POAS: Showers Quickies and Rainbow Babies 🌈 💛💜

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Ok here goes!
Advanced apologies if I miss you in the first message 😆

@MrsJGrealish @bringmearainbow @TheBirdintheCave @emhope @Indianna2006 @LuckyMoonstone @Alexis7890 @bunnykins123 @calimc83 @curliegirlie

@MrsJGrealish oh lovely what a complete head scramble! I just hope you get a clear answer and soon xx

@MrsJGrealish I see it too! I'm very confused for too too!

@FfoxRedN @bunnykins123 not a clue girls! IC v negative so hoping Tuesday was the peak xx

D day tomorrow 🙈 we've had a lovely weekend in Norfolk now home and shattered because DS didn't sleep fantastic I can't wait to go to bed 😂

@bringmearainbow ohh what time? I'll be thinking of you hun 😘

@MrsJGrealish thanks lovely. It's at 11 so a little later than before. Hubby actually forgot we were going for a scan started talking about work in the morning and what car he was taking 🙄 he tried to play it off like he hadn't forgotten when i said are you not coming to the hospital 🤦🏼‍♀️ lol clearly thinks I can't read him 😂 tried not to get too grumpy with him because we did have a lovely weekend and he was tired but man I wanted to shout seriously 😅

@bringmearainbow men just don't think like we do 🙄 I'm sure you're absolutely knackered ..at least maybe you might sleep tonight 🙏

@MrsJGrealish lol they really don't biggest face palm ever 🤦🏼‍♀️😂 I'm going to bed in a minute I can't stay awake any longer

@bringmearainbow best of luck tomorrow - I'll be checking in to see how it went! My DH was the same, forgot about every single appointment! 🙄

@bringmearainbow I'll be thinking of you tomorrow 🥰. Really hope all is well and you can see the little monkey progressing in there 🥰 xxx

Had to sneaky order frers from Amazon arriving today. Got DS2 ready to hide the order coz I'm at work. What has my life become 😭 DH is even confused now..'wait, what, you still haven't come on?!'

@bringmearainbow good luck!! Really hope it goes well for you

@bringmearainbow Good luck for today! :D

Wasn't good news ladies no progress from 2 weeks ago. Having surgery tomorrow. I'm gutted and tired of what feels like a constant merry go round without the merry

@bringmearainbow I've been checking my phone all morning and I'm so so sorry 😢 massive hugs from me ❤️

@MrsJGrealish thanks lovely they were running behind so didn't get seen until late either I thought my bladder was going to go pop

@bringmearainbow I don't know what to say other than I'm so sorry :(

@bringmearainbow oh chick I am so so sorry 😢 absolutely gutted for you

@bringmearainbow oh hun I am so so sorry to see your news 😭. I know nothing I say will make it easier, it's painful, raw and unfair. Is this your second or third now? Can they test and perhaps give you some answers?
Ensure you take it easy, look after yourself and rant on here whenever you want or need too, we are open all ears for you.
Sending you the biggest hugs possible, I know what you're going through and it hurts. 😘 xxx

@bringmearainbow sending you so much love x

@TheBirdintheCave @LuckyMoonstone @FfoxRedN @Alexis7890 thank you ladies god it sucks so badly I'm so fed up of going through these emotions time and time again. It makes me so grateful I had a fairly low key easy pregnancy with DS and we have him but I just don't want him to be an only child. well keep trying but I honestly don't know how many more times I can put myself through this

@FfoxRedN it's the third one. we've decided to look into private testing we don't have the luxury of waiting for the NHS that wait could be ages and I just cant wait not when we can afford to pay for it well I'm assuming it isn't lots of thousands to test that is 😅 they haven't said if they will test what is there or not I'm glad I don't have to wait long to go in though

@bringmearainbow oh hun, I've only just seen this. I'm so so sorry to read your update. I'm absolutely gutted for you. Thinking of you 💕 regarding private testing, it's defo worth looking into, can you go through the NHS at the same time as going private? That's what I did - I was lucky to get my bloods all tested on NHS (which then highlighted my high NK cells and was put on the meds) alongside having all the other tests privately.

@bringmearainbow As your third tomorrow they should send off what they can for chromosomal testing, even though it may not change what you do going forward I actually found this really helped me mentally when I got the results. It usually takes 10 weeks to come back but it's helpful having those answers which can't be gotten from other tests. Drop me a WhatsApp if you want more info 😘.
As far as not knowing how many times, I can totally relate, this is my last one way or another and only you know what the future looks like, just don't rush into decisions and take time to process it all. I wish there was something we could do to make the next few weeks easier for you xxx

@bringmearainbow I’m so so sorry hun. This is just absolutely shit. Recurrent miscarriage is so hard to keep going through.
Deffo agree as it’s your third they should send it off for testing for chromosomes etc so at least it may give you an idea if that was the cause.

Its just so odd isn’t it how in 2/3 years things can change so much when first time was relatively straight forward.
but exactly if you don’t want to give up then you don’t. You know how much you can withstand.
deff pay privately if you can for some tests. See if anything untoward is going on.

glad you’ve got the surgery in quick tho. An no waiting to see if it clears on it own. Get it done a then go from there.

Sending you massive hugs x

@bringmearainbow just wanted to say I hope all goes well today 💕