POAS: Showers Quickies and Rainbow Babies 🌈 💛💜

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Ok here goes!
Advanced apologies if I miss you in the first message 😆

@MrsJGrealish @bringmearainbow @TheBirdintheCave @emhope @Indianna2006 @LuckyMoonstone @Alexis7890 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @curliegirlie

My phones been broken all weekend so I haven't been able to check in with everyone, hope all had a nice long weekend!

@TheBirdintheCave brilliant news about being able to go ahead in June, I've got everything crossed for you. So soon too!! Sounds like the train incident wasn't much fun, glad you safely made it off.

@bringmearainbow how are you doing lovely? Hopefully things feel a bit more positive after the weekend. I always found talking helped when I felt down 💕

@MrsJGrealish how are you doing? Hope all is going well! I think you're away on holiday? If so, I hope you're having a fab time!

@bringmearainbow just checking in too hun, how are you?

@MrsJGrealish I hope Mr Grealish has behaved himself on holiday and not wound you up! Hope all is well with you and AF hasn't shown?

Xx

@TheBirdintheCave @calimc83 @bunnykins123 @FfoxRedN thanks ladies ❤️ I'm ok better than the other day childminders been off and DH was on a stag do so DS has been keeping me very occupied. Back to work tomorrow then just a couple of days to wait until my appointment. Not a lot happening took a test today and was not a massively strong line so that was nice to see just waiting and more waiting. I've lost 3kg though 💪🏼

@FfoxRedN it did indeed show up 😢The exact minute I stepped onto the airplane. Had a little baby in front of me too smiling and waving bless her. I kept my sunglasses on, ordered 2 wines and had a silent cry.

Sorry just replying now xx my head has been a mess.

Hope everyone else is keeping well ❤️

@MrsJGrealish oh no I’m so sorry 😞 have you tested again in case it was a random bleed?

@LuckyMoonstone I did I brought a few ICs with me and had a stark white bfn on Tuesday morning. I actually can't cope with being intimate now, hell at least I have the coil appointment now (joking 😂 but maybe 🤔) xx

@MrsJGrealish oh hun, I'm so sorry to hear that 😞 I hope you're doing ok?

@MrsJGrealish ahhhh lovely I'm so so sorry it's absolutely crap sending lots of hugs ❤️

@MrsJGrealish Ah shit I'm so sorry :(

@TheBirdintheCave @bringmearainbow @bunnykins123 it's fine girlies. Because I wasn't really trying and it happened I thought oh maybe this is different. And confidently ordered a pregnancy pillow which was so nice to come home to from holiday 🙄 I'm not returning it, it's so comfy 😂 I may love it more than DH

@MrsJGrealish this is really shit for you and I'm so sorry 😣. Xx

@MrsJGrealish pregnancy pillows are the bomb, you keep it girl 👍I literally used my first one to death, it was ripped beyond repair 😂 so I bought the exact same one again haha. I hope you’re feeling ok and enjoyed your lovely holiday

@MrsJGrealish oh the pregnancy pillow is the bestest thing ever invented 😂 I can't wait to get mine out again 🙊

I've got my appointment with the gynae tonight. Anyone got anything they think I should be asking?

Thought I better do a PT before my appointment. Something feels like it's going my way for once 😂 don't think this one's going to take too long to clear thank goodness 💪🏼

@bringmearainbow Hey that's great! Much better than the ordeal you went through last time ❤

@TheBirdintheCave yes much much better 🙊 when is your next appointment did you say 4th?

@bringmearainbow We have our nurse consent appointment on the 16th and then I'll have a scan between day 1 and 3 of my next cycle 😁 Still haven't ovulated though so no idea when that will be as yet.

@TheBirdintheCave ahhh don't know where I got the 4th from 🤦🏼‍♀️

So I actually love the gynae she is basically throwing everything at me! She's going to run a few other tests too but she said keep trying even if we fall and haven't got the results back yet she's going to treat it as if we have everything because she said it won't do any harm.
she's going to give me steroids because I have the thyroid antibodies she said likely the nk cells are high too so no point in testing those we might aswell treat it. She will give me progesterone and aspirin. Not sure if she will do blood thinners too until the results of that one are in or just aspirin. I asked about the thyroid levels being low and she said that she can start me on low dose thyroxine but usually that affects ovulation more than miscarriage which we don't have a problem with. She's also going to ultrasound because bupa cover it but she said it's probably not necessary as I've had surgery to clear everything out. She basically said we will treat everything like you have it don't wait keep trying. Tbh I doubt we will fall between now and when I see her on the 15th but you never know 🤷🏼‍♀️

@bringmearainbow ahhh brilliant!!! Really good news on the pregnancy test too..so hoping for you..July could well be the month (psychic might actually be right) 😘

Period due in week, then going to start TTC!

First child, never been pregnant, 31 years old and with a dire AMH level. Going to be a journey but I'm up for it. Hi all

@bringmearainbow also sorry I didn't see your question about asking stuff but it seems the gynae has everything covered xx

@MrsJGrealish thanks lovely 😘 you never know she might be 🤞🏼 the gynae was honestly so nice she didn't make me feel like there was a road block anywhere. Now I just need my body to behave a bit 🙄

@MercuryTTC hi 👋🏼 ahhh starting TTC is always exciting. Hopefully the amh doesn't give you too many problems and you get a nice sticky one early 🤞🏼

Everything crossed! Not gonna lie, it all feels very complicated, all these acronyms I don't yet understand. Also the first of my mates to be doing this, so feeling very much in the dark. Is there a Mumsnet starter guide to TTC?

Saw my brother and sister-in-law last night for the last time before my nephew is born! 😬😬. They brought a box of Indian mangoes from her parents which was random but they are delicious so I'm not complaining 😂