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Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞

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Skl2021 · 13/01/2022 10:53

Just a 2nd thread for people ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

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Cruz86 · 25/01/2022 15:55

It was very light and I ended up doing a pregnancy test too hahaha. I'm following in your footsteps @Skl2021! X

Sparklesurprise29 · 25/01/2022 15:59

Congratulations on your BFP @skl2021!!🥳 you will be over the moon!! And to everyone else who has had a BFP in the past day or so! Really lifts the mood up😀
Spoke to GP this morning and it went well, he is going to contact the obstetrician for info around progresterone, early pregnancy bleeding etc.
Currently 2DPO so a long-ish wait ahead till I can test (unless AF appears!!)

Sparklesurprise29 · 25/01/2022 15:59

How many DPO are you now @cruz86?

Skl2021 · 25/01/2022 15:59

@Skl2021 oh no 🤣🤦 don't follow me Iv been in denial all month 🤣 your still very early aswell 🤞 can't believe I have no tests left this is driving me mad 🤦 I'm usually well stocked!! X

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Cindy974 · 25/01/2022 16:02

Ive been taking tests left right and centre 🤣 My ICs have been freaking me out abit though because theyre a bit hit and miss, I read the reviews and they are awful for them, its the one step ones. These are my FRER tests from yesterday morning and this morning, what do you ladies think do this mornings look darker? Im terrified of a chemical now and keep thinking I’m bleeding but its just lots of CM 🥴

Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞
Cruz86 · 25/01/2022 16:02

Oh amazing, you've had a good chat this morning as well then! Hopefully we'll get some answers soon @Sparklesurprise29. I'm 8dpo today.

Ooh you need to get out and get some @Skl2021! X

Cruz86 · 25/01/2022 16:03

It looks good @Cindy974!! Definitely progressing x

Skl2021 · 25/01/2022 17:16

@Sparklesurprise29 thankyou 💕🤞 glad your appointment went well! Good luck with the tww hope it goes quickly for you 🙌✨ x

@Cindy974 yes Ic don't seem to show progression well. But your frer is definitely darker 🙌✨ lovely lines! I'm terrified too 🤦 xx

@Cruz86 yes it's getting hold of the dam things! I have got some cheaper tests to try going to try againater see if I can get some 🤣 xx

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Cruz86 · 25/01/2022 17:36

Have you tested with any more cheapies @Skl2021? X

Skl2021 · 25/01/2022 17:38

@Cruz86 I'm at my eldest football ATM 🤣 and I had a wee about 4 so need to hold it a bit more! Maybe if I can get to 8 ish 🤦🙈 the desperation! 🤣 xx

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Cruz86 · 25/01/2022 17:44

Argh!! You can make it to 8pm @Skl2021 😂 x

Cindy974 · 25/01/2022 17:45

@Cruz86 thank you for the reassurance ❤️

@Skl2021 aw good well I’m going to get some pound shop ones instead then because they are hit and miss the ICs. Hopefully we are just being overly cautious and we both have our sticky beans 🤞🏼🌈

calimc83 · 25/01/2022 17:52

@Cruz86 😂😂 I'll stay!! X

calimc83 · 25/01/2022 17:56

@Skl2021 aww that's so cute! Good luck with the testing..did u buy some more,?! 😬🎉 xx

PamelaDoov · 25/01/2022 17:59

Urgh blank circle on OPKs.
I said to DH let’s just DTD regularly like every other day, and then he won’t have to know when I’m actually ovulating and feel pressured.

Sparklesurprise29 · 25/01/2022 18:16

@cindy974 that second one defos looks darker!! Congratulations 😍 the anxiety of waiting to get past AF day is so difficult isnt it😬 lots of CM is such a good sign too💕

Hoping for a BFP very soon then @cruz86!!💕 hopefully you're getting closer to that pink line each day💕

Thank you @skl2021, feeling good after the chat! Originally i would've been testing tomorrow but will put it back by a week🤣 How are you feeling?? 😍

Thats a good idea @pameladoov💖 it always feels more enjoyable at the start of the cycle when theres not as much pressure! Although that could be because of AF allowing a bit of a dtd break😅

calimc83 · 25/01/2022 18:18

Today's weirdness - warm feet/warm uterus according to Dr Google which is ideal for implantation..so..Got thick hiking socks on 🙈😆 xx

Ganesh2022 · 25/01/2022 18:26

@calimc83 my acupuncturist has said in the past that's a thing :)

calimc83 · 25/01/2022 18:27

@Ganesh2022 ohhh best keep these socks on for 2 weeks then! 🙈😆 x

Ganesh2022 · 25/01/2022 18:29

@PamelaDoov same, though negative pregnancy test (just about) so there's that. Funny, I love those silly smiley faces; I found them reassuring. We may also try to not be pressured. When I read posts that say "we just did it when we felt like it"...that seems ideal but...right now I never feel like it...it would never happen....I envy that they felt like it! But I may not tell my DH when I'm ovulating. I don't think that did us any good and led to several super tense moments.

Ganesh2022 · 25/01/2022 18:31

@calimc83 Why not. It's an easy win right? He also recommends using a not-too-hot hot water bottle on stomach. Incidentally his partner had her kids at 41 and 45 with what sounded like relative ease so he's also full of reassurance about age and laughed that I would consider donor eggs (for age-related reasons) at this time. So that's nice to hear!

Skl2021 · 25/01/2022 18:31

@Cruz86 in trying I wil hold as long as I can 🙌 x

@Cindy974 🤞 sticky beans 🌈 xx

@PamelaDoov sounds like a plan takes the stress out of it then! Hope ovulation is soon for you 🤞✨ x

@Sparklesurprise29 I'm a whole mix of emotions. Scared excited anxious don't know what to think! 😬 Just hope it's real xx

@calimc83 I have got some Cheaper ones but I'm struggling to find the frer 🙈🤣 argh !! Funny enough I have been having extra hot baths as I heard heat is good so good luck! 🤣 xx

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Ganesh2022 · 25/01/2022 18:39

When our grandkids are having kids, they'll laugh at things like peeing on sticks, right? They'll have tiny portable ultrasound machines and always know what's happening, and probably be able to regenerate eggs at the click of a button, and all kinds of things. This will all seem really old-fashioned and strange to them. Weird/distracting to think about!

PamelaDoov · 25/01/2022 18:55

@Ganesh2022 this is the first time I’ve ever used the digital ones, but I can already see how addictive they are. I don’t want to use them all up too soon by getting loads of negatives. Wondering if I should forget it tomorrow and do next one on Thursday.

PamelaDoov · 25/01/2022 18:56

@Ganesh2022 imagine if you could just take a little peek inside to see what’s going on. Would be so much less hassle 😂