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TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

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FfayeN · 21/10/2022 19:40

Ready for when we tip over the last one. Lucky 13 🍀

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ChloeN · 17/11/2022 17:40

@Babydustmamma think sometimes it’s just good to get it out of your system rather than keep obsessing over whether you are or not! Let me know how you get on☺️xxx

Babydustmamma · 17/11/2022 17:43

@ChloeN thats a great way to look at it! ♥️ Have you had any symptoms? The first time I was pregnant I had really sore boobs immediately and nothing else. The second time I didn’t know at all, with no symptoms… so I don’t know why I drive myself crazy because I know I’m probably one of those people who don’t really get many tww symptoms 😂 the amount of YouTube videos I’ve watched of people who know from day 4 and have loads of symptoms is craaaazy

ChloeN · 17/11/2022 17:53

@Babydustmamma surely that early they aren’t symptoms just coincidence?🤯 not really, tiny amount of cramping that’s it, first time round I had implantation bleeding so every cycle I don’t get that I feel like I’m out but I know it’s not always the same each time! I was feeling quite positive about this month but that seems to get less and less everyday🤦🏻‍♀️🤣 Have you had anything symptom wise so far? Xxx

Babydustmamma · 17/11/2022 18:09

@ChloeN completely with you! Started off this month mega positive and feeling like it really was my month… am losing hope as the days go on 😅 wish I could pop my thoughts on pause because I know getting stressed can’t help!

I had a little implantation bleeding potentially (never had it before, and it was only a tiny bit but fresh red colour so might not be) and light cramping… but tbh looking at my cycle charting I think always get light cramping around this time of the month, almost like the cogs start moving for AF 😂.

With the YouTube videos I think so too 😂 but they’re all so sure. What I’d give for that confidence! 🌈

mummatara · 17/11/2022 18:32

@FfayeN yes I think a failed attempt too hopefully it might try again 🤞🏼 I had O pains on Sunday I don't normally get any symptoms cm has been fertile ish so we'll see what the next few days brings.

I have seen pregnancy announcements left right and centre the last week or so it doesn't normally bother me but it's killing me a little bit every time atm

@Babydustmamma oooh good luck 🤞🏼

@ChloeN don't touch that FR 😂 got any cheapies to waste?

ChloeN · 17/11/2022 19:33

@Babydustmamma that does sound very promising especially if the blood has stopped🤞🏻

@mummatara yes quite a few of the sensitive easy@home ones! I might try and hold off 😖

Babydustmamma · 17/11/2022 19:41

@mummatara thank you! ♥️

there does seem to be announcements everywhere atm 😅 were there always this many (pre mc)… because it feels like there’s zillions?! 🌈♥️

FfayeN · 17/11/2022 19:58

@mummatara oh hun it's horrible when you're feeling so exposed to it all. That is strange! It could be you missed your peak and your temperatures are a bit off this month, the only way to know is to keep on temping. You got this 💪🏼 xx

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mummatara · 17/11/2022 20:09

@ChloeN oh your better than me I'd be peeing all over those cheapies 😅

@Babydustmamma lol I'm not sure I took much notice but now they are everywhere 🫣 I don't think it helps that because you Google lots of TTC questions you get lots of baby related suggested videos blogs etc 🙄

@FfayeN yes I'll carry on you never know it might shock me and go up 😆 tbh I had obviously written it off as last time I had surgery I didn't ovulate until after I had a period so I was all prepped for that but now my silly body has got my hopes up ❤️ PT is still a squinter too that's annoying 😅 god I'm in a huff tonight I better get a better sesh than 20 seconds tonight 🤣

FfayeN · 17/11/2022 20:44

@mummatara Yes love you need sorting out 🤣🤣🤣

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ChloeN · 17/11/2022 20:50

@mummatara i think in my head I know it’ll just be negative and waste of a test so that helps me hold off🤣

mummatara · 17/11/2022 20:59

@FfayeN 🤣 yes I yes I do 🤣

@ChloeN ahhhh you got this hun 💪🏼 what day you aiming for?

ChloeN · 17/11/2022 21:12

@mummatara 24th so a whole week!😭 AF is due then but I have a drs appt so feel I better test before if my period hasn’t showed

calimc83 · 17/11/2022 21:54

@bunnykins123 Hope the test goes well! Oh wow, how u feeling about the IVF? I bet it'll feel like a relief once u get going. All ok over here..we've told a few more friends! Still don't feel 'safe' yet though 😫 xx

emhope · 17/11/2022 23:02

Good luck to all those testing soon 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Going on my OPK peak (not temps) I should be 2 DPO so a while to wait before testing for me! Tempted to order in FRER’s for this month 😆

Babydustmamma · 18/11/2022 07:24

Officially… BFN 😭 only 9DPO so I guess there’s still a chance 🍀🌈 will try again tomorrow ♥️

Bubblesandballoons · 18/11/2022 07:26

Af arrived on time for me today, so onto the next cycle. I feel strangely relaxed, as this cycle will be a year since I started trying for no2, so in a weird way kind of feels like a fresh start and hopefully can put all the miscarriages behind me 🤞🏻.

Good luck to all those testing soon.

@Babydustmamma sorry about the bfn. Fingers crossed for a line for you in the next few days xx

ChloeN · 18/11/2022 07:27

@Babydustmamma yes definitely still a chance!!🤞🏻❤️

Aprilsunnyday · 18/11/2022 09:10

@Babydustmamma
I am in the same situation, tested yesterday on dpo9 and stark white so I am out this month, don't think a stark white can turn into faint lines 😂, its disappointing as I held out hope for this month.... And I thought we had a good chance but also strangely relieved. Its coming to Xmas so not too bad to be able to have a glass 🍸

We shall keep the hopes up!

Good luck to those testing soon 🤗 some good news will be great!!! 💐

TheBirdintheCave · 18/11/2022 09:16

@Aprilsunnyday I don't think you're out at 9dpo! I got a BFP yesterday at 10dpo and it was very faint (totally blank the day before) but more stronger this morning :)

Babydustmamma · 18/11/2022 09:23

@TheBirdintheCave that’s incredible! And thanks for the hope with the 9 vs 10 lines too ♥️🌈 congratulations xx

@ChloeN @Bubblesandballoons @Aprilsunnyday ♥️♥️ Fingers and toes crossed for tomorrow! Really thought it might be my month! Even dreamt last night that I got a positive! Come on manifestation haha xx

Aprilsunnyday · 18/11/2022 09:54

@TheBirdintheCave
Thanks for that!!! Yes still a glimmer of hope perhaps :)
And of course congratulations, I read it and felt happy for you !!! 💐

Aprilsunnyday · 18/11/2022 09:55

@Babydustmamma
Yes good luck to all of us, if not this cycle, then next, or the one after :)
🌈

ChloeN · 18/11/2022 10:16

@TheBirdintheCave yay how exciting!! What test did you use?? I tested using an easy@home and keep thinking there’s something there so I binned it lol I think I have line eyes

Babydustmamma · 18/11/2022 10:36

@ChloeN i have line eyes too! 😂♥️
@Aprilsunnyday yes please!!!!🌈

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