Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞

[Skl2021]

Just a 2nd thread for people ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

@Skl2021 I'm sorry you're in that limbo. Not having any control over things makes it even worse IMO. Sending you some positive thoughts and vibes your way!

@Emeal123 sorry for AF showing up, I hope you'll treat yourself especially nicely today. Wednesday after all is the little sister of Thursday that is the small Friday - so more reason for wine!

Hey, I managed to sneak in DTD yesterday evening. But at what cost! It was late night / early morning so our friend who sleeps in the room next door would be hopefully asleep. I'm so tired, I can't desribe it. Ovulation should be today or tomorrow, so I think I covered my bases.

@Skl2021 argh! Good luck - do the longest hold possible, everything crossed 🤞🏻 for you xx @Cruz86 what DPO are you? Xx

Just catching up, sorry @Skl2021 that you had a bfn on the cheapies, I’m still hopeful for you that it will show on a frer still 🤞🏻.
@Ganesh2022 that’s nice your children can understand why you are sad. I took my little one to a local cafe with a childrens play area, it was hard as there were lots of parents with newborns, but he loved it so it was worth it to see him happy even if I was crying on the inside.

Nothing new here still waiting for my body to realise it’s over and bleed, hoping it won’t be much longer.

Well I don't think it's good news. No progression. Don't really know what to say.

First day back in the office today. I don’t really know how I feel. Like, alright but not alright at the same time. Cried in the toilets within the first ten minutes. But I’m ok as long as I don’t have to talk to anyone.

@Skl2021is the one below the most recent one?

@Skl2021 which is the newest one? How long was your hold? X

@Bubblesandballoons that sounds so hard :( Honestly I dunno if it was the right thing to tell them or not, but I thought otherwise they may imagine it's to do with them (they're 5 and 7). My son did say, well, can't you just try again while we're at school?
@Skl2021 I don't want to give false hope, and sometimes it really is bad news obviously, but one stick looks darker to me than the other?

@PamelaDoov hope today treats you gently xxx

Yes bottom one was today. That was fmu as I saved it in a pot from this morning 🤣🤦 might be like the tiniest bit darker if you look hard but surely it should be darker at this point?! I don't want to get my hopes up so I'm thinking the worst now. Never had tests this light x

@Skl2021 the bottom one looks darker. Your hcg might be doubling but still on a very low figure, so that's why it isn't darker yet. Do you have a chance to get the hcg in your blood tested?

@PamelaDoov sorry your having a rough day! Sometimes a cry is good let it out if you need too! Hope it gets easier for you xx

Sorry af got you @Emeal123 x

£21 lighter @Skl2021 oh dear 😂 the one from today is definitely darker!

@calimc83 I'm 9dpo today!

Hope your first day back at work is kind to you @PamelaDoov ❤️

@Bundaberg84 I'm 12 dpo now tho and af due tomorrow so I'm not very hopeful! Probably not my doctor's are useless 🤦 x

Thanks for all the support everyone 💞 I really need it xx

@Cruz86 absolute daylight robbery! I can get them on Amazon for around 6 I just can't wait that long 🤣🤦 how u doing have u tested? Xx

@Skl2021 I mean, implantation can happen as late as 12dpo, so I don't think you being 12dpo is saying much. I get not feeling hopeful though. For me it's easier to have a positive surprise than the other way round.

@Bundaberg84 yes just trying to protect myself don't want to go through that heartache again. Time will tell 🤞 xx

Thanks guys. Everyone is being nice. Some people are being too nice and have brought it up which isn’t helpful, although they mean well. I might do as much as I can today and then go if it’s really draining.

How are out bfp ladies ✨🌈 @Cindy974 @JuniperAndTonic @Bridgey8 xx

Anyone testing soon? with @Cruz86 x

@Skl2021 totally understand. Thinking of you and hoping for a sticky bean!

@Skl2021 bottom one definitely darker! Xx

@Bundaberg84 thankyou 💞✨ x

@Cruz86 1DPO today argh!!! Are u waiting for when AF is due to test? X

@calimc83 maybe a tiny bit! We will see not getting my hopes up. How are you doing xx

Morning! @Skl2021 I think that second test definitely looks a little darker, HCG doubles every 48 hours so it might be darker tomorrow. Don’t lose hope! ❤️🌈

I’m doing okay today thanks, I’m at work again but feeling so distracted! I also keep feeling really “wet” down below and every time I go to the loo I’m convinced there’s going to be blood but it’s just discharge (sorry if TMI!). I’ve stepped away from the tests for now as I think they just cause more anxiety sometimes but I’ll probably test again tomorrow as then my period will be officially late!