Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞

[Skl2021]

Just a 2nd thread for people ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

Tested again this morn. Don't think it's much darker if at all (although husband thinks it is) so not holding out too much hope! Although last time I was pregnant these internet cheapies took ages to go dark... who knows! Baby dust to everyone xxxx

@Bridgey8 that's loads darker! 🎉 how many DPO are you? Xx

@calimc83 16 or 17 I think. Ah do you think so? I'm not sure! My husband at first said today's was lighter but then I found out he was looking at the control line 🙄🙄🙄

Have you tested this morning @Skl2021? Keeping my fingers crossed for you! The second test definitely looks darker, hopefully you just implanted late.

DH & I are still DTD. I have a feeling I’ll see a temp rise tomorrow then I get to join the dreaded TWW club

Same here @Bridgey8 I don’t think mine is darker either comparing like this (bottom one) but I have found these tests darken after a couple of days anyway and looking at the picture I took the other day today’s seems a bit darker but it’s hard to tell!

I think I should stop testing now really and just try and believe that as long as I’m not bleeding all is fine! Trying to have a positive mindset and take it one day at time but still not getting my hopes up!

@JuniperAndTonic yes if I compare my pic of two days ago with today's there is deffo a bit more of a difference. Maybe they do get a touch darker overtime. When I zoom in I think there is a tiny difference now but you're right I think maybe stop testing. Will just do a frer and a digital when I get home. My boobs have started to feel a bit more sensitive now...So hopefully a good sign gahhhh. The stress!! Xx

They are definitely darker @JuniperAndTonic and @Bridgey8! ☺️

Have you tested again @Skl2021? X

@Bridgey8 @JuniperAndTonic my internet cheapies are driving me mad can’t tell if I'm progressing or not but yours both definitely look darker!

@Cruz86 sorry to see you’ve been down its awful and mentally draining, but staying positive for our rainbows 🌈

I can see some change in the lines @Bridgey8 @JuniperAndTonic. I remember when I had my son those tests were always the worst for progression compared to others.
Sorry you are feeling low @Cruz86, it’s so hard when you have no control and just have to trust that it will happen.
Well my miscarriage finally started yesterday, so onto cd2.

Thanks @Bubblesandballoons - so sorry about your miscarriage. Hope it's not too painful and you can look forward... as people keep telling me - whatever baby we end up with in the future wouldn't be here without this happening and when we have that rainbow in our arms we wouldn't change them - which always gives me some comfort xx

Apologies if what I said below was triggering for anyone... I just read it back 😳. Sending all you ladies love and baby dust all round xxx

#CD1
Now 9 cycles after my miscarriage, which I conceive after 5 cycles 😭

@Bridgey8 😆😆 men! Yep there's good progression there xx @JuniperAndTonic Yours are looking fab as well!! xx @Cruz86 have u tested this am?! How are u feeling? Xx @Skl2021 Hope all is ok with you? Xx

@BlueForYou3 Please join me in the 2WW! I'm only 2DPO and going crazy 😆 xx

Sorry for keeping u all waiting my anxiety is sky high! I'm so scared! I just keep thinking something is going to go wrong or it's not progressing like it should. How can I stop feeling like this 😩

@Skl2021 I'm trying to look at this in blazing sunshine so my sight isn't great. But looking good to me! I know the feeling - the anxiety is unreal 😱

Those tests are good @Skl2021! Congratulations! 🥰 xx

CD1 for me too @Nikkic2123. Af is officially here. I was sooo hopeful yesterday because my spotting had stopped and I felt a bit sick! Must be a sign of af being due so will keep that in mind. Sorry it's cycle 9 for you 😞

@Bubblesandballoons sorry to hear you're going through this right now. Look after yourself, it is tough ❤️

@Skl2021 ohhh that's amazing progression 😍...erm re the anxiety...gosh I haven't a clue what to say apart from take each day as it comes, you're pregnant..and just try and stick with that thought xxxx

@Skl2021 well done that’s brilliant

@Bridgey8 I know people mean well but I’d be really mad if someone said that to me

@Skl2021 That is amazing line progression! Congratulations I know it’s easier said than done but please try not to worry. You definitely have your BFP x

@Bubblesandballoons sorry to hear your going through such a hard time 💞 take care of yourself 💞 xx

@Bridgey8 I hope it gets easier I feel like I'm going mad. Always on edge. Xx

@Cruz86 thankyou I'm not ready to believe it just yet! I'm sorry af got you 😩 it's so hard isn't take care of yourself! Were all here if u need us 💞 onwards and upwards keep going xx

@calimc83 do u think so? I was expecting it to be darker it gives me anxiety 🙈 don't know if I should step away from them or keep doing them don't know what's better! Yes I will have to do that I just think I'm Coming on at every second 😩 xx

@PamelaDoov thankyou! 💞 hope your doing ok xx

@Nikkic2123 Hope u are ok xxx

@Skl2021 I know the feeling. If it was me, I'd probs try and step away for a couple of days from the tests if you can. Maybe speak to a midwife in a week or so if still super anxious and maybe they can refer you for an early scan if u think that'll help? Xx