Ttc after miscarriage thread 2 ✨🌈🤞

[Skl2021]

Just a 2nd thread for people ttc after miscarriage ✨🌈

@Skl2021 aaahhh I wrote the message before I had a call and clicked send around two hours later - and you already got your BFP! That's amazing!!!

@PamelaDoov I know! What sucks is unless I'm wrong, there's no way to buy new sticks but keep the handle?! They really know how to juice it don't they....

@PamelaDoov one day it'll be that way for sure...Just wish that day was NOW

@Ganesh2022 ohh really? That's interesting! Ha ha yeah I can just imagine that 😆😆 x

You need to do whatever is right for you and your mental health @PamelaDoov. I personally couldn't dtd every other day because that would be too much for me 😂

Thank you @Sparklesurprise29! My spotting is pretty much non existent now as well 🤷🏼‍♀️ You're finally in the TWW wooo! Not long to go haha.

Ooh yes, I've heard about that @calimc83! I actually wear fluffy socks of an evening quite regularly anyway, but I've decided I'm going to have a nice warm bath to see if that'll help at all!

Glad to hear your tests are nearly negative @Ganesh2022 (even though that feels backwards to say!). Hopefully you'll be okay to start trying again when you can. I also wouldn't be in the mood to dtd unless it was for good reason, so just do what you need to do!

So I've had bad cramps all evening and lots of CM (sorry if tmi) so im keeping my fingers crossed!! Too early for AF so maybe implantation cramps?! Normally my endometriosis is at a calm at this point in the cycle between ov and AF.

Gonna try hold out until Fri to test...the pull is strong but I know its way too early.

That's exciting @Passenger87! I have had lots of cm for a good few days now too so really hoping it means something. Do you mind me asking what tests etc you went through to diagnose endometriosis? X

@cruz86 fingers crossed for us both so!!

No not at all! I had symptoms since I was about 17, cramping so bad during AF I would get faint or throw up, bad bloating etc. It got worse and worse over the years until eventually the cramps could be anytime and I could bloat two Jean sizes in a day. Throw in pain and bleeding after intercourse and all of a sudden the doctors cared.

Had a laporoscopy, and hysteroscopy which confirmed stage 2 endo. Some was removed. 3 months ago it was upgraded to stage 3 when they saw my right ovary is now attached to my uterus. I know some people have gotten diagnosed from mri with contrast too.

So I couldn't get frer anywhere I went. Bought some cheaper tests which say there 20miu and there's no line 😭 wish I didn't test now feel broken xx

Oh @skl2021 don't lose hope! Try in the morning with FMU or see if you can get a frer in the morning xx

Oh wow, what an ordeal for you @Passenger87. Is there anything you need to do differently with TTC?

@Skl2021 are you sure there's absolutely no line at all?! X

@Skl2021 stay positive! If you have Amazon prime you can still get some FRER by tomorrow - jsut save your FMU in a pot and dip when they arrive 😂

@Skl2021 argh stress! Try not to worry...Have u a pic of the test? Our line eyes 👀 might be better xxx

@cruz86 not really. When dtd some positions are more comfortable than others. Also because of pain 3 weeks out of four if I get a bfp I need lots of regular scans to be safe.

For example a few years ago my gallbladder needed to come out but I didn't know as I just thought it was endo pain. For some people the pain can go away with pregnancy so that would be a serious bonus for me too.

@Passenger87 Thanks but I'm loosing hope 😩 I will try get one! X

@Cruz86 whiter than white 😩 xx

@JuniperAndTonic don't have prime can get some tomorrow tho just the shops were I usually get them shut at tea time today x

@calimc83 definate negative no hint of a line IV tried it in all different light and ways! I'm gutted it's just not going to happen is it 😭 I'm nearly due af my lines are faint might not even be progressing. This is rough x

I've ordered some cheap Amazon tests so I can test to my hearts content 😂

That's really interesting @Passenger87, thanks for sharing. I think I'll be investigated for mild endometriosis due to my symptoms but we'll see what happens. It's good to know there's not really much to be thinking about in terms of TTC!

What cheapies were they @Skl2021? X

@Cruz86 just some of Wilkinson own brand like a plastic stick. All I could get last time I got strong lines on them xx

@cruz86 what symptoms do you have if you don't mind me asking?

@skl2021 I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you xx

Of course not @Passenger87. The main symptoms are pain during sex, spotting for 5/6 days before my period, heavy periods, constant dull pains between ovulation and my period, and lower backache that's got worse over the years. The only thing that makes me question whether it is, is the fact that my pains are not what I believe other people with endo experience. They're not excruciating (first day of period is pretty bad) but there's just constantly a pain or ache that I can feel x

Oh man @Skl2021 I'm so sorry. It might just be that your hormone levels aren't quite strong enough yet, especially at this time of the day. Try another one of those in the morning and get yourself some FRER as soon as you can ❤️

@cruz86 I know some women who have hardly any pain except the first day of their period who have endo so would def be worth looking into. It seems to be different for lots of people. But luckily in the earlier stages it doesn't tend to have a huge impact 9n fertility in most cases =)

It's good to have a diagnosis though, I know I was getting to the point where I was wondering if I was crazy. I am...but just not about this

@Passenger87 thankyou 💕 x

@Cruz86 I did hold it for 5 hours so was expecting at least a faint line. 😩 Nothing I can do now anyway what will be will be. Feels like iv been on an emotional rollercoaster today xx

@Skl2021 don’t lose hope, hopefully your line will be there and darker in the morning 🤞🏼🌈

@Cindy974 thanks I can hope! 🤞 X