Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞

[Skl2021]

Just a 2nd thread for people ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

@Cruz86 ahh that's great you've had some tests! Keep us updated xx

@calimc83 me too. I hate not knowing and feeling like life is on hold.

@Cruz86 so glad you got referral!

@Ganesh2022 how are you holding up? Xx

@calimc83 don't give up the hope! I had a shocking cycle this time and had this feeling from the start it was no good! You have done the hard part now! Just got to get through the tww! I'm crossing everything for you 💕 keep going xx

@Cruz86 are you still spotting? Glad your getting somewhere with the gp! Hope u get some answers 🤞✨ xx

@calimc83 Ah I'm quite down; finding this month hard for several reasons; also feel I've exceeded the "appropriate" amount to talk about this so feeling quite pressured to get back to "normal." If I knew it would all be ok eventually it'd be fine (ha, obviously) but being plagued with the thought that it just might never happen again. Then trying to temper that with, statistically, it probably will, even if it takes a while. Bah! you??

@Skl2021 thanks! I'm wondering whether a MN break might help me 🤷‍♀️..argh! Do u think u were more relaxed this cycle at all? X

@Ganesh2022 same, feeling down again! Urgh. I've had my peak OPK yest so most likely have ovulated just not feeling very positive at all. Want to just switch off 😫 xx

@Skl2021 wahhhh yes that line! Fingers crossed for darker lines all round in the coming days 😍

I didn't do anything that different apart from I started taking different supplements after my miscarriage (so on conceive + fertility support and then additional coq10 as my friend recommended this for egg quality). I also have used preseed both times I have got pregnant.

Xxx

@calimc83 I wonder about a break, too, not so much from a thread like this but the other googling I do "how long..." "when did you...." Ultimately it will not make a difference, just like googling about symptoms or lack thereof made no difference to the pregnancy that didn't work :( It's been lovely to see good news on this thread; fingers crossed we can add to it very soon.

Thank you all. Should get the blood test results by the end of the week.

Spotting is still there @Skl2021 but hardly anything now and it's just brown, not pink or red. And I don't feel particularly crampy either! I'm really praying I get a bfp by Friday 😩 x

@Ganesh2022 yeah agreed. It's just being able to fight that urge to consult Dr Google...😆😆..I want to just stop obsessing and over thinking x

I don't think we'll ever be able to stop turning to Dr Google will we 🤦🏼‍♀️😂 x

@Cruz86 😆😆😆😆 impossible! X

Hi can I join?
I'm not sure we are definitely ttc but we did half try last month but I keep getting cold feet. Misscarriaged in November. Wasn't a planned pregnancy but now we are hoping to have a child but many complicated factors surrounding it.

Big hugs to you all

I'm sorry you're feeling bad today @Skl2021 - I still hope you're wrong though. The two months I got my BFP didn't feel different than my other cycles.

I'm in my fertile window but only managed DTD once as we still have our friend living with us, and our apartment isn't big, so yeah. According to my app (I don't use opk since last cycle) I'd ovulate tomorrow, but I don't think we will be able to DTD between today and tomorrow. We'll see...

@Tofu35 thankyou I love that title 🤣🙈

@calimc83 noo u can't have enough Mumsnet 🤣🤦 I would miss our daily chat 🤣 erm nope if anything I have been more stressed with covid then long cycle late ovulation and all this testing!! Xx

@Bridgey8 thankyou I do hope they go darker I'm so scared 🌈 x

@Cruz86 brown blood is better right 🤞 and no cramping! I'm praying for you too 💕🙌🤞🤞 keep the faith!! X

@waffle222 welcome 💐 xx

@Bundaberg84 I may have just got my bfp! 🤞🙌 Good luck with the tww! It only takes one shot so your still in with a good chance! Xx

@Skl2021 I'll stay on just for you ☺️Excited to see that BFP get darker. How was your OH taken the news?! X

@calimc83 I hope so 😭🤞 I always said if I got pregnant again I would make the announcement to him special but instead I rang him at work balling my eyes out down the phone hardly making sense 😂🤦 I don't think he knew what hit him! I'm trying to not get to excited tho until I get tests so I told him I think it's a bfp but not sure yet xx

Hi @waffle222. Sorry to hear about your miscarriage. We're all here and have been through it so feel free to lean on us when needed.

@calimc83 don't go! 😂

Good luck @Bundaberg84! It only takes 1 time.

I think so @Skl2021, I'm starting to feel a little more optimistic now ahhhhh. How are you doing? X

😂😂 @Skl2021 bless you!! X

@Cruz86 that's the spirit! Don't be a negative Nancy like me 🤣 you never know I was convinced I was out so miracles do happen 🙌 I'm an anxious mess tbh 🤣 I'm just in shock like it's not real. Can't concentrate and shaking 🤦😂 xx

@Skl2021 Haha I am really trying to be positive. I'm absolutely shattered and struggling to sleep at the mo, but it could just be pms! Aww I can't wait to see your tests from tomorrow 😀 x

I've just done an ovulation test to help with the urge to poas 😂 x

@Cruz86 I might take one later if I can get some! Haven't managed to get out yet I need to poas!! How's it looking 🤣🤦 xx