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Hoping for BFP September/October

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mamazac · 02/09/2022 19:12

Follow on thread from the previous one, will take as many as I can remember!

@Baby3herewego
@BellaTheDarkOverlord
@EdinburghGirl1
@Missgemini
@kizzy97
@Missgemini
@My2boysaremyworld

Fingers crossed for more BFP's!

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TryTheNight · 23/09/2022 18:39

@Peasinapod1 I'm still in limbo. 🤦‍♀️ Idk how you can retain from testing. I've been a maniac. I have a wedding to go to tomorrow, so I'd rather know before then. That way when people ask "when are you having kids" I'll know what my body is doing even though I wouldn't answer them either way. Because it sucks to ask people that question.

Mannymoomin · 23/09/2022 19:18

Hello everyone , hope you don’t mind me joining in.
I’m actually 4DPO but counting myself out as we only dtd once and it was 36hrs after static smiley.
So I am eagerly awaiting for AF so we can start tracking properly from next cycle, we’re ttc no4 but my dc are all secondary/A level age.
We’ve only just decided to ttc again but the thought of it is making me very broody, something I never thought I’d say again.

Peasinapod1 · 23/09/2022 21:50

@TryTheNight I do not. I poas today of course and totally stark white again…

I sorry you are even having to think of preparing to answer that, such a thoughtless question but most likely from someone who has never TTC.

I keep thinking AF is here but not even a spot. Just want to get on with it now. I’m pretty sure I’m out given no symptoms.

Are you testing again tomorrow pre-wedding? If so I have everything crossed for you xxx

DiscipleMama · 24/09/2022 04:23

Can I join? 1dpo only. First time taking the plunge after having two children 8+ years ago. I know how hard it can be for some women so I feel for you that have had ongoing struggles.
Now that I'm closer to 40 I'm aware my chances may be much lower. And I have some other challenges which mean some might think I'm mad to be considering another, but here we are.

A bit late to the conversation but, for the record, I did get my first TTC BFP at 8dpo but I don't don't think that's common. I think I only tested due to possible implantation spotting. Was about 10dpo with second.

Wishing you all the best!

DiscipleMama · 24/09/2022 04:34

Looking back at my charts, it was prob 9dpo and 12dpo actually.

ChampiSkips · 24/09/2022 07:22

@DiscipleMama that's really helpful! Welcome :) Fingers crossed that it's straightforward for you. I'm 14dpo and had early signs of AF late last night so I think I'm out for this month. Need to book a blood test to re-test my FSH - it was low last time but I tested too early because AF was being difficult and showed up late!

december2020 · 24/09/2022 08:17

Thank you @My2boysaremyworld ! You too! xxx

Another day, another BFN and no AF. Gah!
I'm hoping one of them would turn up soon...

DiscipleMama · 24/09/2022 08:51

Waiting/anticipation can feel so painful.
Hope you know, one way or another, soon!

Ballygowenwater · 24/09/2022 09:29

Absolutely mad week away for work this week, and I forgot to bring my ovulation tests with me. 90% sure I ovulated while I was away though due to CM so that’s probably me out for this month.

congrats to those of you who got your BFPs this month.

TryTheNight · 24/09/2022 10:11

@Peasinapod1 yes, I'll test again before the wedding. I don't drink anyways, so at least I don't have to worry about that one way or the other. I'm with you. I also keep thinking I'm getting AF but it hasn't happened yet.

I mean... the family (my boyfriend's) has made worse comments concerning children/babies to me. So I'm feeling increasingly anxious about the wedding and trying to guard myself.

Baby dust to all!

My2boysaremyworld · 24/09/2022 11:05

@december2020 so annoying isn't it xx

Sclark2426 · 24/09/2022 11:10

Now starting my 2 week window after 2 miscarriages in Nov and May.
Is anyone else in the same window as me? 😊

Purple29 · 24/09/2022 12:22

I'm now 5dpo and its going so slowly this time. First time actually using premom and sticks cause I've been fluctuating between 24-29 day cycles so I just feel like I want to know when to expect AF. I am bridesmaid a week after AF is due this time!!! Its really getting me down cause its nearly a year ttc, really hoping it happens before December.

My2boysaremyworld · 24/09/2022 12:38

@Sclark2426 I'm at the end of my first week of the TWW. We had a miscarriage in April xx

kizzy97 · 24/09/2022 12:47

@Purple29 I know what you mean, after this cycle it'll be offically a year for me and it's daunting. I think we joined these threads together, hopefully it'll happen for us both this month 🤞❤

2 days to test day for me and the nerves are getting too much 😭

ChampiSkips · 24/09/2022 13:20

AF definitively arrived this morning so I'm out! Good luck to everyone still waiting and hope you get an answer soon xx

Purple29 · 24/09/2022 14:03

@kizzy97 yeah I think we did. It was October last year we started ttc again. Fell pretty quickly but obviously not a great outcome. I got my positive on 6th Dec, would be so good to know my rainbow was on its way by then. 🤞 for us!!

My2boysaremyworld · 24/09/2022 17:23

Aarrgghh so another thing for me to stress about if I could be pregnant!! My youngest has just had loads of chicken pox spots come out!! Xx

december2020 · 24/09/2022 17:50

@DiscipleMama it really is and I'm not the most patient person anyways 😂 what CD are you on now? 🙂

@My2boysaremyworld how are you feeling? xx

Getting some back pain and uterus pressure now, so maybe AF will arrive tomorrow finally. Let's see!

december2020 · 24/09/2022 17:51

@My2boysaremyworld aaaah no, that's so crap!! Hopefully not chickenpox!

december2020 · 24/09/2022 17:52

@My2boysaremyworld - d'oh! I didn't read that right and read chicken pox like spots!!

My2boysaremyworld · 24/09/2022 17:55

@december2020 yeah defo chicken pox!! So Iv been on strong antibiotics this week and got told to come off then when I said there's a chance I could be pregnant and now bloody chicken pox in the house! And I'm the one who will be with him 24/7. Xx

kizzy97 · 24/09/2022 17:59

@Purple29 it was October last year for us as well! Problem I have as well is DP is not open to seeing a gp as he feels we've had one so it will happen again eventually, whereas I've been finding and reading things about secondary infertility and freaking myself out 🙄😫 I have everything crossed for you this cycle 🤞🤞xx

@My2boysaremyworld have you had them before? I think you're okay if you've already had them xx

My2boysaremyworld · 24/09/2022 18:10

@kizzy97 yes apparently for only one day though my mom use to say. I never caught anything when my eldest had it years ago xx

LucyLoopyLu · 24/09/2022 22:54

@kizzy97 @purple29
Hope you guys are ok, trying for a year would be tough for anyone, I really hope this cycle is your time and sending you lots of baby dust

@My2boysaremyworld
Hope its not chicken pox for you, you poor thing seem to have all the bad luck at the moment. Hope your teeth are sorted soon too

I have been lurking here just following along but not posting. Just coming into my luteal phase of cycle 6 now 🤞 hoping badly for some luck this time

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