TTC after miscarriage Thread 14 🌈✨💕💙

[FfayeN]

New thread 🥰

Well AF showed up this evening after all that 😂 CD1 new cycle 💪🏼

@Mannymoomin I don't use flo but I have heard in forums people don't rate it. It is a bit odd that it would think that

@bringmearainbow at least you can start afresh and this cycle you will know that the hcg is all gone and you can move on 👍

@bringmearainbow so sorry AF arrived, that’s shite but at least there will be no uncertainty for this new cycle, on an optimistic note, your LP hasn’t been ridiculously short so that has to be a positive.

Just realised I said I’m 10/11dpo today, I’m getting ahead of myself as I’m 9/10 today, although I may do a sneaky test tomorrow.
I’m not rating Flo now after that, you’d think it’d know LP is pretty consistent across cycles, it has 2 years of my data so no excuses 😂

@LuckyMoonstone yep fresh cycle 💪🏼

@Mannymoomin ahh it is but at least it didn't keep me waiting for a couple more days thankful of that. I usually have a 11/12 day lp so the evening of day 10 can't be sniffed at. Lol yes you would think it will know. Honestly one of the apps I use annoyed me this last cycle by changing my ovulation to a day that makes zero sense I suppose they all have their flaws. Oooh let us know if you do 🤞🏼

This mornings test!
I have been panicking today thinking my boobs don’t hurt enough and I don’t feel as sick anymore. Well after spending all day groping myself and my boobs definitely hurt 😂 and I’ve just eaten my lunch and started to feel sick…hooray?

@LuckyMoonstone definitely hooray for feeling sick, although sickness has always crippled me and it’s another reason why I put off ttc for so long!

I’m either 10/11 dpo today and tested to see what I thought was a bfn, when I looked at my test an hour later I can see the faintest of faint lines, if it’s an indent it’s the first time I’ve ever seen one, even when looking at them outside the time window. This was frer so hopefully tomorrow I’ll have more of an idea

@Mannymoomin i think early pregnancy is the only time in your life where you want to feel as bad as possible, so that you feel as pregnant as possible 😂
Does it have colour? I find FRERs very hard to tell because the pink dye is so pale (to my eyes anyway).

@LuckyMoonstone yay! Test looks fab as well, good luck for tomorrow xx

@Mannymoomin Can we see? :D

I can’t tell if it has colour or not, it’s honestly such a squinter, stand on your head in a certain light 😂 certainly can’t capture it on camera although it’s definitely there, I suppose I’ll just have to wait and see tomorrow.

@LuckyMoonstone what time are you at epu tomorrow? Will be keeping fingers crossed that everything goes well

@Mannymoomin 8:30am, I am sooo nervous

@LuckyMoonstone I'm glad it's really early at least!

@LuckyMoonstone at least it’s first thing so you don’t have to spend the day anxiously waiting. Let us know how you get on, I’m optimistic for you though

Yes I’m so glad it’s first thing!

Hi all,

just wanted to join. I lost mine just before New Year, starting again is just so demoralising. I feel so lost .

@Needtobuildabridge Welcome and sorry for your loss :(

@bringmearainbow sorry af got you too.

@LuckyMoonstone that line looks great, good luck tomorrow 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@Needtobuildabridge sorry for your loss. Welcome to the group 💛

@Mannymoomin I hope you get a nice clear bfp tomorrow. Sounds promising.

@Mannymoomin are you testing again this morning? 🤞🏼

@Bubblesandballoons thanks she sucks 🙄

@Needtobuildabridge welcome and sorry for your loss ❤️

@LuckyMoonstone hope you got on ok today.

@bringmearainbow yes i tested again, another vvvvvvfl, it’s so hard to see, or capture on camera!

@Mannymoomin oooh I can see it 🤞🏼 gosh I hope it's the start of something v exciting for you did it come within the timeframe today?

@Mannymoomin I can see it!

I’m back from the hospital! Still not 100% sure what the deal is 😅 they could see a gestational sac, normal size, and she said my endometrium was really thick & bright on the scan so that’s a good thing. Couldn’t see a yolk sac, but they think I’m too early. She said that it’s very normal not to see anything if im only 5 weeks (by my calculations I am only just 5 weeks, if im more then only by like one day). So I’ve got to go back in 10 days which is torture 😭
She could also see the bleed in my uterus above the sac, it’s quite small now obviously, she didn’t say what it could be, but im thinking subchrionic hematoma? And maybe instead of hanging around like the one with DS did, it bled out straight away, like as soon as it formed?
The empty sac has made me worried about a blighted ovum. But if the embryo had already gone, surely I wouldn’t be getting stronger tests and symptoms? They’d be getting lighter or staying stagnant?

@Mannymoomin i see it too☺️🤞🏻

@LuckyMoonstone It does seem very early so good you can see a sack, I’ve seen on loads of threads people just see nothing at all but go back and it’s appeared! 10 days is so long though they could of said come back at 6 weeks really

@ChloeN & @bringmearainbow I’m glad it’s not just me! I’ve still been getting brown stringy mucus which has always been a sign of early pregnancy for me so I’m cautiously hopeful.

@LuckyMoonstone 10 days is very long, but at least one thing, you know you are definitely pregnant and it’s in the right place.
I also second that 5 weeks is just too early to the yolk sac, and hematomas are very common in pregnancy if that’s what the bleed was, so I’d say for now, congratulations.

@Mannymoomin thank you, I’m trying to stay calm and believe that everything’s ok for now but I hate not being certain!