Anyone ttc in 2024 after loss?

[janey125N]

Lost my perfect little baby at the end of October. I was 15 weeks, baby was gone since 13 weeks. Planning to start ttc again in January. I am devastated and finding it hard to cope. Also extremely nervous about being pregnant again. Yet the need to have a living baby in my arms, outweighs the crippling fear. This little baby was my first too.

Hi ladies. So unfortunately my pregnancy ended up with a miscarriage. I had miscarried at 8+4 but had no signs and so it was picked up at my 12 week scan. I had surgery on Monday. I’ve been referred to miscarriage clinic so it’s not looking that I can try any time soo. I’m so fed up and disheartened. How are you all?

So sorry to hear

Has your nhs gp checked your thyroid , vit d and prolactin ?

@worldwidetravel2017 its all still new I just want my body to settle down before I have bloods. I had them done last year after my first miscarriage and they were ok, just a really low prolactin but they didn’t think that would contribute to it just make it difficult to breast feed

My friend had lotsa private ivf

5 goes.
Miscarriage on 3rd.
.
I told her to go back to basics.
Her prolactin tests from gp then showed v high prolactin

Thankfully its come down since

So sorry to hear you’re going through this again @Nic2908 😞 sending you lots of love ♥️ look after yourself and make sure you have lots of support around you.

I’m ok, still not pregnant. I’m on CD9 of my 5th month trying since my miscarriage in November. I’m feeling disheartened and fed up too. Just wish it would happen for us x

Sending luck
Have u been checked 4 fibroids etc?
Tried lyin with bum on pillow raised and legs in air for 30 min after baby dancing?

@worldwidetravel2017 thank you!
I had 3 or 4 scans during and after my miscarriage and they didn’t report seeing anything so I don’t think so?
funnily enough I haven’t tried it this time but I remember doing it with my daughter! No harm in trying it this cycle I guess!

Sorry - i haven't kept up - i don't know how recent your loss was
But - incase it helps you or any1 - just want to share that i had transvaginal scans - 7 months apart
And each very much tell a different story..
Might be worth considering a scan if other was a while ago

Important to have good numbers for feretin - b12 - vit d and prolactin too

Even crp which is worth checking and linked to inflammation in the body

Some people cant concieve easily til they have benign colon / bowel polyps removed 4 example

@worldwidetravel2017 no worries. My loss was back in November, I had surgery for it at the start of December so just over 4 months ago.

I’ll definitely look into those! Thank you for your advice 🥰 x

Sorry to hear the sad news..sending hugs.. I don't know how I'd feel a second time in a row. Thats my fear it must be devastating.

I'm on cycle 4 since my MMC in December. No luck yet.
Have had day 3,21 bloods and all ok
My periods are super heavy so worried that might be playing a part but that can be normal for me.
It's probably just my age I'm 40+
I'm not on here as much as trying not obsess anymore