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TTC after Miscarriage Thread 8

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mummyofrb · 09/06/2022 13:45

Just starting this as last thread nearly full💕🌈

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LuckyMoonstone · 19/07/2022 11:41

@MrsGrealish no it’s been all over the shop the last 6 months, I thought I’d finally got it back down to a fairly normal time last month. I don’t want to go back to day 20 something or even 30 something 😔 yeah I slept terrible last night, don’t know what affect that’s had on my bbt though. My charts don’t look particularly interesting until O happens

theblueflowers · 19/07/2022 15:11

Well we've had a mare. Flight was delayed AND the airline lost our bags. What with the time difference, we got to our hotel absolutely shattered after 22 hours of travelling with our hand luggage that had absolutely nothing of use in it 😂 not even a toothbrush!

So DTD was the last thing on our minds. I also stupidly packed my ovusense and vitamins/med in my hold luggage which has also stressed me out, so actually have no idea if I've ovulated anyway.

@LuckyMoonstone that is so annoying about your cycle, hopefully ovulation is just a few days away. I remember that you have gone from pretty low tests to high quickly, so that could definitely happen again. I totally get it though- you then start stressing about when ovulation is actually going to happen which puts you in this viscous cycle of delaying it further.

Longbin · 19/07/2022 15:16

@MrsGrealish yes that was me, sorry to see you here 😔 I ended up going for a laparoscopy last month which was all clear, so it's my first and only month TTC again before I move onto IVF next month.

MrsGrealish · 19/07/2022 15:53

@theblueflowers holy shit..did you get the bags back yet?

LuckyMoonstone · 19/07/2022 16:02

@theblueflowers nightmare! Hope it gets sorted soon. Yeah mine does go up quite quickly so I won’t feel too much despair until tomorrow comes and goes. Hopefully get a repeat of last month!

theblueflowers · 19/07/2022 16:04

@MrsGrealish no! Hotel are kindly dry cleaning our plane clothes so we can at least get out and about. We're currently walking around our room naked 😂

MrsGrealish · 19/07/2022 16:32

@theblueflowers 😂😂 I'm so sorry but that image is hilarious 🤣 I would have an absolute meltdown if that happened to me 🙈

MrsGrealish · 19/07/2022 16:34

What is the supplement people take..I can't remember the name but first two letters start with 'in' like inexitol

theblueflowers · 19/07/2022 17:00

@MrsGrealish oh I was absolutely having a meltdown yesterday! I've calmed down now and trying to see the funny side of it all! I did have to moisturise my face with hand cream though 😫

I think you are talking about inositol. Lots of good things about it.

LuckyMoonstone · 19/07/2022 17:56

@theblueflowers well if you’ve got no clothes on then you may as well just get down to it while you wait 🤣

mummatara · 19/07/2022 18:14

@theblueflowers omg that's awful for you 🙈 I hope you get your luggage back quickly!

LuckyMoonstone · 19/07/2022 20:08

Aha spotted some ewcm this evening! Come on opks tomorrow 🤞

mummatara · 19/07/2022 20:14

@LuckyMoonstone whoop whoop 🤞🏼🤞🏼

mummatara · 19/07/2022 20:15

Those that has a scan post MC was it a transvaginal I think it's called? With the probe or abdominal trying to work out what to wear tomorrow 🤔

MrsGrealish · 19/07/2022 20:25

@LuckyMoonstone yay!! 😊

Indianna2006 · 19/07/2022 20:59

@theblueflowers omg!! No way. What a nightmare for you.

@LuckyMoonstone hahah laughed about her getting down to dtd tho as she was naked. Makes perfect sense!
woop for EWCM. I was gonna say to you have you checked up by your cervix as sometime it’s sits right high and doesn’t come out until a big gloop 😂😂
possibly your opk could peak tomo?

@mummatara I had trans vaginal afterwards so they could get clearer images. Didn’t matter what I wore. Think it was leggings. As I just had to take everything off anyway. But guess if your in a dress you just need to take your undies off 😂🙄

mummatara · 19/07/2022 21:01

@Indianna2006 thanks that's what I'm thinking a dress 😂

Indianna2006 · 19/07/2022 21:03

@mummatara or just go commando. Problem solved 😂😂😂

mummatara · 19/07/2022 21:04

@Indianna2006 🤣🤣🤣 let's hope it's not breezy

LuckyMoonstone · 19/07/2022 22:21

@Indianna2006 well I checked my app notes from last month and I didn’t note ewcm until the evening before the day of my OPK so it does line up for tomorrow. Watch me get absolutely blank opks all day tomorrow now 😆

bunnykins123 · 19/07/2022 22:28

@curliegirlie I saw your picture and got really excited, then realised it was from 2014 😂

@LuckyMoonstone I'm sorry to hear you're having a whacky cycle. Have you looked into vitamins to try and push it forward? I agree with @MrsGrealish regarding the heat impacting O. Plus you could end up getting a blazing positive over the next couple of days, mine always go from 0-100 in like a day!

@theblueflowers that's such bad luck! I hope you get your bags back soon and can put some clothes back on (or not maybe?!) You can guarantee that if you will O bang on the worst possible day. Have you managed to get much bding in before the trip? Hopefully you've built up some 'good supplies' 😂

@MrsGrealish ibiqunol? The better absorbed version of coq-10?

curliegirlie · 19/07/2022 23:39

@bunnykins123 ha, I dug it out as a good example of a blazing positive preggo OPK! Today, less so, sadly. I saw in Boots they had FRERs at £7something so I got one just to put me out of my misery after that cheapy, but BFN (albeit with the indent clearly visible). AF tomorrow or Thursday I guess 😩

mummatara · 20/07/2022 06:49

6 weeks today post surgery and I finally have a negative FRER 🥳 not even a hint of a squinter all that green tea did the trick!

bunnykins123 · 20/07/2022 07:08

@curliegirlie I'm so sorry it's bfn 😞 these indents on FRER are just awful! Was defo good to see that opks really do act as a preggo test though!

@mummatara yaaaay that's brilliant! Probably one of the only times we celebrate a bfn 🎉

mummatara · 20/07/2022 07:25

@bunnykins123 I know crazy to wish for a negative 🤦🏼‍♀️ I still have the scan today be good to see what happening in there