 100% my period was coming 😂 I was SOOOO fed up. So have to agree with the saying "you're not out until it shows" fingers crossed for you. How do you feel today?

Onthedouble123 · 05/03/2024 07:16

Does anyone know how positive an LH test needs to be to be an indicator it's picking up HCG at this time of the month instead of LH?
I've read it can be a sign on here. But I've also read via Google that some women have another mini surge pre AF (we just don't usually test around now to pick it up)
Im in the clutching at straws phase as I'm cramping and aching now so know deep down it's not to be. But I took an LH test last night before bed and it came up fairly dark- though not "peak levels positive". Got excited at first but then read about the common second surge thing 🙄 xx

Onthedouble123 · 05/03/2024 07:18

@Claudiasaz thanks for the words of encouragement 💕
I reeeaally wish I'm the same as you 🤞🏻🤞🏻 (but very much feel like I'm not) xx

meepthebeep · 05/03/2024 07:26

Faintest of faint BFPs this morning at 12DPO (not with FMU). Going to test again at the end of the week 🤞🏼 x

Onthedouble123 · 05/03/2024 07:29

@meepthebeep a line is a line! Congratulations to you 💐💕
Keeping everything crossed for the end of the week! Xx

TicklishDreamer · 05/03/2024 07:37

Well I’m officially out this month! AF came yesterday! I was gutted yesterday but today I’m feeling positive that we will get there! At least this way I will know actual dates rather than dating off my miscarriage! On to this month!!

congratulations to everyone who got their BFP this month! 🥳

Onthedouble123 · 05/03/2024 07:44

@TicklishDreamer sorry it's not been your month. I think I'll still be here with you next month though!
(I'll probably wallow for a couple of days when finally does arrive but will then follow your lead and try and think positively for next cycle too!) Xx

Blueskies4 · 05/03/2024 07:52

@meepthebeep congratulations xxx

TicklishDreamer · 05/03/2024 07:56

@Onthedouble123 you never know with my second little boy was convinced AF was coming but I was pregnant! But with the one I lost I had no symptoms of AF or pregnancy!
I wallowed yesterday in self pity then thought on to a new month this month!

meepthebeep · 05/03/2024 09:02

Fingers crossed for you, @Onthedouble123! How many DPO are you?

emmatcc1 · 05/03/2024 09:26

I have convinced myself last night that I’m going crazy and there’s no way I’m pregnant on first try so I canceled my clearblue order. This morning I woke up with pinching on the left side of the uterus and it’s the same spot I had pains last pregnancy. My bbt was also high today and I’m feeling nauseous. Also my skin is starting to break out again.

Rosyposy26 · 05/03/2024 09:33

Congratulations to those got there BFPs I’m now coming up to ovulation so time to get dtd. Going to not try and waste money on tests this month. I spent a fortune last month. Will try sit it out and see what happens.

Claudiasaz · 05/03/2024 09:55

@meepthebeep yay!! Congratulations x

@TicklishDreamer sorry about period but as you say you know now and can get onto the next month. It's the lead up that is worse isn't it. I do think a month between is good too for the dates as you say x

Rockyslife · 05/03/2024 10:23

Congratulations on all of your beautiful bfps. I am due a flow on Thursday, so strange as this is my first proper cycle since my MC and I have no symptoms of a flow at all, boobs are normal, no cramps, apart from a really sharp pinch in my left side this morning, and pelvic aches. Just really strange! Normally have sore boobs at least 4 days before a flow! I guess my cycle and body could have changed since my mc

Ella31 · 05/03/2024 11:04

6dpo and light cramps in lower back. Feeling deflated as I'm probably out this month. I've got this before

TicklishDreamer · 05/03/2024 11:17

@Claudiasaz im just seeing positives of it! Least I will know dates!

ToeBeans24 · 05/03/2024 11:29

@meepthebeep massive congrats !

@emmatcc1 i thought the same but last month was month 1 TTC and conceived. Sadly ended in early loss but shows it can happen first try.

@Ella31 with my BFP my cramps started at 6DPO and continued until AF due at 14dpo

Can someone help a girl out and prevent her from launching her CB digi ovulation test from her bathroom window. Day 3 flashing face. Now whilst I know this is likely perfectly normal, my EWCM appears to have stopped 🤨 I am having cramps though so maybe peak is on its way?

im CD15 today. Expected ov to be late post chemical sadly. Usually I’m CD13-14 so I’m hoping for CD16-17 🤞🏻

BUT how many flashing faces is acceptable?! Will I ever get a static? Has anyone ever conceived with only flashing faces and no static?