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TTC after miscarriage thread 13 💕🌈✨💛

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FfayeN · 21/10/2022 19:40

Ready for when we tip over the last one. Lucky 13 🍀

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ChloeN · 16/11/2022 11:44

@mummatara this was the result, so very nearly positive so think that means I’ve ovulated?? At the start of the cycle my result was like 0.2 or something🤣 I did an LH strip this morning too and it was higher than normal, so obvs did a pregnancy test but of course it was negative🙄

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FfayeN · 16/11/2022 12:41

@Mumbrava I've only ever used OPKs, I think the clearblues use your baseline to get the peak so after that they won't be accurate. I would try using a normal OPK as it'll give you a general reading, rather than one based on your pre-ovulation levels x

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LuckyMoonstone · 16/11/2022 13:19

Well I’m finally ovulating on day 31 😆 it’s making me so anxious that there’s a little egg there just ready and waiting and I’m deliberately not trying to catch it 😅 looking forward to next month when I’ll be able to go back to obsessing over lines!

ChickenT2b · 16/11/2022 14:46

Lots of mini twinges today at 9dpo and 0.20 Celsius temp drop. I’m so hopeful 😩🤞🏼🌈

Babydustmamma · 16/11/2022 16:24

@ChickenT2b thats really exciting! 🌈 when do you think you’ll test?

I’ve had some light cramping today and saw a little spotting - but it was red. I’ve never had implantation bleeding before, but have read online it should be pink/brown rather than red. Has anyone else had implantation bleeding before?♥️

Mumbrava · 16/11/2022 16:26

ChickenT2b · 16/11/2022 14:46

Lots of mini twinges today at 9dpo and 0.20 Celsius temp drop. I’m so hopeful 😩🤞🏼🌈

Aww I hope it works out for you! Let us know if you have any more symptoms in the upcoming days

Mumbrava · 16/11/2022 16:26

Babydustmamma · 16/11/2022 16:24

@ChickenT2b thats really exciting! 🌈 when do you think you’ll test?

I’ve had some light cramping today and saw a little spotting - but it was red. I’ve never had implantation bleeding before, but have read online it should be pink/brown rather than red. Has anyone else had implantation bleeding before?♥️

How many weeks post ovulation are you?

bunnykins123 · 16/11/2022 16:28

@LuckyMoonstone I envy you being able to just relax and drink over Xmas! I think you're being very sensible to wait until next month. Hope you're doing well!

@ChloeN I saw reviews on them online. I'm not sure they are all that accurate. If you're seeing an increase I think you can assume you've ovulated 🤞

@mummatara oh I had that this month. Peak and no temp increase. I still don't know exactly what I ovulated but I would keep going at it if DH is around until your temps increase! I wouldn't assume O isn't going to happen.

@TheBirdintheCave nothing to report for me either. But I'm not looking for symptoms. Every single month I get loads of symptoms so this month I refuse to give myself a boobie grope and check my cm.

bunnykins123 · 16/11/2022 16:30

@Babydustmamma how many days past O are you? Sounds promising!

Babydustmamma · 16/11/2022 16:32

@bunnykins123 @Mumbrava I'm 7DPO Today ♥️

Babydustmamma · 16/11/2022 16:51

@bunnykins123 @Mumbrava but with the first two pregnancies I never experienced implantation bleeding so have no idea if it’s the AF come early 😅

bunnykins123 · 16/11/2022 16:53

@Babydustmamma it could be! What did it look like? Got my fingers crossed for you!

Babydustmamma · 16/11/2022 16:55

@bunnykins123 thank you lovely! I feel like I’ve got all the hope in the world but have also completely run out 😅 does anyone else get that?

It was just a tiny streak of red when I wiped - that was lunch time today and nothing since! ♥️

Mannymoomin · 16/11/2022 16:55

Hi all, I miscarried on 23rd October at 7 weeks.
bleeding lasted 8 days and was extremely heavy.
we dtd once 13 days after mc.
i was advised to test again after 3 weeks to make sure test was negative, I’m wishing now that I tested earlier so I could compare, I’m still getting very positive tests, it’s 3 weeks 4 days now since mc and 12 days since dtd.
so too early for strong positives but then it also seems like too long for strong positives which is totally messing with my head.
so sorry to everyone that is going or has gone through the same

ChloeN · 16/11/2022 17:04

@bunnykins123 thanks lovely, I’m just happy to see a decent rise more than anything! I was worrying I hadn’t ovulated at all this month xx

mummatara · 16/11/2022 18:19

@ChloeN ooh that looks like a good positive result hopefully just too early for a positive PT 🤞🏼

@LuckyMoonstone your so sensible getting to enjoy all the Christmas fun 😂 do you usually ovulate that late?

@bunnykins123 oh don't worry he won't get too far 😂 I'm suggesting an early night just incase 🙊 I'll carry on testing see what happens. Would have been nice to think I'm in the TWW already though wouldn't it. The drop I had would indicate O as I usually get one on O day and that was when the OPK was peak. Did yours go up in the end I can't remember?

@Mannymoomin sorry your here lovely ❤️ I didn't get a negative test after my first MC for 6 weeks and I'm still getting very faint positives after my second MC but that was only 2 weeks ago when I had to go for surgery for retained products. I think it really depends on how high your hcg was to begin with. My EPU said to ring them if I'm still getting positive tests after 3 weeks. They then had me in for blood tests to see if hcg was rising or falling. Maybe give them a call

calimc83 · 16/11/2022 18:44

@TheBirdintheCave @MrsCristianoX got everything crossed for you girls! This has to be your cycle 😘 @bunnykins123 how are u getting on lovely? X

LuckyMoonstone · 16/11/2022 18:54

@mummatara yeah this year I’ve been ovulating around day 30… it’s one of the reasons I went to the docs in the first place to try and sort out my cycles/thyroid. Well this is the first Xmas in 3 years i haven’t been preggo so I’m gonna enjoy my wine advent calendar 😋

mummatara · 16/11/2022 19:16

@LuckyMoonstone ah makes sense. Omg I'm so jealous a wine advent calendar yes please 🤩😂

ChickenT2b · 16/11/2022 19:34

@Babydustmamma sounds like it could be implantation bleeding… how’s your bbt?
I’ve done a cheapie today which was BFN but don’t think that means much at this stage. It was more to satisfy the need to POAS. Think I will do an FRER at 11dpo xx

Babydustmamma · 16/11/2022 19:42

@ChickenT2b I haven’t been taking it! I get really stressed about waking up within the window and being asleep for a full four hours that I end up having shit sleep and getting a bad reading 😅😂 it’s really annoying! I wasn’t like this before the mc but I guess I just really want a sense of control now so I’m trying to focus on it too much!

eaaak yeah a little too early but touching distance! Ok I’m not losing hope just yet even though it was red 😅♥️

ive just ordered some first response ones to use! Please 🌈 haha 🍀 xxx

LuckyMoonstone · 16/11/2022 20:18

@mummatara bit of an indulgence but I feel like treating myself to Aldi’s finest offerings 😆

FfayeN · 16/11/2022 20:49

@LuckyMoonstone I hope the thyroxine starts to settle your cycles soon lovely. How long have you been taking the tablets now? Do you feel any different?
I had awful dry skin and fatigue and within 3 weeks started to notice a difference. You deserve to treat yourself and enjoy your advent 😘 xx

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MrsCristianoX · 16/11/2022 20:54

@bunnykins123 I'm symptom spotting like a mad woman. I wish I had your resolve 😩 my boobs are more itchy than sore tonight. Couldn't drink the coffee or eat chocolate again. But kinda perked up after lunch . No cramping since the crampy 2 days m, a bit of backache though. 🤷‍♀️ that's all from me at 8dpo 😂

FfayeN · 16/11/2022 21:13

@MrsCristianoX oh god, how are you staying calm 😬. I'm so looking forward to your lots tests this month, I have a good vibe about some BFPs! Seen too many rainbows for it to be a coincidence! At least, I bloody hope I'm right 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

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