*The TWW States* 😬😂…. Here for positive vibes as we try to create new lives 👶🍼🤞… (Ttc #1 and cycle 1 continued)

[Newbiemg]

Hello!

Continuation of our last thread…

All of us TTC and in different cycles and stages of our journey.

Helping eachother through the TWW, through the confusing days of OPK/BBT testing and charts, through all of the symptom spotting, the dreaded arrival of AF and the BFP announcements! 😊✨

January was a very lucky month for some who got their BFP and some of us are ready to make February our month!

With giggles and lots of support along the way.

Welcome!

Oh I’m sorry. Has is actually arrived. ?
If so lots of luck and baby magic for next month.
I am sure I will be there with you as totally messed up ttc this month.
Had huge row with dp anyway and at times think I don’t even want another baby with you (selfish man)! X

Shes... "en route" shall we say haha, she will be here in full force this evening/tomorrow.
I'm ok now, was a little upset this morning but all good.
Now to just get planning/ordering bits for next cycle.
I'm sorry to hear that.. but we will be optimistic!

Sorry to hear about the row :( we all get like that don't worry! just don't dwell on it!! all the positive vibes x

@Maybebaby7 I'm so sorry to hear about your argument. So you think this month is out for you?

@RMS0209 sorry you're out, bur wishing you the best for March.

@Newbiemg let us know if you test over the weekend!

I'm on 3dp5dt, which is equivalent to 8dpo. Will test on Thursday. Trying very hard not to spot symptoms to avoid going mad!

@Pei86 Thanks for the wishes! Hopefully March is my month.

Eee, not long until you can test. exciting!
How are you feeling about it all? x

@RMS0209 much more relaxed than I thought I would be.

After the first round of IVF I only had one viable embryo, which was quite disappointing. So for me there's a lot at stake. I would do IVF again because I had a really good experience but it's so expensive. However, between work and life, I'm distracted and not losing it yet :)

@Pei86 well that is good, I am glad you are feeling relaxed.

Sorry to hear one viable embryo, but sending you lots of luck and hoping this is your month!
Can I ask how much it was just out of noseyness?
I was reading up on IUI a few days ago also, again just noseyness. I find it all so interesting!

Glad you had a good experience and being distracted definitely helps.. (note to self for next month!) but you should stay on with us these lot have been a good help to me the last 2 cycles
We also have a whatsapp so maybe when you are more comfortable we can add you too that too :) x

@RMS0209

That would be great. I'd love to join the WhatsApp group, thank you!

Of course you can ask. I went with Ivi in London, and it was approximately £10k all-in. If I had more embryos, it would have been cheaper in the long run.

Hopefully no one in this group will need to go the IVF route but if anyone does at any point, I'm very happy to share my research.

That's great! Well when you are ready you can send your number and I can get Soph to add you (do you know how to direct mail on mumsnet so its private) :) they are quite chatty... they WE I mean haha.

Wow, I knew it was a pricy process I just wondered roughly how much.
I have everything double crossed for you now.

We'd all appreciate it, everybody has different stories. We have somebody who is self inseminating she is lovely, very open and she is lots of help with her facts x

Feeling so rough this evening. Nauseas and, tearful and just generally not myself. It’s prob nothing but def feeling odd x

@Maybebaby7 ttc is an emotional rollercoaster for sure. Hormones and emotions all over the place. Hope you feel better soon ✨ … not too long left of the tww 🤞🏼

Oh no @Maybebaby7 what's worse? Talk to us!
You can private message on here if you want x

@Newbiemg @RMS0209 thank you both so much for commenting. I can’t talk to anyone else.
I guess I just feel really tearful one minute, very snappy esp with my 5 yo today.
I’m achy and feel hot & bothered.
I also feel sucky & burpy.
Really strange. What’s worst is me and partner aren’t speaking.
I’m sure I will be ok just stressed to be honest, How are you both ? Xx

@Maybebaby7 sorry to hear how you’re feeling and about your partner. Sounds like you need some self care and try and get a good nights sleep and hoping things are better for you tomorrow.

Just jump on here to talk or rant. Everyone in this group is supportive and will help if they can

All ok here. 9dpo and the tww seems like forever but otherwise I’m feeling alright thanks just abit tired this week x

Or as above you can send a pm and we have a WhatsApp group. We talk on both platforms.

Thank that’s so reassuring. You are a day ahead of me. 😊
I will get some sleep now. Self care is something I must practice and never do.
Sadly my partner is a very selfish man. He thinks of himself before us in many ways. He will be okay for a bit but then do something to knock me off my feet. Thought he had changed. This could be my one and only month of ttc with him at this rate. Big decisions to be made xx

Good night all 🥰

Good night. Hope you feel better tomorrow ✨

Hello all! Jumping on this thread as I'm 10dpo- bfn this morning but keeping my fingers crossed.

@PurpleOrchids12345

Hello all! Jumping on this thread as I'm 10dpo- bfn this morning but keeping my fingers crossed.

Hello @PurpleOrchids12345 How are you? Welcome 🤗 tell us about you xx

Hello! I'm 39 and have been ttc for what seems like eternity now. Have had 2 early miscarriages in the last six months so stress levels are rather high. Please tell me about yourself too x

@Mummabearrr93 tell us about yourself too!

@PurpleOrchids12345 welcome!

I’m 10dpo tomorrow so we’re close together in the tww! Very sorry to hear about your miscarriages. Fingers crossed for you this cycle 🤞🏼

Hello @PurpleOrchids12345
I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriages, sending you big hugs.
I'm currently TTC #1 cycle 3.. (once AF finally leaves!) this groups been a god send to me.
Hopefully they can make you feel the way I do.
What cycle day are you? X

Wish we could all meet for a hug & a cuppa sometimes xx

Hi, thank you for allowing me to join in. Me and my hubby have 4 children combined together, 2 mine previously, 1 his previously (who we have custody of) and 1 together. trying for our final baby, when the time happens we are staying team green as never experienced that before x

@Maybebaby7 Hope you’re feeling better today

@Mummabearrr93 what does team green mean? What CD are you now? Sending you luck this cycle