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Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞

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Skl2021 · 13/01/2022 10:53

Just a 2nd thread for people ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

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Cruz86 · 26/01/2022 17:05

Argh I know, it's just so disappointing. No not really 😩 Are you waiting til tomorrow to test again @Skl2021? X

Skl2021 · 26/01/2022 17:16

@Cruz86 yes I only bought 4 frer so i can't use them like I normally do! I should of got some poundshop cheapies or something I can piss away 🤣 but I don't know if I can handle seeing no progression! Just feel in limbo! That's a good sign then isn't it? Do u normally get af symptoms? I know it's so hard. Last month hit me hard when af arrived as I was so hopeful! We are trying our best don't give up the hope 💞 xx

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calimc83 · 26/01/2022 17:37

@Cruz86 you're still really early days, everything crossed 🤞🏻 for you xxx

Cindy974 · 26/01/2022 17:40

@Cruz86 you can implant up to 12dpo cant you? You’re definitely not out till AF comes x

Cindy974 · 26/01/2022 17:41

@Skl2021 I have been using my cheapies too 🤦🏼‍♀️ Today was my first day out of isolation though so I have been busy and not able to test as much so thats been welcome 🤣

Skl2021 · 26/01/2022 17:44

@Cindy974 are you getting good lines now? What dpo are you? Ohh yey isolation sucks enjoy your freedom 🎉🤣 x

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Cruz86 · 26/01/2022 17:49

Thank you all for the encouragement. Feeling down tonight now, I was so hopeful 😩 Will see how my temp is in the morning and if it's still fairly high, I'll test again. If not, I'll be waiting for af! X

Skl2021 · 26/01/2022 18:04

@Cruz86 were all behind you 🙌💞 some days are harder than others u will get through it! Xx

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Cruz86 · 26/01/2022 18:09

Thanks @Skl2021. I keep feeling little twinges right in the middle of my uterus as well which just feels like it means something's happening. So frustrating. How are you doing? X

Cindy974 · 26/01/2022 18:15

@Skl2021 Im 12 dpo AF due in 3 days I have a longer cycle this month after my miscarriage. My line is getting darker on the cheapies and I did a pound shop one that was 20mlu and another faint line Im just worried theyre not getting dark enough but I have quite intense nausea, sore boobs and lots of CM so I’m feeling hopeful x

Cindy974 · 26/01/2022 18:28

@Cruz86 routing for your rainbow baby 🌈❤️

Skl2021 · 26/01/2022 18:40

@Cruz86 I was the same every little twinge thinking could that be it 🤣🤦 I'm doing ok trying not to think about it and just expecting af tomorrow 😬 I'm getting alot of period pains now so don't know what to think xx

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Skl2021 · 26/01/2022 18:42

@Cindy974 ahh yes we're both the same dpo 🤦 my mind is like a sieve! Yes I'm hardly getting a line on the 20miu ones. What are the pound shop ones like? X

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Cindy974 · 26/01/2022 18:58

@Skl2021 same I think we are our own worst enemies sometimes. They are okay but the one I used recommends to test on the day of missed period because its not as sensitive, but I had a faint line on that midday with a three hour hold not sure if thats good or not 🤔🤣 I did pick up some early detection ones aswell didnt realise they were different they are 10mlu same sensitivity as my IC’s x

Ganesh2022 · 26/01/2022 19:30

@Cruz86 I’m hopeful for you. God the 2ww is hell on wheels...!
I have had awful period pains with bfps @skl2021. When I was “disciplined” (read: no tests at home) and didn’t test til AF due I had all normal AF symptoms x

Skl2021 · 26/01/2022 19:51

@Cindy974 yes that is good if it says from missed period 🤞 your making me want to buy some now 🤣🤦 need a stash! X

@Ganesh2022 I hope they go away 😬 making me nervous! I wish I was more disciplined 🙈 I'm terrible when it comes to testing! Should wait for af! Xx

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Cruz86 · 26/01/2022 20:56

Thank you @Cindy974.

I've officially turned into a crazed woman and done another test already hahaha.

I'm waiting for af too @Skl2021 but I still think your test will be even better tomorrow x

Cruz86 · 26/01/2022 20:57

And thank you @Ganesh2022 too x

Skl2021 · 26/01/2022 21:00

@Cruz86 haha 🙈🤣 u have the taste for it now! 🙊 I'm desperate to do one!! But I'm not wasting them frer too god dam expensive 🤣🤦 wish I had my stash still 🤔🙄 we can hope! 🤞 I just don't feel very hopeful xx

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Cruz86 · 26/01/2022 21:14

No don't waste them @Skl2021 😂 I've got the cheap easy at home ones so can use to my heart's content haha. I did just have a little cry though. This is more difficult than I thought x

Ganesh2022 · 26/01/2022 21:45

@Cruz86 god it's so hard wanting something so badly isn't it...and having so little control :(

I have zero discipline these days; I've gone through nearly an entire box of clearblue digital sticks even though I KNOW I probably won't even near ovulation for weeks AND I have a stack of cheapie tests...which I also use. I hate the person this has made me...

Skl2021 · 26/01/2022 22:26

@Cruz86 we have all done it! Sometimes it's needed makes me feel better! This journey is tough and has dark days but we're trying to get through to the rainbow at the end! I hope you feel a bit better soon 💞 xx

@Ganesh2022 think I started testing with opks from cd5 this cycle 🤦 don't know why and didn't even ovulate until cd 22 🙄 went through 40 opks. I'm ashamed to even admit that! I went crazy! X

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Ganesh2022 · 26/01/2022 22:54

@PamelaDoov you ok after work today? You might've said and I missed it; just thinking about you.

How's everyone else?

@Skl2021 it's just really satisfying peeing on sticks, right?! Do you usually ovulate later? I'm always day 18-21 plus (had just got it down to 17, which was amazing, then mc...ugh) and get so impatient with it all. Long cycles are hard for ttc!!

PamelaDoov · 26/01/2022 22:58

@Ganesh2022 I’m ok thank you, I feel a bit better this evening, thank you for asking. I was upset a few times at work but I took myself off to the kitchen or the loo. I left half an hour early cos I’d had enough. Thank god I’ve only got tomorrow to go. How are you feeling?

Skl2021 · 26/01/2022 22:59

@Ganesh2022 yes I'm addicted 🙊 never really paid attention until I was ttc. My cycles have been anywhere between 28-50 days! 🙈 Always ovulate on a different day. That's why I use opks as I never know when to expect it! Yes long cycles are hard! Feel like everyone has had there cycle and back round before u even ovulate 🤦 xx

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