@Annapolis35 that was a great post, I really like the logic behind betting on red or black. It really is a miracle! I mean to DTD on the right day, at the right time, with the right egg and the right sperm that were the perfect healthy match.. it's just mind blowing! And before you know it you've got a bowling ball for a belly, you're tired, craving ice and then 5 years later you have a DC that answers back, is learning to read and tell time and uses bigger words every day. It's mental and wonderful.
I sometimes feel 'accidental' babies (my first DD was one, I was on the pill!) really are miracles, against all odds and literal lack of trying, they fought to be here and they're a blessing!
I honestly wish anyone trying all the luck I can give virtually. I was completely unprepared when we started ttc for DD2, in my mind it was so simple and yet the waiting was crippling and confusing. Considering so many of us try month on month with no success, it's crazy to comprehend that people have babies at all! When you read into it, it's so complex and yet babies appear all the time, that one night you had a glass on wine extra, or those antibiotics that meant your pill didn't work and BAM a baby. And yet... you have those doing everything right, eating well, tracking cycles, going through the trials of IVF. It really is luck, it's as unfair as it is fair. I just hope and wish you all get the outcome you desire. I'm lucky with my 2 DDs and if that's all I have, it's more than enough, but the hope still remains, it just depends on red or black as to whether we have another. What a mindfuck!