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NeeNaw12 · 17/12/2023 13:08

Hello!

I'm currently 2nd cycle TTC no2. I'll be 11dpo on the 25th Dec. Thought it would be nice to have a thread going for anyone testing over the holidays, for moral support and hopefully congratulations 🎉 all welcome to join x

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JC084 · 28/12/2023 14:49

I had said that if come January we had no good news that we would go to the doctors for tests. So, we will see what happens.

@NeeNaw12 thank you for the heads up on wondfos- they're what I always rely on but I think I did see something about them the other day
Your line is brilliant!

Bex4567 · 28/12/2023 15:17

Just had some brown so af probably on its way ...so gutted 😢forst time in 5 months had some glimer of hope....how can I have evaps on 2 different tests that's so unfair....

I'm giving up tracking or anything now ReAlly feel somethings wrong with me

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JC084 · 28/12/2023 15:36

@Bex4567 don't give up hope. With my daughter it took us over a year, and this time round we've been trying for 7/8 months or so.

It will happen x

Bex4567 · 28/12/2023 15:39

Bur you've getting ptegnant you had a cp and a miscarriage so you are getting pregnant...im to scared to go for tests..they say at 35 you should go 😢but I'm worried somthjng is wrong

MrBigsCat · 28/12/2023 15:59

@Bex4567 did you do the frer?

Bex4567 · 28/12/2023 16:10

No its on its way now I'll do it when it arrives

GHJ · 28/12/2023 17:56

@Bex4567 I'm sorry to hear you're feeling disheartened. It took us 8 months to get our bfp (which is still very early doors and lots still could go wrong) and didn't get a hint of a chemical or MC or anything in that time. If you're worried definitely go to the doctor these things can take a long while to get referrals and tests etc depending on where you are so maybe better to ask sooner but it's still early days. Were you on the pill? Are you regular? Have you been tracking your cycles - any chance you could have ovulated late? I can see a faint line on your tests did it appear in the time window or is that after drying? Fingers crossed for you, I know it feels like it sometimes but you're definitely not alone with what you're going through.

Bex4567 · 28/12/2023 19:24

My frier was negative..yeah they were in the time frame I'm sure of it 😢...im scared to go for tests incase they find something bad 😢..its so hard...ive had 2 kids before eldest 13 now...i was on the pill came off in Jan this year but didn't start trying untill July...so 5 months going into month 6...

MrBigsCat · 28/12/2023 22:17

So sorry @Bex4567 sounds like a possible chemical then as there were definitely shadow lines on all your tests. On one test could put it down to a faulty test but on all those you had, can’t be!
I hope you find out one way or another asap, I find the limbo is the worst, I’d rather just know

Bex4567 · 28/12/2023 22:24

Do u reckon it was 😢🤦‍♀️just dont no how like u said I can have all those on diff tests...I havnt told my partner either 🤦‍♀️don't no weather too no as what if it wasn't and they were all evaps 🤦‍♀️

MrBigsCat · 29/12/2023 12:18

Any update @Bex4567 ?

Bex4567 · 29/12/2023 13:43

Yeah think it's a big fat negative on frer...so upset and annoyed that I don't actually no if it was proper lines...even though I had several and on different tests they can't all be Evaps surely...I had really bad caps too the other evening and my boots are normally sire but they're really bad this month...well I guess I'm out and on to month 6 😪..bigging to worry there's something wrong

MrBigsCat · 06/01/2024 17:24

2dpo here, anyone else??

JC084 · 07/01/2024 10:19

How is everyone doing?
So, after my xmas day BFP and some lovely line progression, along with a positive digital, I sadly miscarried a couple of Days ago at 6 weeks 💔
3rd loss in 5 months. Heartbroken.
EPU have given me an appointment this week so hoping I can now get some help / support

How is everyone doing?
We want to start trying again asap x

Bex4567 · 07/01/2024 12:35

So sorry to hear that its so hard isn't it ...I'm currently on month 6 of ttc..think I had a chemical last month as had faint positive tests then came on af.
Currently in the fertile window now then will be on the 2ww again 🥲just not focusing on it now...trying to put it to the back of my mind

MrBigsCat · 07/01/2024 14:36

So sorry to hear that @JC084 💔

NeeNaw12 · 07/01/2024 17:11

Ah really sorry @JC084 hope epu can help shed some light on things. Crap to be back at square 1 again, fingers crossed the next one works out for you xx

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Ems1992 · 08/01/2024 06:28

I also didn’t progress past 5 weeks so back TTC 🙁 second in a row for me… hoping this month is our month xxx

JC084 · 08/01/2024 09:32

Thanks all.

Really sorry to hear @Ems1992 - it's so tough. Are you able to get any support from your Gp?

Holl89 · 08/01/2024 13:37

@JC084 @Bex4567 @Ems1992 so sorry 💔
same thing happened to me this month… had faint positives weekend before New Year’s Day.. BFP on New Year’s Day. Positive digital test.
Then bled heavily on Thursday 🥺
So devastated, was my first cycle since my missed miscarriage in October also.
Life is so unfair isn’t it

Bex4567 · 08/01/2024 14:47

So sorry to hear this..mine last month was the first time in 5 months I had any sort of line and I was hopeful ..but then went negative ..I've heard you can be more fertile the next month so hopefully this month will be our month...
Ttc is so stressful 😫 and it's horrible

JC084 · 09/01/2024 11:05

@Holl89 I'm sorry to read 😢 hope you're ok. Mine was Thursday too. Just back from EPAU. They confirmed there is no HCG Present any more and so it has passed naturally.
As this is my third loss they can now refer me for tests and support so that is the only good thing I can take from this.

I hope everyone is ok

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