Ready, Aim...HANG FIRE!! Waiting to TTC (and some too impatient)

[Teuch]

Here we are ladies...roll call please?!

Well maybe it will be the insentive she needs to settle down . At least she has a friend like you to support her.

Yeah I think it will. I've said I will babysit if she wants to go clubbing. She says she is going to come round this weekend and change ds's nappies for practise.

DH has just come home with a big bunch of flowers.

That sounds like a good idea, but she might not have the money to go clubbing with a baby!

How lovely. I haven't had flowers for a little while , DH is normally really good about that though so I shouldn't complain.

We arent going to see each other tomorrow. I'm working 9-6 and he is doing 3-11 so he gave me them today.

Please tell why I'm looking at nursery furniture when I have a cot, though I may need a new one as ds will still be in it when the new lo (hopefukky) is born

What the hell is hopefukky???
hopefully

For the same reason I am posting on MN and am not a mum

I cant help looking at baby stuff and maternity clothes. Mothercare have sent me 2 catalogues in the last week I think they are trying to tell me something

Yep, the broodiest wont go, its pretty much all I think about some days but I have wanted DC's for years so a few more months is nothing!!

waiting is something I am quite used to (hence the name) had to wait 3 1/2 years to get married so I was well enough to walk down the isle (still wanted kids then but wanted to get married first and was too ill to have a baby) and have been waiting since then (another 3 and a but years) to have kids! I seem to have spent all my 20's waiting!!!

I'm terribly impatient sometimes.
When we got married I was getting really annoyed as they said I had to wait as its traditional to be late!

I have had to learn patience. When I got ill (second time) and had to leave uni, couldn't work, couldn't walk more then 100yds, so was pretty much stuck in the house alone all day, I had to learn to roll with things. I am or certainly was, by nature, quite impatient but have learnt that patience and perservance does get you their in the end zas long as you keep the faith in yourself and your ability. I have to keep reminding myself of all the good things I have in my life and how far I have come in a few short years. When I look back, although I walked down the isle I still had to take my wheelchair on honeymoon, I remember my DH pushed me round Chichen Iza (Mayan ruins) in my wheelchair oven uneven ground and 35 degree heat, just so I had enough energy to climb to the top of the temple! When I remember things like that, where I have come from, what I have achieved and how lucky I am, waiting a few more months seems easy! Anyhow, that is enough on "thought for the say" really must do some work

LOL Kay - I was early for my wedding! Caused a right panic at the church...

LG&T...boo!! Could still change though!

I got faint positive on OV test just now, so I think I am indeed gearing up for some Valentine's procreating

Can't stay long - got to get house presentable as 'baby group' is here this afternoon!! There was a baby boom last year, swelling the population by 5% (okay, there were 5 babies...) and we get together every wednesday for a natter and cake

too many typos, I meant of course "thought for the day"

Good Luck Teuch with your valentines day procreating!!
Fingers crossed for BFP in a couple of weeks!!

Playing - My mums friend had a horse riding accident and couldnt walk, she had loads of physio and was due to be getting married and they decided to go ahead with it anyway as it was all booked and planned.
She amazed everyone as she walked down the aisle. She had re learnt to walk and hadn't told anyone except her dad. It was amazing no one could believe their eyes I know I couldnt. She still took her wheelchair on honeymoon with her so she didnt get to tired.

I'd love to get married again, it was such a good day.

hello chatter boxes!

kay that is a lovely story made me well up!
Playing you have more patience than me, waiting is not something i do well!

whats everyone got planned for the weekend? x

I loved getting married too. I never walked anywhere without a stick at least, even bought a parasol to use as a walking stick on the day. Didn't need it, a combination of strategically placed chairs and sheer will power and excitment got me through the day, even managed to dance the night away . Could barely move the next day but it was worth it. DH keeps saying we will get married again in vegas for our 10th anniversary in the little white chapel, which might be fun! Still, as much as I loved getting married I love being married more, so I wouldn't want to do it again cos it would mean not being married!

Hi BB, absolutely nothing

ive jsut made a mistake at wrk and now ive owned up i feel really pants....insecurities rising...

Well whenever I make a mistake (I do, everyone does) I always own up. Most of the time my boss repects my honesty. Sometimes the shit just hits the fan. You have to admit it, apologise and work out how to rectify it and 9/10 you will be repected for being honest and sorting the problem out. The other 1/10 you will just be in the shit, but hey, everyone has a day in the naughty corner every now and again.

Oh BB Everyone makes mistakes. Believe me I do.
Dh is taking me out to York for the day Saturday then taking me for a meal.

Arg this has officially been the day from hell...i hate days like this... ive admitted my mistake and although its not huge its cost the business so i feel shit but on the otherhand i am the only actually bringing money in so.... ARG i wish i didnt have to work

I wish I didnt have to work too,
fingers crossed we'll both win the lottery

It would be nice wouldnt it? the thing that annoys me is, im sticking here for the dosh, once ive had the baby i shant stay longer than i have too ill go back somewhere nice ARGGGGG

I hate working too . I work with a really nice bunch of people, in a job which most of the time is ok, close to home, pays not great but ok for my town, but still, I hate working! Would love to be a SAHM, not going to be able to afford that though, still I will have 9 whole months off maternity leave and then will be able to work part time, can't wait!!!!