@Sunnymummy3 thank you for your kind words. Yes, I am always trying to help people. I hope you do mind... it was only the image as I didn't want my colleague to know I'm on this forum and start questioning me everyday lol.
So... she is a very experienced midwife with 2 children of her own. She has shared many stories with me. I got her to review your HCG tests and your CB. My question to her was "can HCG be detected at 9DPO" in a nutshell, yes it is possible but she has asked if you could wait a couple more days before testing again. The stress of testing to frequently too soon can have an affect.
To protect my emotions, I won't be testing until next week Tuesday 15 Nov. According to my app this is when my TWW ends and if AF doesn't arrive by then I will feel better.
Still having mild cramping as I type and I have been checking my face for that one period spot 😅
@Pixiedusted regarding the Fertilily, well...
😔 First time pushed it in and thought hmmm okay, a little uncomfortable. I was annoyed because in doing so, the sperm came out.
I then got DH to give it ago but it was a struggle. TBH I got a little frustrated with him and said "you're not pushing it in the curve of my vag". Obviously it's not designed as one straight tunnel and also the way I was laying to prevent the leak (hips up) whilst he was pushing didn't help.
Luckily this was all before ovulation just to get the hang of it.
The next time i done it, straight in, positioned at cervix, really comfortable and when pulling on the end it popped down straight away. I was well pleased.
The next time, i just couldn't do it. By this time, I went in the bathroom and cried. I actually wanted to scream. Went back to bed and went to sleep.
Next day I told myself if other people can do it, I'm not an alien, it can't be that bad. I also had to get it in my head that during pregnancy people are always poking and prodding down there so I just got on with it.
It worked in the end. Don't get me wrong was difficult trying to get it out every time but you just take your time, pinch it gently and pull it out. I done this slowly so that I could assess how much semen fluid was left. Whilst it was in, I would also check to ensure there was no leakage and if I pushed gently that nothing would come out.
Continue using, don't give up!
(I kept it in a lot longer that 20 mins each time. Research says it take 30-45 mins for sperm to reach egg)