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I have had trigger shot yesterday for first time

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Dachshund1 · 21/10/2022 20:44

So it's day 2 most of today I'm getting a weird feeling in my left ovary hard to explain like it's going to pop , could this mean I have ovulated today ,iv already had intercourse today so going to wait untill tomorrow untill hubby builds up again just to try for the best chance I have only one mature 20mm folicle does any one have any experience, I'd really love to hear your stories xxxxxx

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Dachshund1 · 26/02/2023 22:14

I'm just laying in bed I don't no how to feel , I'm just in shock he was my best friend

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Alexis7890 · 26/02/2023 22:15

Is there someone you can phone/go and see or stay with tonight so you can talk to someone in person and have some space?

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Dachshund1 · 26/02/2023 22:17

Will he said to one woman IL getvu a double vodka nall I didn't have time to read much more and other hey babe , but the fone is smashed now so he can't show me now and all he kept saying was please don't do this please don't do this

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Dachshund1 · 26/02/2023 22:18

No there actually isn't he never trusted me kinda weird ? I'm at home he's at his mother's so I guess this is it

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Dachshund1 · 26/02/2023 22:19

Why would he begging me don't do this like he didn't deny anything because I said IV seen enough gave him the down back

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Dachshund1 · 26/02/2023 22:20

He didn't deny it he was crying his eyes out begging me don't do this is that mean he's done something or guilty

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Alexis7890 · 26/02/2023 22:20

Did he give you any kind of proper explanation for the messages? Like a proper believable one?

Alexis7890 · 26/02/2023 22:21

If he didn’t deny it or properly explain that I would think he has done something I’m so sorry you’re going through this xxx

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Dachshund1 · 26/02/2023 22:22

No he said nothing he went so quiet

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Dachshund1 · 26/02/2023 22:24

He didn't even defend him self like no babe I haven't he ended up going crazy cuz I called his parents smashed the fone called me horrible names and blamed it all on me but he didn't deny it ,,,,, I do find it strange that he said it's this fone IL get one with no internet

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Dachshund1 · 26/02/2023 22:25

He cried his eyes out saying don't do this but don't do this please Im begging you I don't no wot that means

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Alexis7890 · 26/02/2023 22:27

How did he blame it on you?! I assume he thinks you’re leaving him and that’s why he was begging? Calling you names and blaming you is awful though. He needs to be able to explain himself properly. It isn’t the phones fault if he was sending messages

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Dachshund1 · 26/02/2023 22:33

He was super quiet when he got caught out with these messages ,yes I said I don't trust you anymore IV seen to much on that how could u do this to me I trusted you and I love u ,,, that's when he started crying and saying please don't do this over in repeat I said I done nothing u did then because he wouldn't get out of my space I called his parents and then that's when he said I'm a horrible names and it's all my fault and he smashed the fone and blamed me for all of this

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Dachshund1 · 26/02/2023 22:34

Because I told his parents that's why he blamed on me

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Dachshund1 · 26/02/2023 22:35

Yes he knows I'm leaving him that's when the horribleness came to light

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Melpainter · 27/02/2023 00:29

@Dachshund1 im so sorry you have gone through this tonight it’s terrible let alone the efforts your going to to have a baby!
porn is something that you can’t stop it’s out there and so accessible I’d be less stressed about that, but the one to one contact is too far! From my experience men love to be wanted and when us ladies are preoccupied with the medication and desire to be pregnant (even though they get sex) they seek attention anywhere they can get it! But ultimately deep down don’t actually want that attention because they are happy at home but greedy fuckers and don’t think about the consequences till after they get caught.
you don’t deserve this especially finding out a day before trigger, my heart goes out to you sending a massive hug xxxx

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Dachshund1 · 27/02/2023 08:57

Melpainter thanks so much for that message thanks I mean it I haven't slept a wink I'm just tired 😩 and im not attending my appointment this morning is no they will ring me and I'm don't no wot to day , IV lost all my hope in men xxxxxxx

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Melpainter · 27/02/2023 09:06

I can understand that completely
talk about shit timing! Has he tried to talk to you? Can you see a way passed this? Sometimes these challenges are shit but can make you stronger and better at communicating with each other. I don’t know I’m just trying to be optimistic for you xxx

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Dachshund1 · 27/02/2023 10:43

The clinic rang me I didn't no wot to say I had to say I have a tummy bug I was so embarrassed, no sure he's smashed his mobile look I lay awake all night I don't trust him , I don't trust him and I'm heartbroken to say the least , he has no mobile now so can't contact me and I just can't trust him always arguing with me and I don't do nothing wrong , I'm tryna put it all together it's like he's moulded me into a little house wife whilst he's sneeking and doing god knows wot on his fone his dad told me last night when he left that he does love you but he can't be screaming at me when I don't do anything wrong or say the wrong thing , trust is ruined xxxxxxxx

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Dachshund1 · 27/02/2023 10:45

Few months ago some woman in the shop said are u and a name o was baffled it one of the names in the messages I'm just tryna figure out wer I go from here , he was holding his both hands on his head saying don't do this IL get a fone with no internet that tells me he's fucked up and got caught I don't no I'm to old for this crap all I wanted was a nice happy evert after and a family and TTC and this is respect he shows me xxxxxxx

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Dachshund1 · 27/02/2023 10:46

I find it so hard to trust people, and after 2 half 3 years I decided to take his fone and he snapped it back but I got it why would he snap it like my fone is an open book for him why all the secrets and the grumpy attitude and huffing and blaming me all the time for nothing ...

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Dachshund1 · 27/02/2023 10:49

IV had a lot of chalages in my life already , but this when I finally thought I could trust someone I love him soo bloody much but I can be hurting like this it's now fair all I do is help him and support him and trust him and this is how he treats me ? I don't get it xxxxxxx

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Melpainter · 27/02/2023 17:53

How are you doing @Dachshund1 x

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Dachshund1 · 27/02/2023 19:14

Okay he called begging me to not to leave him but I said I can't do it I don't trust him anymore and he's sucking me because I love him but I can't do it to myself

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Dachshund1 · 27/02/2023 20:59

Girls one last thing my partners 2nd hand car to you no from a dealer I connected my Bluetooth to it he's had it about year now or just over when I'm was conecting it it says a girl iPhone was already connected to it it was his ex girlfriends name iPhone he said it wasn't he sat there and told me it was obvious it's the Person who owned it before him but it was under his name xxxxxx

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