Hoping for a BFP October/November

[Purple29]

Hi all just creating a new thread since the other one is almost full!!! Really really hoping this is our month, but not hopeful, DH is away with work for most of my FW and only comes home the day before I think I will ov. I've also injured my back!!!

AF has officially stopped so here we go again, cycle #13 here we go! 🤞

I should be cd1 tomorrow @kizzy97 so fingers crossed for us both this month xx

3dpo today! BBT has risen so confirmed ovulation for when I thought! Fingers crossed for this cycle 🤞🏼

Off to a cute little baby boutique tomorrow to buy for my cousin who has just had their first (weirdly ok with it) and I’m sure it’ll make me more wanting it to happen this month but hey! My mum deffo keeps dropping hints for a grandchild 🤣

Any ideas what’s going on here? I don’t seem to have got a peak, unless it was during the night? 🤔

@Bananatoast123 I’m finding it sooo much easier this time because I’m not obsessed with all of that and prams (I couldn’t WAIT to get a pram!) but now I’ve got one and already got all that stuff I feel like it’s going to be quite easy to hide it when I am eventually pregnant too 😂

@BCxx I have two kids and sooo excited to do baby shopping again!!! We need a new pram as got rid of old one. It was a bugaboo and we used it for 3yrs for both kids, so got 6yrs out of it!

8dpo and no tender boobs still. That is very different for me!!

@BCxx have you been quite hydrated? I’d probably say you had your peak around CD16 but keep testing incase it happens later!!

yeah to be fair 9 months in and I’ve never bought anything for a future baby, it’s never crossed my mind to! I don’t even look so today will be the first time since ttc I’ve stepped into a shop for it and I’ll have reason for buying!

@Bananatoast123 I probably wasn’t the first day but more so yesterday, I always get quite a clear peak but I think it must have happened during one of the gaps or I’ve just had too much water 🤔

Hopefully it happens soon for you! It’s so so exciting getting your 12/20 week scans and feeling like you can actually go in a shop and ask about stuff 😂

@Mummyme87 I no doubt will be too 😂 Did you have the double? If I was to conceive this cycle there would be pretty much exactly 2 years between them and we have a dog who I’d need to walk during the day with them. I don’t think a buggy board would do, especially for longer distances and for safety when it would be easier to have them both strapped in so I was thinking I might get either the baby jogger city mini double or bugaboo donkey but don’t know how long I’d use it. I can’t see my little one being able to walk the length of our dog walk til he was at least 3+

@BCxx me too me too! It’s our first and 9 months into trying and never getting a BFP it’s hard to stay hopeful and positive! I started bbt this month on top of LH and it’s nice to see my temp rise post O (4dpo today!). Really hoping this is our cycle!

Is there a due in July Facebook group yet? Would anyone like me to set one up?

@BCxx no, definitely not a double!!! I have a 3.5yr gap between my boys

There are groups already set up in pregnancy if you search. This group we are all still trying for our positives (we have had some lovely ladies that have got them so they might be looking for those groups too) good luck with your pregnancy, hope you have a happy, healthy 9 months x

@Purple29 sorry!

No need to apologise, was just trying to help you find what you were looking for. My phone wouldn't let me copy the link for some reason. Everyone is welcome on this group, we are a chatty, friendly bunch. 😀

Guys I am only CD10 but my period only lasted for 4 days. Is it possible to be ovulating already? I've got all the current feelings that I'm ovulating...pains are pretty sore! Opks say not! Barely even a line visible! X

@Krisnov2020 how long is your cycle usually? Definitely possible but would have thought opks would have risen, if you’re already ovulating now they could have peaked yesterday though, did you test yesterday?

Hi ladies so so sorry to jump in I have been really quiet because I had started ttcing after AF.

I am panicking because I have been going to the gym and today I have just seen I am spotting brown, I have just finished my period almost 2 weeks ago.

I was lifting heavy weights today :( 40kgs and stayed for an extra half hour, what if this is implantation?

Could this impact or complicate anything? 😔I am so nervous now. Or could it be AF back just after 2 weeks has that ever happened to anyone?

@Daisy155 I have had a little spotting around ovulation before, not sure if you're tracking but maybe that? I would have thought 2 weeks after AF would be too soon for implantation, but would depend on your cycle.
Even if it is implantation, if you regularly lift weights already it shouldn't impact a pregnancy, just make sure you seek proper advice from one of the trainers in the gym if you do get your BFP. 🤞 it's good news!!!

@Purple29 thank you so much that’s what I thought as well it’s too early, Today on the app is supposed to be my most fertile day, my periods are currently very irregular.

I will continue testing ovulation, I don’t know why I am spotting, I thought could it be AF again.

I had a c section 4 months ago and I don’t think that’s the reason neither I am not in any pain. I will continue monitoring. Thank you so much for answering xx

@BCxx yeah been doing twice a day since CD8 but nothing yet! I'm in agony tonight with it :(

@Daisy155 like ovulation bleeding. I had it this cycle. Also you’re very fresh postnatal still so periods may not have settled completely yet

@Mummyme87 thank you so much as well I think so too that the best explanation as today is meant to be my most fertile day, I tested in the morning and it was negative I will test again tomorrow morning and afternoon

I wasn’t aware of ovulation bleeding I have just researched and I have never had it. This is my first time having ovulation bleeding I have had pain before but not the bleeding

tba

I also had my ovulation bleeding a couple of days prior to ovulation

If this isn’t your month, will you try in December? I would be testing mid December and just thinking of all the dinners and nights out I would have to try and make excuses up at as to why I’m not drinking 🙈 I would only be 9 weeks by Christmas even from this month and was thinking would I just tell my friend’s if I’ve had an early scan. We’re at the age where anyone not drinking raises huge suspicion! I don’t know if I could hold off for a month to try again at the end of December though 🤦🏼‍♀️