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Hoping for a BFP October/November

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Purple29 · 11/10/2022 20:12

Hi all just creating a new thread since the other one is almost full!!! Really really hoping this is our month, but not hopeful, DH is away with work for most of my FW and only comes home the day before I think I will ov. I've also injured my back!!!

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Ballygowenwater · 25/10/2022 23:36

according to OPKs I’ve not ovulated this month yet, on day 20. Normally I’d have ovulated around day 16. Not ideal

TryTheNight · 26/10/2022 03:48

@buttercupbee I was thinking the same thing how it would be so fun to do an announcement at Christmas when ask my family is together. 🙄 Pretty sure I'm our because I think I'm hard-core PMSing. I am SO IRRITATED at all things life today. I feel like punching myself in the face I'm so crabby. 😆 AF due in 4ish days.

TryTheNight · 26/10/2022 03:48

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Houseonthehills · 26/10/2022 06:28

I got my coil removed on 20th sept, had bleed for 4 days in 25th sept and still waiting for period. Thinking that its just late as my cycles are messed up. Only dtd once and not trying didnt think I would be fertile so soon after coil removal. What will be will be i suppose, i defo dont feel pregnant

TulipVictory · 26/10/2022 10:23

Would you say this is positive ? I think I'm around 15DPO and now late for AF but if so, thought it would be darker? 🤔

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Houseonthehills · 26/10/2022 10:34

TulipVictory · 26/10/2022 10:23

Would you say this is positive ? I think I'm around 15DPO and now late for AF but if so, thought it would be darker? 🤔

Looks like one to me, fingers crossed. I have used first responce on my pregnancies but this defo looks like a line x

My2boysaremyworld · 26/10/2022 12:27

@TulipVictory looks positive to me hun, congratulations xx

My2boysaremyworld · 26/10/2022 12:30

So I'm 10DPO if I go off my app. Been having spotting since late last night and a bit more today. Got cramping too. Trying not to be too positive hoping it's implantation bleeding just thinking knowing my luck it's my AF coming early. Anyone else had something similar before and got a BFP? Xx

Butterfliesandroses · 26/10/2022 13:58

Looks positive to me @TulipVictory ! Congratulations xx

821k · 26/10/2022 14:03

Congratulations @TulipVictory I am 5dpo and I have been feeling bloated and sore boobs and cramping and feeling sick and going to the toilet also increased discharge 🤞 crossed that I am pregnant with our rainbow 🌈 baby I miss carried at 5 weeks and 2 days at the beginning of October I am going to test next Saturday which I will be 15 dpo then and congratulations to everyone who got a BFP and sorry for those who got AF xx

Butterfliesandroses · 26/10/2022 14:03

Obviously I couldn't wait til Friday/Saturday to retest and this morning I have a super, super, very, very faint line on my FRER. I've attached a picture but it's very faint and only really visible in real life. Everything crossed that it is positive and tomorrow it will be a clear line 🤞

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Olegia · 26/10/2022 14:05

@TulipVictory looks strongly positive to me! :)

I have a question you girls may be able to help with, (Maybe TMI), but when I just went to check internally to see my CM, I noticed there was kind of white pieces of what looks like skin/vagina wall? There wasn't much of it, and it isn't accompanied by smell or itching, so I don't think it's an infection, but have you every had that?
I assume it to be cells that are being shed from the vagina

UserL95 · 26/10/2022 14:10

@TulipVictory @Butterfliesandroses congratulations to you both!! I can definitely see the lines.

im 8dpo today have have been testing negative since 6dpo (not surprising). Really hope this is our month (on cycle 7 of tracking after 3 months of hoping for the best). Feel like I’m going crazy this month in the tww

kizzy97 · 26/10/2022 15:50

Boobs have been killing me and still getting the odd twinge in my lower stomach, really really trying not to get my hopes up

Giraffe2205 · 26/10/2022 17:36

Trying to conceive baby #3 had a loss in august and now on cycle day 4 of my second period since so I hope to ovulate around 8/9/10 nov but may be abit later as my last cycle was 37. But before it was very regular and I knew when I was ovulating as got pregnant on the first try! Hoping for the same again. Fingers crossed for us all. x

buttercupbee · 26/10/2022 19:53

@Sparklythings1 we got married earlier this year too! The questions have already started as to when we’ll be having a baby, I just want to shout at people “we’re trying!!!” But obviously I don’t, just smile and say not just yet.
Haha I’m the same, last time I saw in laws was during the tww so I didn’t drink (made up excuse about headache and work the next day). We’re out with them again this weekend and I’m sure they’ll be disappointed to see me drinking now AF is here 🙈

Newnormal1 · 26/10/2022 20:36

ScaredSally · 15/10/2022 09:11

Jumping on here but really don't know how I feel about a potential BFP, lost my little boy at the end of July at 32weeks... we aren't trying but had unprotected sex around the time I think I ovulated (my bodies still abit messed up so can't be sure) I want so much to bring a baby home but am utterly terrified I'm still so heartbroken, my little boy was perfect

@ScaredSally I’ve just read this. I went though something similar at 22 weeks for my little girl, planning a funeral etc was horrific. I fell pregnant 4 months later and it’s been a rough ride but my little girl was born recently and all is well. Things do get better, though the next 9 months will provide emotions you didn’t know existed. Please message if you need anyone to talk/vent to xx

Sparklythings1 · 26/10/2022 21:26

@buttercupbee it’s so rude that people ask but it’s unbelievable how many people think it’s okay to say it 🙈 I drank in the tww last time (in the first week), figured I wouldn’t actually be ‘pregnant’ until at least a week in anyway so did have a glass of wine one night in case it was my last chance (how wrong was I? 🤣)

Sparklythings1 · 26/10/2022 21:27

@Butterfliesandroses congratulations 🎉 I can definitely see it!

SaraSS · 26/10/2022 21:44

Hi everyone. Just hopping on this thread if that's Ok?
I'm on and off these threads, I do like reading through the messages - congrats to all the BFPs so far!
Sending baby dust to those in waiting 💕
I'm about 18 months ish into TTC, no BFPs yet.. fertility tests ongoing but so so slow, still waiting on blood test results that were taken in Aug..
Just about to try some new fertility vitamins - Conceive Plus Ovulation Support. Anyone tried it?

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Sparklythings1 · 26/10/2022 21:49

@SaraSS I’ve not but I did look at them today.. is there a reason you want to take them? Are you ovulating mid cycle and having a normal luteal phase? I was looking at them as they came up when I searched one I’d seen recommended (upspring fertility plus) but it seemed maca root was the main thing in it that you’d need so I ended up ordering that on its own. Hope you’re lucky soon

SaraSS · 26/10/2022 21:59

@Sparklythings1 my GP did 'day 21' tests which were low, so potentially I'm not fully ovulating. I'm waiting on the day 3-5 tests through the specialist at the fertility clinic but I could be in for a long wait still so thought I would try something.. although I'm not expecting much as they are just over the counter vitamins.. the reviews are good, but it's not cheap £25 for a months worth.

Sparklythings1 · 26/10/2022 22:04

@SaraSS on the video I watched this afternoon it said a lot of people actually have a vitamin D deficiency and don’t know, sometimes the vitamin d in a prenatal vitamin isn’t enough to make it up. I’m taking vitamin C too. Another video I watched (I watch a lot 🤣) was a woman who had TTC for years and wasn’t ovulating until really late so it meant she ended up with a short LP. She took the maca root and ended up ovulating on day 14 for the first time and conceived that month. So I thought it’s worth a try! They all add up though and I feel like I’m having to constantly remember to take something else

SaraSS · 26/10/2022 22:20

@Sparklythings1
Thanks for the tip.. I've just ordered some Maca Root to add into the mix!
I also already take vitamin D and magnesium - but that's for migraines, which my GP assures me the magnesium won't impact fertility. I have a little pill box to keep me organised!
It's interesting hearing about people's experiences with different vitamins etc but I'm also trying not to get my hopes up.. every cycle I get just as disappointed.