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TTC Thread 15...........a thread full of babydust.

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geordie · 03/12/2004 11:28

here it is girls.

ttc 15

the last one of 2005 I think.......

However- I am sending loads of babydut to you all

I really hope this beanie sticks......cos as much as i luv you all I really want to join a antenatal board!!

Geordie
(and beanie due august 15th 2005!)

OP posts:
runtus · 15/12/2004 10:16

Tania, just logged on for the 1st time in ages and really sorry to read what you went through yesterday. Doctors can be insensitive gits at times

Try to remember the positive things he and the nurses said (I know it is hard) and as someone else says - it has happened once so it will not take a mracle to happen again. You just need a bit of tlc first, thats all.

Sleep well honey and don;t lose heart - we are all here with you.

Twiga · 15/12/2004 10:26

{{{hugs}}}}Tania, sorry to hear things weren't great, hope it all gets sorted out soon, lol x

RudyDudy · 15/12/2004 11:10

(((Tania))) you poor love. Drs have such poor communication skills - they treat everything as a medical fact and so often forget that it's a person's real life they are talking about. It makes me so . Please try to put his manner aside and focus on what he said. As has been said before there are solutions to your problem it's just that it will take more time than you were hoping for. I know how frustrating and upsetting that must be but please don't give up hope as all is far from lost. Give yourself some time to recover from this op and to fully understand what the next steps are. At least you now know what is stopping you from getting pg and can focus on doing something about it rather than imagining what might be wrong. Lots and lots of tlc, love and babydust heading your way and in the meantime go and give that DS of yours a big squeeze

(((Hester)))...thinking of you...

fastasleep · 15/12/2004 15:11

It's quiet here today! I hope everyone's ok, Tania - hope you're not hurting too much, physically and emotionally! hugs Hester!!! I'm biting the nails I've only just grown waiting for your result!! (I've honestly never had actual nails before, such a bad habit nibble I'm trying to grow them for a spa day I've been promised! )

Colinsawmommykissingsantaclaus · 15/12/2004 15:33

Morning all. Tania (((hugs))). I totally agree with everyone on how insensitive doctors can be.

CD 28 for me today. AF is due, and I can sure feel her coming. Testing would just be a waste of money at this point.

Hester, where are you? You need to be the one with good news today.

Wifeof · 15/12/2004 16:00

Big hugs Tania- for you - insensitive git!

Well, it's not going to be me to start a new thread yet. I'm cd29 and 15dpo. Woke up this morning suddenly feeling really sick and tired having had bad AF cramps all last weekend, so toddled off to get a Clearblue and.... BFN. Oh well.......

(However, 'tis not over yet, I didn't get a pos until 5 weeks with ds so you never know....?)

cockenzie · 15/12/2004 17:21

so sory Tanya about those news - hope u feel better soon not just physically but also emotionally.like the girls just said, at least (i know its not exacttly a consolation and u would like to get pg now) but its not like doc told u that u wont ever get pg again.Its all very easy to say, but hope u cheer up soon.big huggies with lots of choc and wine

cockenzie · 15/12/2004 17:23

i am so rubbish at comforting someone in dire straights.cant find the right words, as its not something i guess u can feel unless u are in the situation , but i hope tanya, that u do feel better soon.

cockenzie · 15/12/2004 17:25

fastasleep- 10 days b4 testing and get ur bfp?

i feel so guilty and insensitive now to think about getting pg after what tanya has been thru

jingleballs · 15/12/2004 17:35

ooh did i miss something, has FS had a bfp?

jeddah · 15/12/2004 19:06

Tania sorry about result!
Get all your questions ready for when the quack speaks to you again!

HESTER! where are you love?
are you alright?

jingleballs · 15/12/2004 20:19

i've got a nasty feelin something bad's happened, (I only mean AF has come) and she's feelin a bit down. I think, but hopsfully it's not the case thou, I ama bit worried, we'll see how she gets on over the next few days I think?

(hester if u r there lurking about hon ((((hugs))))) it's ok, and u stop in when ur ready)

Hulababy · 15/12/2004 20:29

Oh Tania (((hugs))) What an insensitive doctor Sorry.

Hope you get more answers next time you speak to him.

fastasleep · 15/12/2004 20:35

No jingle I haven't! Unless I didn't notice it!! Don't congratulate me please ...no way near the big O yet, calm down cockenzie Hester where aaaare you!! My nails are quite gone!

fastasleep · 15/12/2004 20:37

massive hugs to Hester whatever the news!!

jingleballs · 15/12/2004 21:26

we've been v quiet today girls, r there any testers coming up? i'm cd17 (a new pack of sticks - which r a diff lot no and work just the same) and on a green day, I assume that would be 5DPO (assuming O was day 12 - I had the O on days 12 and 13)

jeds - did ur green light come on about 4/5 days after u'd OV?

Tania2 · 15/12/2004 22:16

Hi girls thank you so much for all your kind words it really made me feel better.
Not really sore today not bleeding either so iam still going to ttc this month regardless what dr says.
Hester are you about really worried about you hope your ok and just too busy to pop in.
Girls expecting a call from my gyno today i will fill you in later.
Bye for now
Love you all
Tania
xx

FastAsleepInAManger · 15/12/2004 23:05

Still thinking about you Hester! I'm not your stalker honest! We're all here for you... (it's fastasleep, being sort of vaguely festive, if you hadn't noticed!)

Glad you're ok Tania! You go girl! BD lots!!

RudyDudy · 16/12/2004 06:57

Hi Tania - you take it easy and look after yourself but if you feel up to bd, then why not?!

No pressure hester, we just care...

CD31 for me and still managed not to test. Not that hard tbh as don't feel in the least bit pg. Will probably do an early one Sat am.

cockenzie · 16/12/2004 07:57

Tanya - so glad u feel better.thats a relief
huggsto all and good luk to the testers

jingleballs · 16/12/2004 09:07

mornin all, we're quiet on here at the mo. I guess ur all out spending lots of money at the shops for xmas! he he day 18 here, and a nice green light! lol, will have to finish our bedroom off on the w/e and put everything back in there so I can have a good root about for the other box of persona sticks... i'm sure I bought an extra on ethis month, at least I remeber standin in line with it, i'm not mad i'm sure..... a I?

hester · 16/12/2004 09:25

Morning all, and thanks so much for your lovely messages. I was off sick yesterday, and my home PC allowed me to read the thread but not to post on it - very frustrating! But I was very touched that you remembered it was my due day and you cared enough to ask... thanks so much; it made a bad day more bearable.

OK, got a BFN yesterday. Still no af, but the cramps are really building. Feeling very crushed, because for a few days there I really thought I was in with a chance. I'm still feeling nauseous (a week now) but the other symptoms have subsided and I'm thinking it's either connected to this bug I am going down with, or just some post-mc hormones going a bit haywire. Either way, I feel fairly certain now that I am just having a long cycle (ovulated late so it wouldn't be surprising) and that af will come in the next few days.

I could be wrong, of course; last month I felt SO unpregnant, complete with cramps, and yet was. But I don't think so. Feeling very despairing and also very stupid that I allowed myself to get so convinced I was, and so excited (fantasising telling my family on christmas day etc... what an idiot). I guess I just wanted it so very very much...

Am back at work now - probably a mistake, because I feel completely vile and very weepy - but at least it means I can be in touch with you girls. Thanks again for all your support; I can't tell you how much it is helping.

xxx

hester · 16/12/2004 09:26

Tania, I so feel for what you went through yesterday. I agree with the others that it is great to know what is going on (I think there must be nothing worse than 'unexplained infertility') but how terribly shocking and upsetting as well. I so wish you could have got better news.

How are you feeling today, lovey?

RudyDudy · 16/12/2004 11:15

Hi hester - glad you haven't disappeared on us . Sorry about BFN and cramps and feeling ill - a rotten combination . I can sympathise with the whole Christmas Day fantasy thing - I am sure I am not pg this month, really don't feel a thing at all, but there's still a little bit of my brain that won't shut up about it! CD31 for me and still counting...

I don't want to get false hope as I just have a feeling this isn't my month but could someone tell me...I don't think we bd on O day but I think we did for the 2 days before and the day after. Does this still give us a chance? Or does it need to be on the actual day? I know the window is pretty small, just not sure how small.

Hope the call with the Dr is better than the previous conversation Tania and that you get all your questions answered. Do let us know what he says.

RudyDudy · 16/12/2004 11:18

just to clarify - I know the days when we bd I just don't know when I Ov'd this month (just in case you thought the bd's were that unmemorable I wasn't sure if they happened or not !!)

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