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Hoping for BFP's in January! New year; new start! Who's with me!?

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 12/12/2021 13:23

Hi everyone. Hope you can join me!

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AprilMayAnne · 30/12/2021 00:00

Hi ladies, please could I join you? 😊 First cycle TTC #1! I have very long cycles after coming off HBC (45 days) and it seems my ovulation this cycle may be extra delayed after recently having Covid. I'm due to ovulate this weekend but no EWCM or pains yet. Keeping my🤞 that I do soon, so that I might be able to test in January, and don't run anovulatory on our first go! 🙈

Nico89 · 30/12/2021 07:52

Well the spotting stopped by the end of yesterday... still got some mild cramping so half expecting there to be more today or maybe even early AF.
I was so up for a completely chill cycle this month and not symptom spot, why does my body do this?😅
I'm going to keep telling myself it's a weird messed up cycle and that I'm writing it off, that way if AF doesn't arrive by the time she is supposed to next week then I might get a nice surprise. (Best laid plans eh... in reality... knicker checking every 5 mins and googling whether you can have implantation as early as 5dpo whilst waiting to see how early I can poas)

mightbeyesmightbeno · 30/12/2021 08:12

@storkstalk

Hi hoping I may please join. CD 3 of cycle #6.

I’ve been a bit down over Christmas as I was so sure we’d finish the year knowing I was pregnant and unfortunately it didn’t happen. Have had a shitty year with work too and needed some good news overall so not great. Hoping 2022 is my year!

Mia-read this at first glance and thought you said you were trying for #6 😂
mightbeyesmightbeno · 30/12/2021 08:13

@Nico89 urgh I feel for you with the waiting game. Just try to keep busy!

Sassy144 · 30/12/2021 08:15

@AprilMayAnne welcome! I'm in the same boat as you, first cycle TTC and second since coming off HBC. My last was 40 days and I'm currently waiting for my ovulation again too. Trying to be patient but it's hard!

@Nico89 this all sounds pretty promising to me! I have my fingers crossed for you, try to keep busy!

mightbeyesmightbeno · 30/12/2021 08:16

As for me, DH has just gone off to work with no BD this morning and I'm away for 2 nights now (he will join me tomorrow) but we won't have sex now until probably evening of 1st. So MASSIVELY hoping O doesn't happen early like last month holds off until 2nd / 3rd Jan. Only DTD yesterday morning just incase of early O today or something so 🤞🤞🤞

arianasky · 30/12/2021 09:01

Aargh ladies I'm going crazy here took a FRER today with FMU it's a little darker than yesterday but still faint I'm either 9/10 dpo so till early I know. I'll post the three test next yesterday see if you can notice any different in the colours of the tests in person it is a little darker. Just to say also they're from different batches so surely I couldn't have three indents? So confusing.

Hoping for BFP's in January! New year; new start! Who's with me!?
Hoping for BFP's in January! New year; new start! Who's with me!?
Hoping for BFP's in January! New year; new start! Who's with me!?
mightbeyesmightbeno · 30/12/2021 09:05

Bugger, flashing smiley this morning, hoping it flashes for a few days! How long do most people's flash for? Haven't had flashing before - normally straight from empty to solid!

mightbeyesmightbeno · 30/12/2021 09:06

@arianasky I can't see lines on all of them. Remember hormones doh for every 24 ish hours so there is sometimes very little difference between days - try to skip a day testing now 🤞🤞🤞

arianasky · 30/12/2021 09:17

@mightbeyesmightbeno so frustrating I just hope it isn't another chemical 😔 thank you

claremc1983 · 30/12/2021 09:20

@arianasky your 10 is definitely a little darker than the 8....can you do another test tomorrow with the same batch to compare with your 10? X

arianasky · 30/12/2021 09:28

@claremc1983 thank you thought I wasn't imagining it well hoped haha! yes I have some more here I'll do no more now until tomorrow morning and just hope there's some progression 🤞🏻

claremc1983 · 30/12/2021 09:32

@arianasky ha ha step away from the tests ( well till tomorrow) 😆 good luck! Keep us updated x

arianasky · 30/12/2021 09:35

@claremc1983 😂😂 I need to lock them in a safe somewhere that I don't know the code too haha! I'm going to though I'll just worry myself otherwise, thankfully I'm back in work today so it won't be consuming my mind as much 🙈

ChaiLatte28 · 30/12/2021 09:59

@mightbeyesmightbeno I had a circle, 8 days of flashing then solid smiley on the 10th day! It was a drag. But if you don't usually get them then I would guess yours will turn solid a lot quicker than that!

ChaiLatte28 · 30/12/2021 10:00

@arianasky definite lines on all 3, fingers crossed for a darker line in the next couple of days 🤞🏼✨

claremc1983 · 30/12/2021 10:01

@arianasky 😆😆 you do! Hope work goes ok. I'm still not back after my MC..I need to go back but so anxious about it..x

ChaiLatte28 · 30/12/2021 10:02

@mightbeyesmightbeno oh just seen your previous message! Fingers crossed yours does last a bit longer like mine then or that yesterday was enough xxx

ChaiLatte28 · 30/12/2021 10:05

@AprilMayAnne I'm in the same boat as you TTC #1 cycle 1! But I've been off the pill for about 18 months now. Fingers crossed you ovulate this weekend 🤞🏼 are you using any OPK's? Flo predicted my ovulation day 3 days early so I was glad I used them in the end! Xx

Nico89 · 30/12/2021 10:08

I'm so done with this year now 😭
My plans to keep my mind busy over the weekend with having stuff to do have now been dashed by DH testing positive for covid-19, he is triple jabbed too!
Here's hoping I don't manage to get it again that's not the positive test I want lol 😅

DeviousImp17 · 30/12/2021 10:31

I'm 16DPO. Thought I was out for December. But AF is nowhere to be found. I'm waiting until Saturday to test, just in case I ovulated a bit late but I had the static smiley on the 13th December and assumed I ovulated by the 14th or 15th latest.

Symptoms include:
White discharge (TMI!)
Fatigue
Sore boobs
Bloating
Sneezing
Backache
Mild nausea/indigestion/heartburn
I can't eat much at once and I had a drink of Prosecco and felt a bit nauseous.
I had cramping and spotting about a week ago.

I feel like AF is coming but it isn't. I'm waiting until Saturday!

TheBirdintheCave · 30/12/2021 10:37

Hi :) Joining the January thread now. We’re trying to conceive number 2 with male factor fertility issues and were surprised to get pregnant on the first try. We got a faint positive on Christmas Eve morning but I started bleeding on Christmas day so we’re guessing it’s a chemical. I took another test this morning just to make sure everything was back to normal as my period was weirdly short but the line is definitely gone so on to the next cycle. Due to ovulate around the 14th so I’ll check back after that. Fingers crossed we hit the jackpot again and get a sticky bean this time :)

ChaiLatte28 · 30/12/2021 10:43

@DeviousImp17 wow you have serious patience! Any tips on how to resist testing early on? All those symptoms sound good to me! Everything crossed for you for Saturday ✨✨

arianasky · 30/12/2021 10:53

@ChaiLatte28 I hope so 🤞🏻🙏🏻

Mummytobe93 · 30/12/2021 10:55

Hello

Been a bit quiet as I really try my HARDEST not to obsess this month. The more research I do the more I learn how many things need to work just right to conceive so I’m not trying to get my hopes up as only DTD once in fertile window again - but we did it as close to ovulation as we possibly could (the night before)🤞

Nothing to report really, I’m only 5 DPO. Maybe just less CM, but I stopped taking primrose oil right at the beginning of my fertile window - I think it’s giving me early cramps in luteal phase which can’t be good for embryo that’s trying to implant.

I’m sorry for you and your DHs catching COVID, hope you all get well soon!
whenever I take lateral flow test at work all I can think of is pregnancy tests haha

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