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Lucky October? šŸ€

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Danani · 22/09/2021 20:52

It seems AF is coming to get me end of this week (Fri), so instead of feeling sorry for myself I’m trying to look forward to October and getting to try again! šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»

Anyone else with me?

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FlyOnTheWall89 · 01/10/2021 11:16

@PlantLadyMum arh congratulations šŸŽ‰ that is wonderful news for you and this thread. How long have you been trying? Any changes you recently made? Xx

PlantLadyMum · 01/10/2021 11:20

[quote FlyOnTheWall89]@PlantLadyMum arh congratulations šŸŽ‰ that is wonderful news for you and this thread. How long have you been trying? Any changes you recently made? Xx[/quote]
Thanks! No, I had an MVA for a MMC in August so this is the first cycle since I got my period back. We use the SMEP method, all 3 times it's worked first time, we are incredibly fortunate. Just hoping this one stays with us ā¤ļø

Vwhite · 01/10/2021 11:52

Congrats to @PlantLadyMum what a way to start the month 🄳

Thank you @Peauela and @Mummytobe93 for your help i think im currently 1 or 2 DPO depends on what app im looking at. Not sure if i can wait until when AF is due on the 14th to find out.

Lianna93 · 01/10/2021 13:10

Congratulations @PlantLadyMum !!x

CD 7 for me.
After having irregular periods since I started & my last few ones being particularly more painful than usual & my last one coming early, I phoned the doctors.
I'm in on Monday for my smear test & I'm being booked in for bloods & potentially an ultrasound šŸ™ƒšŸ™ƒ
Trying not to overthink it all but fully expected the doctor to shoot me down & tell me I've nothing to worry about.

All my apps are saying I'm due to ovulate next week but at this point, I have no clue anymore so think I'll just start testing from Monday & see what happens!

SammiStap · 01/10/2021 13:46

Hi all, just thought I’d say hi as I haven’t written on here for a bit.
I do pop on and read the new comments every day though.
Congratulations on your BFP @PlantLadyMum great news! I have those tests as well for when I miss a period.

I’m currently dpo 4 I think so just patiently playing the 2ww. I won’t be testing unless I am a week late.
If AF comes again I’m going to try the SMEP as it sounds good but we have been extremely relaxed this month and have DTD for the fun of it! šŸ˜‚

Baby dust all! šŸ€šŸ’–

MrsF13 · 01/10/2021 13:58

Hi Ladies!
I'm jumping over from the September thread is that's ok. Currently 4dpo, hating the tww already. How is everyone? x

Goodgoodthings · 01/10/2021 14:05

Hi everyone, joining as well from the September bus 😊 think I'm 10DPO but this is first cycle TTC #2 and first time using OPKs. Patiently waiting for AF to show up after BFN this morning.

Capricorn8990 · 01/10/2021 14:22

Following šŸ€ x

Peauela · 01/10/2021 14:28

@MrsF13 @Goodgoodthings @Capricorn8990 hello and welcome! Hopefully October will be lucky for us all šŸ€

BrownEyedSquirrel · 01/10/2021 14:29

Jumping on board! This will be month 3 of TTC number 2 and I'm currently CD5. Trying to stay calm and not get sucked into pre-seed/acupuncture/expensive vitamins etc. like I did last time. My game plan this month is to try and speed ovulation up by nursing DS1 less as I found through tracking that I've been ovulating late.

Danani · 01/10/2021 15:28

Oh hey! Hello! Welcome! Happy Friday! Happy October!

So happy to see so many new people join our little group - the more the merrier! TTC can be such a mind f*ck and also weirdly such an isolating time! So nice there's so many of us and people at the same stage to talk to!
@BrownEyedSquirrel good on you for being chill about it! YThe you from last time, is literally me right now Grin. I can't help it - I want it to happen NOW, we're trying for our first, and even though we're only about to start cycle 3 this month, it feels like eternity!

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Bridgey8 · 01/10/2021 16:04

Hey can I join?

I'm 13dpo but not holding out much hope. My boobs are hurting and my BBT is still up.... but other than that nada.

I don't have any test but just did an OPK and it was almost positive. How can that be?!

Xx

Goodgoodthings · 01/10/2021 16:13

@Bridgey8 sounds very promising šŸ‘€ I've read that OPKs can have strong lines at the end of a cycle indicating pregnancy but not sure how accurate that is - I'd get a test to be sure

Vwhite · 01/10/2021 16:16

Heya @Bridgey8 ive heard that it can be possible to use a OPK test for early pregnancy not too sure how it works. (Something to do with hormones i think) fingers crossed that AF doesnt show up and you get a BFP in the next few days

Bridgey8 · 01/10/2021 16:20

Thanks @Vwhite and @Goodgoodthings - fingers crossed but I don't feel pregnant - more like AF coming! Come on lucky October!

Peauela · 01/10/2021 16:21

@Bridgey8 hey! Are you waiting for your missed period before testing? I would test tomorrow! :)

Danani · 01/10/2021 16:25

Hey @Bridgey8! Everything you’ve listed sounds very very very promising indeed!! šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ»šŸ¤žšŸ» Keep us posted when you actually test! I’ve heard too that OPKs can show positive if PG! And the BBT is a sure sign if it’s still up! šŸ€

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Bridgey8 · 01/10/2021 17:06

@Peauela I'm going to wait till after tomorrow morn. I have my first netball game of the season so would rather not know before as I think I'd be reluctant to play if it was positive! Sounds silly I know!

Bridgey8 · 01/10/2021 17:07

@Danani will do! I genuinely just feel like AF is coming but you never know!

apwilso · 01/10/2021 18:15

@Peauela thank you. Fingers crossed for us all!

@PlantLadyMum congratulations! Sending you all the love!

I've had some symptoms and I'm around 3 days until my period so will be testing soon!

Peauela · 01/10/2021 19:41

@Bridgey8 understandable! :)

Hope everone has a fantastic weekend. Can't wait to see some more positives soon šŸ˜„

storkstalk · 01/10/2021 21:16

We’re on cycle 3. Currently CD 12 with ovulation expected CD14/15 so we’ve DTD every other day since CD6. Been doing clear blue ovulation tests but no peak yet!

BrownEyedSquirrel · 01/10/2021 22:31

@Danani I tend to stay relaxed for the first half of the cycle and then the TWW appears and I'm a symptom spotting, POAS addict no matter how hard I try to remain zen!

Danani · 02/10/2021 07:49

Hey everyone!

So, I’m trying my hardest to not let this ruin my mood but I feel so annoyed! DH came home from work yesterday with a bad back (the kind where he feels OK if he’s lying still, and everything else hurts!), so we couldn’t DTD. I hope this clears up for him pretty quickly so we can get back on track from tomorrow, but just feeling annoyed that it’s only CD 9 and we’re already NOT following the SMEP plan. Also feeling like a terrible person for being annoyed, I know it’s not his fault and I feel bad he’s in pain, but I had such high hopes for this cycle. šŸ˜”

Rant over.

Hope everyone else is having a brilliant weekend! X

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Firsttimetrier · 02/10/2021 07:59

Morning @Danani

Sorry to hear about DH! I hope he makes a speedy recovery.

I can understand your fears as I always worry that there’s only this short period of time of getting things right before having to wait a whole new cycle to try again.

I’m just waiting for AF to leave so we can crack on, but the days seem to go so slowly when TTC!